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Q: oh my gosh! thanks so much for the advice! it was really *GOOD* but one more thing, how should i let him know that i wanna be felt up...like say we are making out & im ready to go to the next step...what should i do?
He should do it in time... don't tell him because he might get mad or something! He will do it on his own

-Katie-

Q: hey do you have any tips on making out? how long does it usually last? will the guy usually feel you up? please answer my questions! thanks a bunch
Well making out... mine usually lasts about 5 to 10 minutes but it could be longer or shorter. It depends if you keep kissing. Well the guy might feel you up or just keep his hands in one spot on your body, maybe your back, your neck, or your leg! You usually kiss using your tongue, maybe a few french kisses here and there (the guy does all the work!) Maybe sometimes he might try to take your shirt off (let him if your ready for that) he might put his hands places like maybe run his fingers up and down your back. That is usually what happens, and usually after you two are done making out he is really nice and i really like it when the guy kisses me on the neck and this one time i was really tired after making out with my boyfriend and i fell a sleep on my stomach with my shirt off (bra still on) and he kissed up and down my back and my neck! So the guy is usually happy after words! That is it for making out.... I hope that helps you out!

-Katie-
....if you need anything else just ask and don't be afriad if it is a weird kinda question, i probably have down mostly everything there is to do with a boy!

Q: I luve my boyfriend Jason and I know he is the one for me we have been together for 1 year and 2 months and we have been talking about having sex but my parents are very strict and I can't talk to them about it so I need some help pleaze help luve ya!
Well if you think your ready and you feel you are old enough to have sex the go for it! Just be careful... you don't want to get pregnete! But i'm all up for you having sex and if you really want to then do it! Good Luck

-Katie-

Q: I have two friedns who are fighting. My friend Maddy hit my friend Katie in school. They aren't friends anymore. I dont want to be on sides, but i feel like i have to. Maddy says," I hate Katie." And i hear Katie say, "I hate Maddie." What should I do? I dont want to have to chose sides.

-Hannah-
Well if you don't want to choose sides then i am not going to make you! That is your decision and you can if you want but you don't have to. And maddie shouldn't have to have you choose either and if she makes you then she really isn't your friend at all!

-Katie

Q: first of all everyone was happy that i hit you and everyone congradulated me on that because not as many people like you as you think and i really doubt anyone wants to beat me up because i hit you they should have their wn reasons
Well bitch you know what i really don't care what you say because you know what know one likes you as much as you think. We are not friends anymore and we will never be! THe only reason why people were happy that you hit me is because they don't want you to hit them! So i think you should shut your damn mouth and get on with your life! I have. And if you say a word to anyone about me (even Candice!) i can report you for harassing me! So if i were you i would shut your mouth and never talk to me again. GOOD BYE!

Q: i didn't only hear this from christy but Jessie told me herself on the phone that you told her all that stuff and that got me in deep trouble with her and now she wants to kick my ass and I really don't want to get in anymore fights. You know as well as I do that I'm not a very confrontational person but I'll do what I have to do and now everyone wants to beat my ass because of you. Why would you do that to me ?
I only told her that you liked Mike and she knew that. She told Christy and then Christy told you! Christy makes up things and the only reason why people want to kick your ass is because your a bitch and you hit me! If you didn't hit me in the first place then only a few people would hate you! That is my advice!

-Katie

Q: If you have sex and the next day you get your period how high or low are your chances of being pregnant? There was no conterceptive used.Please let me know what you think.
you can't get pregnant unless you skip a period! So your not going to be a mommy anytime soon!

-Katie-

Q: I love my boyfriend so so so much but he's kinda insensitive and he's always busy or wont give me a reason why he doesn't want to meet up or anything. He talks more to my friend (who's in all his classes) and his ex girlfriend (she doesn't live near but he texts her all the time.) I don't want to break up with him even though I know he doesn't love me but I can't keep on crying over him every night..what should I do?
Well i think you should talk to him. I had the same problem with my ex boyfriend and i really couldn't break up with him because i loved him so much! but he loved this other girl and not me so we took a break and i sorted out what i wanted from hom and he did the same about me. Well i also talked to him about him wanting more time with his friends then with me and we worked things out.... but in your case if you both do talk then you get into a fight then you think you should break up with him DO IT and don't go back!

-Katie-
....if you need anything else then just ask me!

Q: hey this is kelsey... yeah umm.... what can i do to keep my rrelationship going with Chris? I cant never get a convo going with him. i dunno what to talk to him about. I try but it just never comes out right. UGGGG..... grrrr..... i need definate help. and what should i do with him this saturday? cause hes like staying the night at my house and i might go to the movies with him Friday night after ther game at some 2 hours away place but idk what to do... can u plz help me...
Call me tonight... and if you want to rite back...

Christine 724-593-5320 or 724 640-0189

love you like a sis
Okay kelsey, this is what you have to do... i told you this before! You must make the first move because he is alittle shy! And for the convo part.... just ask him things and be yourself! Good luck and i hope i helped!

