Member Since: September 22, 2010
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Last Update: September 23, 2010
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okay well im 17 female and my ex is 15 male. (just putting it out there) laugh out loud bt anyways so me and him went out in like march bt it was kind of an on and off relationship like we kept breaking up for no reason some of his reasons were really dumb like one time he broke up with me because i wouldnt have sex with him what a dumb reason like omg ! bt anyways before skool started i promised myself that i wouldnt like him anymore and that i wouldnt let my feelings for him come bak. bt on the first day of skool when i went into skool i saw him and my feelings came bak ! is it bad to have these feelings ? and i still think he has feelings for me too bt im nt sure and i kinda kissed him today bt he kissed me well we bascilly kissed each other and i really liked it !!! i keep thinking about it what do i do?? i know that if we do end up going bak out that he will hurt me again or want me to have sex with him and i dnt want to.. im nt ready yet bt i really LOVE him (link)
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Honestly, I think you should move on if he can not respect your decision. That is very good that you are 17 and not giving into temptation, there are not too many girls like you these days. So you are a very special girl! It is definitely okay to have feelings at this point, that is something you can not help obviously so until you really feel like you are done with him what you are feeling is perfectly fine.
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my b/f and i broke up nearly a month ago, it was because he was working away a lot so we didnt get to see eachother so much. he said he wanted to think about getting back together i was very patient with him, i didnt contact him first, he always contacted me. but it got to the point where i just couldnt wait for him to play his games anymore, so i told him i hope he can make up his mind soon because i wouldnt wait forever for him. i do really love him but i just cant go on like this i needed an answer. do you think this was a good move or not? (link)
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Definitely... he shouldn't expect you to wait on him. Just because you told him you're true feelings doesn't mean that your feelings for him have changed. If he really loves you and cares for you he will be perfectly fine with your decision. I wish you the best!
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