Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


friend requesting girls all the time


Question Posted Wednesday November 16 2011, 10:00 pm

18/f
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year now and we have a pretty good relationship(: The only thing is that he friend requests a lot of girls on facebook. It bothers me that he does this but i see it when i get on his facebook sometimes. If he isn't trying to get with other girls, then why does he keep adding them? He friend requests them.


[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


nikz answered Thursday November 17 2011, 4:52 pm:
well sometimes guys just like speaking to other girls it doesn't mean that he's flirting with them, if it really bothers you so much you should speak to him because you certainly have a right to you've been dating over a year now, although you should know that this could create abit of problems as he's gonnna think that you're insecure and jealous but communication is best, don't bottle things up as it's just gonna make you hate him

[ nikz's advice column | Ask nikz A Question
]




LM answered Thursday November 17 2011, 3:12 pm:
You haven't given us a lot of information. From what I can gather with what you DID tell us, you're jealous that he has Facebook friends that happen to be female. If you're so insecure in your relationship that you only want him to be friends with guys, there's something else wrong here. Believe it or not, he might just be adding them as friends because he's friends with them. People are often friends with both sexes; this is normal.


If, however, he's being shady about it, hiding the fact that he has a girlfriend, etc, then you can ask why he's dating you if he is still interested in acting single.


-LM
[19/f]

[ LM's advice column | Ask LM A Question
]



kittenlover2000 answered Thursday November 17 2011, 12:17 pm:
I would say its because guys care alot what other guys think of them. So he could just be doing it to seem popular to other guys and therefore be liked even more. I wouldn't worry about it too much unless he gets flirty with these girls, otherwise he may work out you're jealous and unfortunatly jealousy is a complete turn off.
Hope this helps :)

[ kittenlover2000's advice column | Ask kittenlover2000 A Question
]



Jasmine23 answered Thursday November 17 2011, 1:52 am:
First off.. Why are you going onto his facebook?
Like do you mean signing into his facebook? or do you mean looking on his facebook page.
Because if ur signing into his facebook. That is very wrong. you shouldn't be checking on him like his mother..

And also. don't be so worried.. he may be adding these people because he knows them? or he met them.. I wouldn't be too concerned..

Ps. you don't add people on facebook just to get with them..

[ Jasmine23's advice column | Ask Jasmine23 A Question
]



Xui answered Thursday November 17 2011, 1:51 am:
There isn't enough details here


Does he friend random girls? Is he sneaky about it?

Have you even tried to express how it makes you feel insecure that he is always adding women on his facebook? Here is the main question: Does he hide your relationship? Does he have any pictures of the both of you on his page? ....


If you give me more details I'll be able to give you better advice.

[ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: What can bulimia do tio your body?
Next Question >>> Me and my boyfriend haven't kissed yet ad it's been 6 months

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker