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Are there any Love quotes that I could use to get back up on my feet again since I just broke up? I don't care who they are by, but any love quotes feel free to post them. Thanks in advance. (link)
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"When you fail, get back up on your feet, and try, try again." Hope I helped.
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I don't have a friend with benifets/boyfriend/fiance/husband/guy that I am intimate with/anything like that. I don't want to go crazy by humping the bed. So what can I do to get rid of my hornyness? (link)
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Hey, you can get in my pants!
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I'd like to start a tradition with the theater that I'm in. Any good suggestions and ideas? (link)
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Maybe, every new year you can all get together and watch all the plays you've done and have a sort of party. It might be a little late, but you can still try. I hope I helped!
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There is one girl I like a lot. Everyone talks about me liking her around her and amongst themselves. However, she shows no interest in me and talks a lot with another guy that I don't like. Is there any possible way that I can get her to like me? (link)
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To tell you the truth, you can't make someone like you. But then again, you can't always try. First of all you can change yourself to be the type of person she likes. But if you ask me, I wouldn't because if she doesn't like you for who you are, then she ain't good enough for your high sights. I'm sorry, but that's all the advice I have.
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hey my friends going through suthing right now to get over a guy what are some songs that just mean "basically im over you and dont need you" because im really proud of her and i want to make her a cd of songs wtih this point
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I don't have a lot but:
Since U Been Gone - Kelly Clarkson
Fighter - Christina A.
Leave (Get Out) - Jojo
I don't want you back - Eamon
Karma - Alicia Keys
Burn - Usher
I hope I helped.
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OK, well there is this guy who i really really like and he has a gf. I really like him and i want him and his recent gf to break up really bad. Should i tell him i like him or just wait to see what happens? (link)
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I would personally see what happens. But maybe I would leave a few hints for the guy and a few traps for the girl. But that's just me.
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Im 14/Female and i havnt had my period yet. But i discharge...its heavy (been heavy) since maybe october. Not all the time though. Is it normal for it to be yellowish white? Because i will be in school sometimes and i will discharge and i will always look down to see if i had my period and i dont but its scary. When i do get my period and if im in school will it just come out when it wants to (like people could see it) that would be embarresing! Please Help Ladies! i rate high and give feedback!!!! Thank U (link)
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Of course its normal! You don't have to be scared. Just bring a pad or two with you just in case. If you have any more questions, you can ask me and I will answer best I can or you can go to http://www.beinggirl.com and find out for yourself!
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I want to get really really tan.. preferably by tomorrow but I doubt that's going to happen (although I am already a little tan).. so I lay outside on my back porch and tan, but it gets soooo hot out there, and I can only stand it for like 10 minutes, and then I have to come inside. So basically, Im not getting very tan that way. What are some ways to tan FAST, like does olive oil really work?? And no, Im not going to go to a tanning bed. And no spray on tans either. Thanks! (link)
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I've heard of a rub on tan. Where you buy a few clothes and then rub it all over your body. I saw on tv and you can probably get at those as seen on tv stores. Hope I helped!
~passionate
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My best friends obviously have other friends, but I get so jealous when they have a conversation and I'm not part of it! I get even more jealous when they hang out without me! I really don't want to feel this way but I can't help it! What should I do?
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Well, I only have 4 ideas.
1. Tell them about your jealousy, if they really are good friends they would understand and include you more.
2. Deal with it, though I'm sure you don't want to and that's why you are asking this question.
3. Make new friends so that when they are hanging out with other friends, you can hang out with other freinds.
4. Stop being jealous, though I am sure you can't since usually you can control your feelings.
I really do hope I helped.
~passionate
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My periods are very irregular, even though i've had them for almost 4 years now, my hair is falling out, im always tired, i get contipated and my nails are really weak. Does anyone what these symptoms could mean? my mum has a thyroid robleem and thinks i could have it also, i want to go to the docters but im terrified of needles, and they'll want a blood sample.
