Question Posted Wednesday November 16 2011, 10:00 pm
18/f
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year now and we have a pretty good relationship(: The only thing is that he friend requests a lot of girls on facebook. It bothers me that he does this but i see it when i get on his facebook sometimes. If he isn't trying to get with other girls, then why does he keep adding them? He friend requests them.
LM answered Thursday November 17 2011, 3:12 pm: You haven't given us a lot of information. From what I can gather with what you DID tell us, you're jealous that he has Facebook friends that happen to be female. If you're so insecure in your relationship that you only want him to be friends with guys, there's something else wrong here. Believe it or not, he might just be adding them as friends because he's friends with them. People are often friends with both sexes; this is normal.
If, however, he's being shady about it, hiding the fact that he has a girlfriend, etc, then you can ask why he's dating you if he is still interested in acting single.
kittenlover2000 answered Thursday November 17 2011, 12:17 pm: I would say its because guys care alot what other guys think of them. So he could just be doing it to seem popular to other guys and therefore be liked even more. I wouldn't worry about it too much unless he gets flirty with these girls, otherwise he may work out you're jealous and unfortunatly jealousy is a complete turn off.
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Jasmine23 answered Thursday November 17 2011, 1:52 am: First off.. Why are you going onto his facebook?
Like do you mean signing into his facebook? or do you mean looking on his facebook page.
Because if ur signing into his facebook. That is very wrong. you shouldn't be checking on him like his mother..
And also. don't be so worried.. he may be adding these people because he knows them? or he met them.. I wouldn't be too concerned..
Xui answered Thursday November 17 2011, 1:51 am: There isn't enough details here
Does he friend random girls? Is he sneaky about it?
Have you even tried to express how it makes you feel insecure that he is always adding women on his facebook? Here is the main question: Does he hide your relationship? Does he have any pictures of the both of you on his page? ....
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