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Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: student
Age: 14
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Member Since: July 7, 2005
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what are good types of hair gel/moose for when you scrunch up your hair and it makes it look curly/wavy
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Bed head hair gel for curly hair works
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ok i got some freckals but not alot i meen not to notice able but i want a fast and easy way to get rid of them, any ideas wright back AsAp (link)
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You can't get rid of freckals but you can cover them up with makeup
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When I would sit in the tub for like 30-60 minutes, I would notice that the water would get gritty and then I would rub my skin and it would come off!!!!!! Then there was a lot of DIRT or something on the sides or the tub when I got out, is this normal!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Thanks in advance for helping me (IF YOU DECIDE TO BE RUDE THEN I WON'T EVEN RATE YOU!!!!) (link)
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No its normal, your dry skin is just coming off, so keep taking baths because it is good to get all of that dry dead skin of.
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ok i wrote before about my mums friend and everything how he wanted me to stay at his house and stuff well now he said to my mum if only he was 20 years younger he would go out with me. My mum got very angry at him and shouted at him for saying this! To be honest with you i don't know what to think. He keeps telling my mum i am so lovely,he asks me to come to his house and stay there. He is in his 30s and i am 17! and recently he has been phoneing my mum more since he met me! is he a pedo? i don't know what to do i am becoming quite scared of him.please advice me. Thanx (link)
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Well i think that you already know to stay away from him and your mom probably shouldn't be friends with him any more. You both shouldn't answer his phone calls and maybe he will get over it.
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hi, this has been bugging me for ages. when i was 13 i got the chicken pox. i went to the hospital and was seen by a male doctor. he asked me to take my top off to have a better look at my spots. i had them on my arms and body. then he told me to take my cami-top off too so i'd be naked down to my waist. i cried but he insisted it had to be done. so i did and he touched my breasts...all this was to confirm i had chicken pox. thats not normal is it? (link)
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If you didn't have chicken pox on your chest then i don't think he should of looked. You can tell your parents but if it happened a long time ago there isn't much that you could do. but you should tell your parents so that you don't see that doctor again.
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is there any way to well.. reduce the size of my butt? lol. im a really healthy weight but for some reason my butt is like big, and im not anorexic. cause when i wear a bikini the top fits perfect but my butts a lil big. ill take any advice. but dont say wear a diufferent size cause if u saw me you would know i need a smaller butt? any exercises.. etc? (link)
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Some exercises you could do for your butt are....
1) Squats
Squats are one of the best exercises you can do for your hips, butt and thighs. There are many different types of squats, including the Chair Squat pictured here. Stand with feet hip-width apart and squat, keeping back straight, abs in and knees behind your toes. Let your butt lightly touch chair and squeeze butt to stand up. Repeat for 2-3 sets of 8-12 reps and add weights for more intensity.
2) Lunge
This lunge will really challenge you since you will use the standing leg for balance. Stand with left foot resting on a paper plate. Bend the right leg while sliding the left foot back into a lunge position, keeping the right knee behind the toe, torso upright and abs in. Slowly slide left foot back to starting position and repeat 8-12 times. Switch legs and repeat on each leg for 2-3 sets.
3) Hip Extension
Feel the burn in your hamstrings and glutes with this exercise. On a step or platform, lie facedown with hips on the edge of the step, legs straight with toes resting lightly on the floor. Squeeze the glutes and hamstrings and straighten the legs until they are level with the hips. Hold for 2-3 seconds, and lower letting toes lightly touch the floor. Repeat for 2-3 sets of 8-12 repetitions
4) Outer Thigh Leg Lift
Note--there is no true 'outer thigh.' When you work your outer thigh, you're actually working your butt! This exercise can be done standing or lying on your side. While standing, simply lift the leg out to the side, a few feet off the floor. Keep hip, knee and foot in line and foot flexed. Repeat 8-12 times on each leg. For more intensity, add a 1-5 pound ankle weight
5) Deadlift
Deadlifts are great for your hamstrings, butt and lower back, but form is critical! Stand with feet hip-width apart, weight in front of thighs. Keeping back flat and abs in, tip forward from the hips and lower your torso until bar hits mid-shin. Squeeze butt to raise back up. Keep the bar close to your legs through the entire movement--don't bend the knees! Do 2-3 sets of 8-12 reps.