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I'm sorry, but I don't know what's wrong with you. Why don't you go to the doctor's? I had to go there once and they needed a blood sample too. When I got my blood sample they put the needle in my left index finger. But it didn't hurt at all. I felt so comfortable sitting there while they were taking a blood sample. And that's a true story. So try to overcome your fear and go to the doctor. If you don't do that then its your choice and I am not trying to tell you how to live your life.
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Hey guys,
My older sister wanted to know if a snake can grow it's head back if it gets cut off. She thinks that she heard that somewhere, but she's not sure. It seems to me like she's thinking of a worm or something lol. Her boyfriend was telling her that snakes can't grow their head back, but she was saying that they can. I wanted to find out for her. Someone answer please!!!! Don't make fun of the question either, because I'm not even sure if it's true. I sort of think it's true, yet I don't think it's true. If your nice, and you give a good answer I'll rate you!!!! Thank you so much! :-) (link)
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I have never heard that anytime in my life.
But I did hear that starfish can regrow thier arms. That's the only thing I've heard of that might have gotten her confused.
~Passionate
PS. I edited my answer just for you!
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Heylo everyone,
i'm going on hols tomorrow (yay) but my lil bro always goes through my stuff!!! i'm gonna be on my period so i dont want him looking through my suitcase like he always does and finding the pads. so where can i hide them? i've had the idea of like rolling them up in my socks but i think they might be too thick or it might damage the pad or curl it up and make it hard to wear? (link)
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I have a few ideas.
1. Hide them in you shirt or pant legs.
2. Hide them in your purse and take your purse wherever you go no matter what.
3. Ask you mom if you can put in her suitcase or her purse.
4. If your pockets are big enough, put them in there.
5. Lock your suitcase if you put them in there.
6. If you put them in your purse and can't keep an I on it, lock it.
Hope I helped!
~Passionate
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goes anyone know where u can get free music download cuz i want a alot of songs from korn and judest priest
- bri (link)
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Kazaa or LimeWire. Both are really good, you have my personal guarantee.
~passionate
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what is the meaning of life? (link)
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Go to a religious leader, like a pastor or a priest, and ask them. There are different views and everyone might have a different answer. You might just have to come up with your own.
~passionate
PS. I edited my answer just for you!
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Does this sum up what is going on, or did I miss something?
(This was originally posted in response to a question about why most people here are 13 year old females.)
Hello there,
I have been trying my best to figure that one out...
Have you noticed that girls will tell their dads things that they simply can NOT bring themselves to talk to their mother about? Same thing goes for boys. There is a definate lack of Dad type creatures around these days. Failing to have that person to bounce things off of, they ask their peers.
Why? Because, quite frankly, when you are 13, practically everyone you know well enough to ask advice. Boys and girls all the same.
The difference comes in that a boy can ask his mother: "Hey Mom, what can I do to impress this girl." Mom is a girl, so she knows the answer usually. Don't EVER ask your mother what a boy likes... :-)
A boy at 13 has a number of people around of the male type, varying in ages, which he can ask most everything he would ask a dad if he were there. Pastor/teacher/martial arts instructor/mechanic/barber, etc.
We wouldn't think twice about asking someone we hardly know if we should get roses or chocolate, do we look alright, etc.
People say men don't ask for advice... That's bull. You see, we do. We will ask, get the answer and move on. I remember hearing girls talk about what their friend said they should do, and their friend's friend said this and that and the other.
Men, are very simple in such respects. We don't intentionally ask people we know will give bad advice. If we have a matter of life experience, we like to go to people who have already lived through a few more things than we have. For example: Back when I was 12, I wouldn't go seeking investment or job advice from someone 13. Try 50+ They have already done all the career stuff and if they did it right you get good advice. If however they did it wrong, you get to find out what job you do NOT want to get into. By asking our elders these things we learn something either way.
Today we all have reduced opportunities. When you are little today, you can't just hang out with adults... The news people have everyone convinced that every adult is a predator unless they are your parent. Guess what? The last figures I saw indicated that better than 80% of all child sexual abuse is committed by one or both parents.
