I'm a third year psychology student and i love giving advice to those who are in need of it but if you ask me a stupid question you should expect a stupid answer i love hanging out with friends and socialising i can be really conceited at times and if you get on my bad side you might wanna sleep with an eye open!
Altogether I would say that I am still finding myself and my place in this huge world, searching for the great amor and visiting beautiful places
so guys feel free to ask me anything that's on your mind and I will try to give you the most helpful advice
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o.k. so my boyfriend calls me hotie but i cant come up with a cute name like that for him. hes girl before me called him cutie should i use that. his name is greg but i want something that ends in "ie". we are both 13. (link)
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gregie, sweetie, baby, lovie, honey,
there isn't that many that ends in "ie"
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what is something sweet to tell your boyfriend? (link)
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you should let him know how much you appreciate him and that you love him and you feel lucky to be a part of his life and that you can't imagine where you would be if he wasn't yours
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year now and we have a pretty good relationship(: The only thing is that he friend requests a lot of girls on facebook. It bothers me that he does this but i see it when i get on his facebook sometimes. If he isn't trying to get with other girls, then why does he keep adding them? He friend requests them. (link)
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well sometimes guys just like speaking to other girls it doesn't mean that he's flirting with them, if it really bothers you so much you should speak to him because you certainly have a right to you've been dating over a year now, although you should know that this could create abit of problems as he's gonnna think that you're insecure and jealous but communication is best, don't bottle things up as it's just gonna make you hate him
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Hey Im 16 and a senior in highschool. I met this guy in an interschool competition. He's the same age but is a senior in some other school. We started talking after the competition and became good friends. We have gone out on three dates till now. And yeah, we have kissed each other and made out a little. We cannot resist each other at all. And hence the makeouts were a mutual desicion. I am falling for him. But the problem is that even though he says he is falling for me, he keeps on telling me he cannot date me cause he's a bad guy and he cares for me too too much to hurt me. He says he is not one of those dateable guys who will love their girl completely and he might find a new girl and dump me.That would hurt me and he doesnt want to do that! He hasnt had a past record of cheating or anything it's just that he tells me he wants to be sure before he asks a girl out that he will be completely loyal to her and not flirt around with other girls. He also liked this girl a year back and he says he feels guilty that he got over her and fell for me! But when we meet we actually act like we are dating, cause he gets me stuff, he tells me he loves me, we hold hands. we actually act like a couple in love. we also talk all the time. I dont know what to do. Because I really want to be with him. But cant figure out how to make him ask me out? and if he is really a bad guy? HELP.
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Tanvi. (link)
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firstly the most famous line a guy uses when he isn't interested in commitment is "i care too much to hurt u",or "i don't deserve you". So think, would you really wanna get serious with a guy that doesn't care, you should really get out of this now before you start falling even more and then it's going you hurt ten times worse.
the truth is that this guy won't love you after three days especially if he tells you that he can't date you, trust me hun if a guy wants you he would try his best to make you his, think wisely about this i'm just advising you and wouldn't want for you to get hurt
he's a playa and you don't deserve that, if you really wanna go ahead and try then you never know people change, why don't you just casually ask him out, as a friendly thing then as the date goes give him subtle hints and he'll get the picture, but one thing i guarantee you is that if you refuse to kiss him he's gonna leave( that's all he wants) good luck doll
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Okay so a few weeks ago, I felt kind of wet in my panties. I thought it was my period. But when i went to the bathroom to put a pad on, there was white gooey stuff in my panties. I have it everyday now. Is this normal? (link)
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yes it is normal and usually occurs before you get your period its called vaginal discharge
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okay so our school will be celebrating teachers day on the 17th because of the ongoing exams
as it is going to be my last teachers day in school
i want to give something to each of the teachers who have taught me for atleast two years now
i have a maths sir who teaches me and the rest five subjects are taught by women
any sugestions???? i need help.
i don't have a very huge budget. but i can splurge a lil'. (link)
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well why don't you try some homemade gifts? i know this is kinda cheesy but how about baking some cupcakes or brownies or a little cake and write whatever you want on it with frosting this would make each teacher feel special and it would be really appreciated as you took the time to make it and not bought something from a store trust me teachers like that kinda stuff it would mean alot.
or you could also make a scrapbook and get all the kids to sign it and put pictures so they would always remember your class, a bouquet of flowers would also be nice remember that it's the thought that counts and it would be really sweet because i'm sure that not many kids would do this for their teachers
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ok im 12 years old about to turn 13. I want to see a movie that is rated R but my mom won't let me see it, even though shes let me watch other R rated movies before. How can I convince her to let me watch it? (Please don't say that I'm too young to watch it anyway, I need advice not a lecture) (link)
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theres not much you can really do other than ask her to watch it really convince her tell her that a few people you know have seen it and it's not all that bad and if that doesn't work than the only option you got is to ask her to go watch it with you then she'll see how much it means to you
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Ok. So at school, not a lot of guys liek me or notice me at all. Can anyone please give me some advice on how to get guys to notice me and like me and eventually ask me out? (link)
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why not try a new hairstyle or some new outfits and guys like girls that aren't shy and afraid to socialise so you should go up to them and start a conversation this way they are noticing you and will eventually start talking to you on a regular basis and from there they will get to know you and i'm sure someone will eventually ask you out
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I'm just wondering if washing my face with a warm/hot cloth twice a day, will actually help me get rid of pimples, aswell as prevent them? If not, whats a good, cost-free way to get rid of pimples as well as prevent them. thanks for ANY advice :)
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i heard that if you crush an asprin and add a little water to make a paste and apply it to the affected area and leave it overnight this will help and yes you should wash as often as possible
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what song is this ... it sounds like linkin park but idk the name and here are the lyrics
theres a place so dark u cant see the end
skys cocks back a shotgun which cant defend
the rains sends drippin
a city questions forcefully
the power of suggestion
with the eyes shut lookin throught the rust and rotton dust
a small flash of light floods the floor
then the eyes ease open and its dark again (link)
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yip "forgotten" by linkin park, i looove it!
