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told him i wont wait anymore, good idea?
my b/f and i broke up nearly a month ago, it was because he was working away a lot so we didnt get to see eachother so much. he said he wanted to think about getting back together i was very patient with him, i didnt contact him first, he always contacted me. but it got to the point where i just couldnt wait for him to play his games anymore, so i told him i hope he can make up his mind soon because i wouldnt wait forever for him. i do really love him but i just cant go on like this i needed an answer. do you think this was a good move or not?
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well im just a kid so u may not wana lisen to me but if you really truly love some one u would wait a life time for them its just my opioion every one has one .... i know if i loved some one i would wait as long as it took as long as we kept in contact with one another either threw phone or email but ya i dont know
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I think this was a really good idea. if you dont let guys know how its going to be up front they will just play games with you as long as they can. you have no reason to wait for him, if he wants to be with you then he will be with you. There is no reason for him to take this long to think about it. It is a waste of your time and you dont need the heartache. most girls just let guys do what they want and dont really give their opinion because they are scared to lose their boyfriend. but its good to put your foot down!
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I think it was the best move you could have made.
Life is to short to wait, as you said. If its meant to be, you'll meet up again when the time is right. In the mean time, don't sit and wait. Get out there and find the right guy for you!
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Definitely... he shouldn't expect you to wait on him. Just because you told him you're true feelings doesn't mean that your feelings for him have changed. If he really loves you and cares for you he will be perfectly fine with your decision. I wish you the best!
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hi,im sofia and im 15 but i am in the same situation my exboyfriend went to college and my life isnt exactlly brillant sometimes i needed him to come hoem just yenno for reassurance that he would
i told him he had to make up his mind weather he could make timeor not and he said no so we broke up i love him dealy but the fact of the matter is do u trust him enough at the end of the week to come back to you
or are all your worries about him decideing takeing so long you think he dont want you
i can tell you that give him time give him some space im sure it was a good move because it will make your relationship stronger when he comes back x
good luck x
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I think that was a perfectly acceptable thing to say. You shouldn't have to wait around for him to make up his mind. However, I would have to agree that if he has to "think about" getting back together with you, then he's obviously having some doubts about it, which could cause problems if you two did end up giving the relationship another try.
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well if u guys broke up then maybe u shouldnt be together i think that he may be really thinking about it and just needs to think over what he wants maybe ts hurting him but maybe hes thinking that if its hurting him now what if it happens later on down the road then its gonna hurt even more
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you did the right thing, he has to know that he has a godo thing in front of him. why would he have to think? i know it's not much, but i hope i helped.
-KmChapman.
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You don't say who broke it off, you or him, or was it mutual?
Doesn't matter. You already have your answer. If he has to "think about it", then his heart isn't with you.
Move on.
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