6) Hiking
Hiking burns tons of calories because you're typically going up steep mountains and maybe even getting into thin air, which requires lots of energy. Also, walking up an incline automatically gets your glutes more involved and, if you're wearing a backpack, you're really getting a workout. Plus, you get to see nature at its best. A 140-lb person burns about 390 calories in about an hour!
7) Biking
Riding a bike is great for your heart and it also targets almost every muscle in your hips, thighs and butt. On a stationary bike, alternate 3 minutes at 70-80 RPM with 2 minutes at 100-110 RPM for a calorie-blasting 30 minute workout. You can also try Spinning at the gym or riding outside. Gear up to really work your glutes! A 140-lb person burns 335 calories in 45 minutes.
8) Running
Running, like walking is accessible, easy to learn, reduces stress, helps in weight loss, and it makes you feel good. Plus, it really works your butt, especially when you add a few hills to your regular running route. Sprints are another option for folks wanting to both burn more calories and tighten up the old tush. A 140-lb person burns 475 calories during a 45 minute jog.
9) Kickboxing
Kickboxing was a hot item back in the day, but it's still a great workout. Controlled kicks work your hips, thighs and butt while complex combinations that include punches will target your abs to make them stronger. A 140-lb woman will burn up to 500 calories with 45 minutes of kickboxing.
10) Walking
Walking is easy: you can do it anywhere, anytime with no special equipment. There's no learning curve and it's something you can incorporate all day long. If you walk up hills, you can really target your glutes and, if you pick up the intensity, you'll burn some of that extra flab off your buns! A 140-lb person burns about 300 calories an hour during a brisk walk.
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How is it that somedays I think I'm fat and then other days I look skinny?
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Not sure but it could be the clothes that you wear, some clothes could make you look bigger then others.
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im sure you probally have heard this question many times before but what do people usally use when they shave down "there"? like razor or wax? i would really appreciate any helpful answer, thanks (link)
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Either a razor or wax. it is your opinion because some hurt to some people but don't for others.
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what is a dildo.? i would appreciate any helpful answers! (link)
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Dildos are a rubber thing that are used vaginally, anally, or orally to tease yourself or basicaly anything that you would use a penis for
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ok i have a few questions..
what store can i find a vibrator at?
(or a dildo..etc..)
about whats its price range?
will they let 13 year olds purchuse these kind of things?
any advice on how i can purchuse these things with out my parents knowing?
if it helps: 13/female thanks for any help i can get! i rate! (link)
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You can buy them at spencers and that is the only store that i know of that you don't have to be 18. i think they are between $5-$15. Tell your parents your going shopping with your friends and when you buy it make sure you have another bag for it then just bring it in your room and have a hiding spot.
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well I was going with this guy and i had stayed after school and I had told my parents that I was staying for tutoring but I was really staying with him we made out but then all of a sudden he grabbed my hand stuck it in his pants I told him I didn't want to but then he let my hand go and then you know what happend I gave him a hand job I felt really bad I stil do cause you know I have parents what should I do (link)
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Well you should stop worring because it is over and done with. If you still don't feel comfterable you can tell your parents but just think that they probably won't trust you again. I guess what they don't know can't hurt them?!!
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i was just wondering wot do guyz chat about? do they chat bout gurlz? plz can sumone even if they aint a guy tell me plz i rate high (link)
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They talk about other friends, sports, girls, sex, and believe it or not guys do some gossiping!!
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Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either.. (link)
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Your bisexual. there is nothing wrong with that as long as you feel fine with it.