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I'm a 13 year old girl and a lot of times this happens. I'll be thinking of something then someone else will say that or for example I'll be watching t.v. Then I'll think of a movie like twilight then it will be on in like 20 minutes or I'll be thinking of something someone usually says to me but hasn't in a while then they'll text me and be like "oh I haven't said that in a while." if you no what I mean, I kind of think of something and then it happens, if that makes sense. Is there a name or something for this? (link)
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probably your instinct
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what should i do... my cousin keeps slapping me in the forhead and it's SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO annoying... i know he's kidding but i keep telling him to stop and he WONT! my gosh! i wanna kill him, i swear to God.! (link)
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threaten him first if this doesn't work then slap him back twice as hard or get some kind of blackmail on him
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Im about to enter middle school and im stressed out! any advice? (link)
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don't worry it's completely normal to be stressing about middle school because it's a new experience but trust me when i say it's going to be fine, i've been there and i felt how you're feeling but once i entered i felt really silly for stressing about it, just walk in confidently and strike up conversations, compliment people just be friendly and walk with your head held up
best of luck
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how can fuck at first time (link)
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come again?
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My boyfriend of 1 and half years was confused about what he wanted, and all he kept saying was "Im confused, i love you and thats why we cant be together :/" No, not a long distance relationship, No,both our families know and are completely okay, he just doesnt want me and doesnt know how to end it basically right? im not an idiot, im just wondering. thanks. =/ (link)
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first of all if you love somebody then you shouldn't be confused about whether you should be with them i mean like you said, you two are completely okay i think this guy is hinting you that he wants to break up with you because he probably doesn't have the heart to and expects you to do it, and he did tell you that "we can't be together" so don't even bother wasting your time move on honey you deserve better
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I hate my best friend, i'm not going to go into detail, it just all sums up into her being a bitch. Anyway, this is what happens when i get mad at her:
I'm nice, explain how i feel about the situation, ask why this happened. she doesn't text back for a few days, then pretends like nothing happened, i, just wanting to move on, pretend to. things go back to normal, another week goes by, she does something wrong again, and the situation repeats.
Because of this, I have a lot of anger towards her. I'm mad at her again, and i know in a few days she will text me.
Should I A. just never respond or B. bitch her out?
I am not being friends with her anymore (link)
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well when you guys had a problem you should have asked her personally instead of texting her, this is more effective and in that way she can't ignore you. For now if you do want to be friends with her you should explain the situation to her and tell her that if she is gonna continue acting the way she is then you're not gonna be friends with her and besides she doesn't seem like a true friend but that's up to you to decide and there are billions of people in the world that you can be friends with you don't really need this particular one
best of luck
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i want my ex back, but he said he lost feelings for me after i broke up with him. the reason why i left was because i cheated on him with my 1st bf. i didnt realize how much i cared for him until after i cheated. but i want him back, i can't live everyday like i used to when i was with him, he made me happy like no one else can.
so how do i tell him i still have feelings for him? how do i make sure i dont get hurt even more?
it's been over 2 months since i left him.and if it helps.. i'm 14. (link)
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the fact that you cheated in him will make him really skeptical about taking you back, i mean if you really loved him in the first place then why did you cheat? you have to put yourself in his situation and ask yourself, if you were him what would you do? Honestly the only thing you can do is sit down and have a heart to heart and tell him that you realized how much he means to you and these two months without him have been really bad, really open up to him and if this doesn't help then you don't really have a chance because two months is a while and it's given him a chance to think and he's probably even moved on, so from my personal opinion i just think that you should move on, 14 is pretty young and i'm sure there are plenty guys out there who will love you just as much just see this as a lesson, a mistake that you have learnt from
best of luck
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So I was on the phone with my friend and she said that I was naive and that's why guys like "messing" with me.(And no messing isn't used in a dirty way it's just another form of joking around I guess). Anyways I'm actually confused what does she mean by I'm naive and that's why guys "mess" with me.
And what does she mean by me being naive about everything (link)
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she probably means that you are gullible and fall for the stuff that these guys say, in other words she believes that you are easy to fool and will believe anything anybody says
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I am actually 13 but I started wearing a G-String(thong) when I was 10. Is that to young? People say that they are uncomfortable but I think they feel way better than normle underwear!
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10 was abit young but their just underwear and you're right they really are comfortable so you should wear what makes you feel good
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okay i was at a horse show and i met this guy who instantly caught my eye. he's so sweet and i instantly liked him. there's two problems though..one he lives 2 hours away and 2 i have a bf already that i have been dating a year now. what do i do? (link)
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well if this guy really likes you and you like him then the distance shouldn't be a problem, and your boyfriend, i think you should leave him now because if you're interested in other guys then i don't see why you should keep him around
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