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Hi, my boyfriend & I have been together for about 6 months now. I'm 21 & he is 28. He is currently living in an apartment by himself, I am living in a townhouse with two of my girlfriends. He told me the other day that he wants to move forward in our relationship by us moving in together. I feel that we are ready, but I've seen a lot of my friends relationships fail when they moved in together too soon. Do you think that us moving in together this far into our relationship is too soon? My mom feels that we should be married before we move in together. I kind of agree with her, but I also feel like living in the same house/apartment with my boyfriend would be amazing! I just need some opinions... THANK YOU :) (link)
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i say dont move in wait because rushing things cant mess it all up just start by sleeping over and staying there and do that for and move your stuff in little by litte and just see if he has a problem with your things being there and if all goes well then i would move in after a little bit
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Okay so I tried the stupid Tresemme Fresh Start stuff and it left like a WHOOOLLLLE BUNCH of residue in my hair and I just tried having a shower to get it out but it DIDNT WORK! It has like clay in it and it's like not comiong out! Does anyone know how to get it out!? (link)
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try baby oil with a comb or lotion im not sure it will work but give it a try let me know how it goes
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ok so my friendd is very sick she keeps making herself throw up and its sad like i want her to eat she thinks she fat and shes not even fat !!!!! not even kidding you this girl is like 135 that nt fat ! anyways so i went up to her today and i grabbed her hand and she felt so weak ! i wanted to cry because she shouldnt b doing this to herself bt i didnt i just told her that i loved her and i will always be here for her... i dont no what to do can someone help me? what should i say to her? and why do you think she keeps doing this to herself? and do you think that she will b able to go to this trip thats on friday??? (link)
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tell her how you feel about her tell her how much you love her and how much its hurting you tell her that wantching her hurt her self is not only hurting her but her llove ones have to watch her suffer and it hurts them it kills them insid ... she might do it for alot of reasons she might do it cause people say shes fat or her life at home she could just do it to feel better about her self and wants to have that perfect body but the truth is a perfect body is not being to skiny alot of guys dont like that they like a girl that has something to her if a girl is to skiny the guy might be like i dont want her i might break her i seen and heard it happen but she should really work on bettering herself for her
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alright, well im 19/f, will be 20 next week, and he is 21.
a bit of background info - we met last summer in panama city beach while i was in town with my family. he lives about an hour and a half from there, and drove down every night after we met to see me and hang out. we liked each other, stayed in touch for a bit after my vacation ended, but then stopped talking. i was fixin to start college here in Georgia, and he was working, and we just lost touch.
fast forward to this year. i went back to panama city with my family just like last year, and a few weeks before i had texted him out of the blue saying i'd be back down and that he should come see me. sure enough, just like last year he drove down almost daily for the whole week to hang out with me and it was just like last year. we'd hang out all night, hold hands, kiss, and started to like each other all over again.
well this time, we've stayed in touch, talking & texting all day and night since the end of july, our feelings have gotten so much stronger, and we've been officially together for a few days shy of a month. he's made the 4 hour drive to see me and stay with me at my apartment at school a fe times, and i've driven down to florida to stay with him and his family. he's SO sweet to me, always telling me how he doesn't wanna lose me, how much i mean to him and how i'm the best thing thats ever happened to him and he's so happy he has me now.
welllll, he told me he loves me a couple weeks ago. i wasn't expecting it so soon, and i haven't said it back, but i think i do love him. i'm happier than i've been in a long time, and i want to tell him but part of me is scared because of the short time we've been together and i dont want to be hurt like i have been before.
the only other guy i've loved was a guy that i dated for 3-3.5 years when i was 15, which we also said i love you really early, but that was my first love.
i just dont know if its too soon? i feel like time-wise, it is. but i feel like i do love him, and we're pretty serious about each other. he's seriously considering moving out of florida and finding a job in the town where i go to school. i'm thinking about telling him next week when he comes back to stay with me, but ahh i'm kinda nervous :) does it seem like its too soon? (link)
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say it if you reallydo love him 100% you shouldnt have to think you love him you should know you love him . dont tell him you love him if you not sure love is a veryy strong and powerful word that shouldnt be messed with like that the heart is hard to get but easy to break so dont think about it if you love him it will roll out of your mouth with out knowing it .. trust me
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my b/f and i broke up nearly a month ago, it was because he was working away a lot so we didnt get to see eachother so much. he said he wanted to think about getting back together i was very patient with him, i didnt contact him first, he always contacted me. but it got to the point where i just couldnt wait for him to play his games anymore, so i told him i hope he can make up his mind soon because i wouldnt wait forever for him. i do really love him but i just cant go on like this i needed an answer. do you think this was a good move or not? (link)
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well if u guys broke up then maybe u shouldnt be together i think that he may be really thinking about it and just needs to think over what he wants maybe ts hurting him but maybe hes thinking that if its hurting him now what if it happens later on down the road then its gonna hurt even more
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