What effect has this had? When I was about 6 my Dad went to pick up something from an equipment yard. I went with him and noticed a guy rebuilding an engine. Dad went into the office to pay, so I wandered over and started bugging this guy. By the time Dad came out, I was learning how to use a torque wrench. (The thing you use to make sure all the bolts on something are tight enough, but not too tight.)
Dad asked the guy if I was bothering him. He said not at all, so Dad left me there to learn for about 3 hours. I got a lot of that. Dad was a fair judge of character.
Now, there usually isn't a dad at all. :-( Everyone is so scared of things that kids never get a chance to talk to many people wiser than themselves.
We have ended up in a place where the only place to get advice is from our peers. People your own age usually give bad advice about almost everything. Boys, girls it doesn't matter.
Right now, on this board, there is a 13 year old female asking what she needs to do to start having sex. There are a few people who asked her to think twice, but those in her age range were less concerned with her mental health, and more concerned she get an appropriate condom.
A 14 year old, said something like "Don't wait till you get old like me, get your groove on before you get too old"
BAD ADVICE! Down! Bad Advice, no biscuit!
Adults in general aren't out to get you. It's a fact. If your Mom gives you bad advice, it isn't because she is trying to ruin your life... It is because she THINKS WHAT SHE IS TELLING YOU IS RIGHT. It doesn't make it right. Not at all. Same thing for Dads. (Though I mostly see complaints about mothers here.)
When my parents knew I was old enough to think for myself is NOT when I said I was. It was after I proved it. I thought something my parents said was unreasonable. My dad told me to put it in writing. I did my own thinking on why I felt that way. Then I started researching the idea. What I found out was that my parents were right about that. I wrote it out and handed it over. It was after that that my parents KNEW that if I looked into things for myself I would come to the right conclusion. Even if I didn't like it.
Short version: You want to be treated like a thinking, well read, intelligent and wise adult? Act like one.
Adult life is a lot easier when we spend our youth listening and learning everything we can to make smart choices.
Here's another thought: Travel. Out of this country. See how the rest of the world lives. Most people buy clothes because they are durable, not because they are "IN" (for about a week.) Guaranteed to open your mind to a whole new way of thinking.
Over a quarter million people died in the recent Tsunami... The survivors have NO PLACE at all to call home. And the current threads here are: "Should I wear a thong?" "Where do I get Like size 00 clothes, that are, like, in?" I like this boy...girl, etc."
The best thing that ever happened to me was seeing that almost everything I had been told to believe was important: Cars, clothes, trends, music, hair, team choice, etc. was completely and totally meaningless when you look at the big picture. I would have been right here asking the same kinda stuff(boy version of course) had I not had that opportunity.
Ok, this became a rant. Not against 13 year old girls. A rant against what our society tells 13 year old girls and boys is important for them to be worrying about.
Back to the topic of WHY:
Girls, let me ask you a question: How many of your girlfriends did you tell about this site?
Now tell me how many boys you told about it? Did you tell them there was a guy with 20+ years of computer experience they could ask questions for free? (I normally charge $75.00 per hour in my shop.) Did you tell them there was a place to ask questions about cars and trucks? How about model rockets? R/C cars? Paintball? Airsoft guns? Model building? Sports? Weight training? Hunting? CB radios? Computer hardware/software/networking? Car stereo? Hydraulics? Truck driving scools?
Have you told a single boy you know about any of the things that HE might be interested in?
Do I see one hand raised? Ok, so you get a boy in here and he asks a question. Wonderful! What do most of the girls do? Make fun of him, laugh at him, tell him he is stupid or he would already know and CORRECT HIS SPELLING! I am almost to the point where I have looked at every question on this site. I saw a lot of that on my way through.
What do I do when someone asks a question I don't know the answer to... I research it and post links to appropriate resources. When was the last time you did that for a question you couldn't answer? Saying something "cute" or mean as hell does not encourage the participation of teen boys. Teen boys are actually quite insecure about opening themselves up to be called stupid, or made fun of. They don't handle it well at all. It just guts them and they are never quite the same.