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Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do? (link)
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You have to respect what he wants and if you can't find someone else but if you really love him you need to respect what he wants.
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14/f me and my boyfriend have been going out a little over a year now, and we both want to have sex. we're both virgins, and we are very eager to do this. problem is, since were "so young" our parents never will leave us alone. we never have any time to ourselves, which sucks. i would like to know if anybody has a way of doing this without our parents finding out. thanks (: i rate high. (link)
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Your young what if you do have sex and he leaves you the next day. you should wait till your older and know the person your doing it with is really the one( maybe it will be the same guy your with now) then you will really know! if he is pushing you tell him how you feel and maybe he will understand and if not he isn't right for you!
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months, and we havent done anything sexual yet. all we do is make out ALL the time. lately he has been asking me to give him oral sex, which i am willing to do. the problem is, i have never given head before and my boyfriend has never gotten it before neither. i know how to give it, im just worried that i may do something wrong and my boyfriend wont enjoy it. if anybody can give me any advice id appreciate it. thanks. i rate high =) (link)
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Since this is both your first times he probably won't notice or know if you do go wrong. just have fun with it and keep asking him if he likes it. you will get the hang of it.
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If I finger myself, could I get pregnat? Or could I bleed or anything. I've never fingered myself in my vigina so I'd like to know the main side affects.
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You can't get pregnant from fingering yourself. You could bleed if you brake your hymen or if you have long fingernails and cut yourself or something like that.
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I know this is gross and stuff...but its true....i was raped by my teacher and he swore that if i tell anyones hes going to kill me and I see him all the time...like he is following me or something to make sure I am not telling...and so I dont know how to tell anyone beczuse he said he would kill me...anyone have any ideas...because i am scared to tell someone
plz help!
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That is serious. You really need to tell someone because what he did is not right! even if he said he was going to kill you i'm sure you won't and your parents probably won't make you go to school for a while once they hear everything. If you don't feel comfterable around him and you switch schools or would that be harder for you? i'm sure once you tell your parents he won't be able to teach any more. Once you tell your parents they will be able to help you and guide you. i'm very sorry that that had to happen to you :(
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Same poster as "Sordid Love Polygon."
I'm eighteen years old, female, and I was unpopular at my high school. Somehow, however, I ended up being friends with a lot of the football players. I got really close to one of them, Alan; he ended up becoming one of my best friends. He's the perfect man in every way--smart, funny, cute, nice--except that he's OBBSESSED with SEX.
Alan has a girlfriend, Bella. She's a nice girl, and I like her as a friend, but the two are toxic to one another. When they have problems, it's like all the life gets sucked out of him. They're really harmful to each other.
Even when they break up, he always has other girls in line... (Naomi, for example). He's got a reputation for being able to get anyone to sleep with him... sex is a huge part of his life.
Now that I've graduated, I find that I'm... in love with him. I think about him every day... When I’m not thinking about him, I’m thinking about these two characters from this game I like who are just like him and me. I really care about him... and I think he knows it, since I kissed him once. But he has a girlfriend. Even if he didn’t, I’m waiting until marriage to have sex, and I'm afraid he would convince me to do something I don't want to.
I know I can't be with Alan. I don't want to damage my friendship with him or Bella, and I know he’s not right for me. But I don't know what to do. These feelings I have for him are making it hard for me to deal with other guys, and just thinking about not seeing him every day in school is killing me. I guess what I want to know is, how do I get over a guy who doesn't like me anyway? (link)
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its hard but really how to get over him is time. try meeting new guys and keep busy with friends and family. soon you will find out that there is someone else out there that you love more then this other guy and will soon forget him, which is good because it seems like your better off without him.
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My dog has a hernia, will it go away itself or does it need surgery, can i do anything to get rid of it (link)
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I don't know about dogs but i'm sure its the same with people and dogs. they usually have to have surgury and have it removed. i'm pretty sure it isn't a major thing but pretty serious. you should take the dog to the vet for his opinion.
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