-Katie

Q: For some reason pretty girls make me jealous. I don't have a man that I think they will steal but just seeing them makes me hate myself even more then I already do. There are only 2 things I like about myself, my eyes and my voice. But there are all these pretty girls out there and I am just not one of them. I don't know how to make myself feel better about it. I have tried making myself look good...but I can't even do that. Any idea on how I can get over this?! PLZ ~N~ thank you!

*~Carrie~*
Okay well to tell you... you are pretty and it comes from with in yourself! I am not pretty and i am sorta popular, well people tell me that. I am not as pretty as some people but i am up there. Like i said your beautiful inside yourself! Beauty comes from with in! Who cares if your not as pretty as some girls in your school (that is only what you think) Guys go for girls to their own type and you are the type most guys go for!

-Katie
.....if you need anything else just ask me!

Q: this girl had liked me for a long time. and i liked her too. we hung out a lot. then one night i asked her out and she said that sh'll think about it and then 3 days later she is goin out with one of myu friends. what should i do?
Well maybe she just didn't want to hurt your feelings! Its want most girls do....! So what you should do is, talk to her about it and then ask her what went wrong?! If she says she doesn't like you then don't worry there are many of us girls out here looking for someone like you!

-Katie

Q: well i just got my period yesterday and i wear pads but i have gym today and im scared the pad will fall out/off when we are running , ect! HELP!
Hun,

The pad will not fall out or off when you are running... beleive me i use to wear pads and they never did that, and they won't! I now wear tampons! Tampax Pearls actually! So if your that scared.... then try wearing tampax pearls!

-Katie

Q: Lately I have been hanging around a new group of people and these people do drugs and they got me started on them too. and to tell ya the truth i love them. I like the feeling i get and i relly like it but i'm loseing a lot of friends because of it. I know my friends wanna help but i like the feeling. How can i not lose my friends but still do what i wanna do ?
Okay hun.... i think maybe you should try to cut down on alittle bit of the drugs your taking. Since i have a friend that does it also i am really really worried about her and i don't want her to get hurt and i love her like she is my sister. So just try to cut down and your friends, if they are really your friends then they will stay by your side through anything!

-Katie-

Q: okay ive been going ou with a guy for 2 days now and i cant stop thinking about him..i think about him all the time everytime i close my eyes all i see is him..when we have to say bye on the phone..i wanna say i love you...but im not sure...could i be inlove??
It could be love or puppy love but to me it sounds like your in LOVE with your man! If you think about him day and night and he is everything to you then your in love! A little tip from me to you.... love is like heavan but it hurts like hell sometimes! Becareful... And GOOD LUCK!

-Katie-

Q: hey gurl. Its just me. god i miss Chris so fuckin bad. I get to see him tomorrow though. Cant wait. So i got a q for u. it might be stupid but idk.

How do i know when im ready to have sex and what not? Will it just suddenly happen or what? Im scared. I seriously dont want to loose him.!!:(
Please help me. (Keep Private)Please dont tell n e one!
Hun everything will happen when it happens! Just go with the flow! If his hand runs down your pants (lol) just let it run! No rush remember! If your not ready then just tell him. But if you are then it will happen unplanned! I hope you have fun with him!!

-Katie-

Q: Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody...
Hooking up to me means getting together with someone like boyfriend and girlfriend! So hooking up is like going out!

-Katie

Q: how do you get a yeast infection????????
Some girls get a yeast infection from wearing really tight jeans and then you can get it from not wiping to well.

-Katie

Q: my clit is a little bit brown at the end. is this normal?
No it is not normal! I think you should go and see a doctor as soon as possible! Everything should be okay just wipe yourself better down there! Good luck!

-Katie

Q: everyday we go to lunch and me and a few friends play truth or dare.. well like im never dared to do anything so im usually happy. i was dared the other day to kiss this boy jake.. and i did. because him and i have kissed before.. yeh sure its no harm done and we acted like it never happened. but my friends made a BIG deal over it for nothing.. what do i do to tell them to chill!?
Just tell your friends it was a kiss that ment nothing and besides it was their fault to dare you to kiss him! Just tell them to stop making a BIG deal over it because it is nothing just a harmless kiss! I hope i helped

-Katie-

Q: I am a cutter and my friends all say i should stop and blah blah blah... BUT I DONT WANT TO!!! And i think someone told my Guidance Couselor and i dont know what to do...? Should i deny all or what?
~Help me out!~
No it is best if you do stop. I know that is not what you want to hear but it is best if you don't do it anymore. You could bleed to death or hurt yourself really bad. I know i don't want you to die because of cutting yourself. Talk to your Guidance Couselor and work things out with yourself it will help you alot and it will make you feel better to get things that are bothering you out in the open.

-Katie-

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I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them like sex with my boyfriend if i think it is right and if i am ready for it right now. That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.





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Age: 15
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Dream Guy: Heath Ledger
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Fears: being alone in the dark and heights
Greatest love: Victor
Hair Color: Blonde
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Joys in Life: see above
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Music: country, rap, r&b and other
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Talent: erm...I'll get back to you on that one...
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Very Best Friends: Madeline, Kelsey, Cassie, Meagan, Michel, Brittany, Jasmine, Kayla, Jessica, Heidi, and Amanda
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