Here is something to consider: You have this guy, who you really like. You set up a date. You go out and buy the BEST outfit on earth. Your Mom likes this guy, so she gives you her credit card, sends you to get hair and makeup done in the BEST place in the city.
So far so good? Ok, now he shows up to take you out, and when you open the door, he bursts out laughing! Pointing and LAUGHING AT YOU!
Your new duds may be stylish, and the hair may be the latest french design but to him it is hilarious. He doesn't know anything about french fashion, or Neiman Marcus so to him you look like a hooker in a clown suit.
How BAD would you feel? Would anything ever make you COMPLETELY whole again after something like that?
Same thing if this site offers to answer questions and then the people here ridicule and belittle the askers. Boys minds work different than girls. It isn't a bad thing, it is just they way we are wired.
I got an email from someone after I answered their question. They said they quit using the site because the response they got to a very well thought out question was: "F***ing Dumb*SS!"
I reported another place this person used the same abusive response, using the abuse report feature, and this was the response:
"Moderator Response
Submitted: by FrEe2bMe
Reponse: While K**************'s response was not appropriate, if you look at their over all rating it is only a 2.21. That is why there is now a threshold where you can set who you want to recive answers from Under Profile Setting adjust it so you only recieve answers from people like 4 or higher or whatever your comfortable with. :)"
This guy, yes GUY, 15 years old didn't know that, so he will never be back.
Did anyone step up to tell this person off? Did anyone else report it? Do you even know where the abuse link is?
It is up to the majority here to decide if this is going to be Advivenators.com or Abusenators.com
Since the majority here are 13 year old girls, I ask you: Which will it be?
DangerNerd (link)
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Of course, Advicenators.com. This is why we have a FAQ. Or if its not listed in the FAQ then we can ask it to the world and someone knows the answer.
Even though some people still abuse advicenators.com there are still the consequences of that. I'm not sure if I answered your question, but I hope I helped.
~Passionate
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Does anyone think that sex makes a relationship, or that it makes a relationship better? Why or why not? (link)
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I think that sex doesn't make a relationship, it just cures the disease of hornyness. Some people just want to get into everybody's pants and leave them begging for more.'
It might make a relationship better because you went all the way and you might know each other better.
But then again I wouldn't know for sure because I'm not the sex expert around here.
~passsionate
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I'm about to make my friend a cd and he said to put whatever songs are cool and new and I like all old music. Does anyone know any good songs that are r&b and are new? (link)
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Mario- Let me love you
Destiny's Child- Lose my breath
Alicia Keys- Karma
Usher- Yeah
Usher and Alicia Keys- My boo
Gwen Stefani- Rich Girl
Avril L.- Nobody's Home
Alicia Keys- If I ain't got you
Those are some good songs. Hope i helped.
~Passionate
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well, I REALLY like this one guy, I mean REALLY LIKE and I have a feeling he likes me too. I have two classes with him and he like stares at me, but like alot of the time, I think a guy likes me and he doesn't.... so I need like to figure out if he likes me, can anyone help me? (link)
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I'm in the same situation except he's in one of my classes. When I asked this question I got "yes, he does". I also personally think that he likes you, too. If you know that he doesn't like you then he probably was just lying, I do that when people ask.
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my friend just pantsed my bf and his underwear came down too! he's supposed to come over tonight...i don't know how i'm going to face him!!! HELP! (link)
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Relax, take deep breathes, and try to keep a straight face.
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i think my best friend is either bulemic or anorexic. she weighs about 119 pounds, wears a size 0 jeans and she constantly goes on about how shes fat. SHE IS NOT AT ALL. she graphs her weight on a chart (i saw it) and it's REALLY starting to scare me. what should i do? talk to somebody about it, talk to her...? please help!! (link)
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Just tell her how you feel and what you think about it. Also encourage her that she is way too skinny and no one likes bony people. (Or you could tell her that she isn't fat, but that's not as effective.) Hope I helped.
~passionate
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