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I start school in a couple days and I don't know what to do with my hair. My hair goes maybe an inch past my shoulders and I have layers and long bangs. Any ideas? I'd really appreciate it. Thanks in advance

i don't really know what you'd like. i straighten my hair every single day. kinda boring, but oh well. i love it

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how do you know if your having a miscarriage ? because im like 2 months preg. and im having the abortion in 2 days .. and im getting really sharp pains in like the lower area of my stomach & its killing me .. like if im walking & i get the pains i have to sit down and i don know what to do; it feels like someones like stabbing me and its driving me nuts .. is there anyway to get rid of the pains or am i going to have a miscarriage ?

it's hard to say.. but you should at least call your doctor and ask them.

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i've been getting lower abdominal pains for a month or two now; and when they come, they kill.
they're usually gone in about 5-10 minutes.
i've never gotten my period.

go to the doctor ASAP!! something could be wrong. i had the same thing happen to me. and it HURTS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO badly. to the point where i was almost crying. i went to the doctor, and they took x-rays.. then they gave me this medicine for it. i don't remember exactly what was causing the pain, but after i took medicine the pain hasn't returned. but if you go too long without any medical help, it can cause serious problems.

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hi. I am a 13/f and i started my period about 6 months ago. I play soccer alot and do track in school. I have never used a tampon, only pads. My mom wont bring the subject up and i'm too nervous to ask her how to use it or if I can use them. PLEASE HELP!!!! my soccer tournament is in a few weeks and thats when my next period is supposed to come! any advice on how my mom can bring up the subject? or how i can get the nerve to talk to her about this?? should i just not tell her and just use one?? but i've never used one before and i'm nervous and dont know how to use one. PLEASE HELP!! thank you sooooo much

darling, it's your mom. you shouldn't feel uncomfortable asking her about tampons.. i'm sure she was the same way when she was growing up. don't be nervous, just one day when you guys are alone just tell her you want to start using tampons. [it's not that big of a deal. you are just stressing yourself out].. sure, you don't know how to use them. but it's not as hard as you think. i'm sure she won't care to tell you.

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ok. so my boyfreind and i have been dating...well for one year on saturday. and yeah this isnt that much time. but still...i really want to come up with a good idea for something that will really surprise him. I have a swim meet in the morning at 10 and then we are going to the kenny chesney concert at 4:30...so there isnt really that much time. so basically what im asking is what is a good surprise for him...girls what have you done...and guys what do you like?


one year is a pretty long time.. lol. but anyways --you should just do something homemade that would be really special. make a mix cd of your guy's favorite songs, make him a card, and just spend time with your love. after the concert, you guys could go out to dinner, then watch movies that night.

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Ok to start 14/f
Before I ask my question I'll give you a backround
Today i woke up and i was pissed because i got little sleep. My little brother was talking to my dad about how i dont go to sleep when im supposed to (12am) because I get on my computer and stay on there till about 2 or 3 am. My dad was pissed and said that when school starts for the first 3 months he will cut off the internet. Then since I was still pissed I was ranting on about how school sucks and that landed me a 15 min lecture about how if i didnt go to school I wouldnt be smart and get a good job. Later today my older brother started thinking that im turning anerexic because I had not (and still havent) eaten anything all day. I kinda blew that off and then my mom said that I dont like my family because eariler i said that its not really that cool to go to the bowling alley with my family and not my friends. Shes says that im lazy and just dont want to get any exercise (even thiugh you dont exercise at a bowling alley) so now im thinking that my family is out to get me into the loony bin

So now my question is
do i apologize for being a sort of smartmouth
or just leave it alone and let them apologize.

I rate depending on the quality of the answer.

Thanks, DarkChocolate794

i can see where you are coming from. just because you didn't eat all day doesn't mean you are all of a sudden turning anorexic. so your brother was wrong about that. so i wouldn't really appologize to him for anything. he probably seen you weren't having the best day, so decided to join in on the nagging. your dad is kinda being logical with the whole internet thing, because really there isn't that many people on the internet late at night, besides old creepy pedophiles. so the whole lecture thing in his eyes was for the best. even though it may seem pointless, he had a good reason for it. so why not. but he is right. if you don't do well in school, and get a good education, then you can't really get the best jobs. that doesn't mean you'll be stuck at mcdonalds all of your life. but you know? you can't really get a good workout bowling.. but you can do the whoel family bonding thing. i know it's not always the most exciting thing.. or the coolest thing to do. but even the cool kids spend some time bonding with their families.

i can get pretty mouthy to my parents, but i think every teenager does that. it's just the way things are. but you should probably apologize to your mom and your dad. they just want the best for you and your family, and want to spend time together. it's just normal. :]

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Also whats the difference between a poly, mono, and real tone ringtones?

A polyphonic ringtone plays multiple instruments from a MIDI file at the same time, making the ringtone sound like music [like the LAME ring tones already on a cell phone] ;; A monophonic ringtone just plays one note at a time. [worse than polyphonic] ;; and a real ringtone is a real song as your ring tone [just a shortened version, usually the chorus of the song] ;;

the kind of phone you have will determine which kind of ringtone you shoud download, because all phones are different and some can't download certain types of ringtones. most of the new phones can play all types, but all of the older phones use either polyphonic and monophonic tones.

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Could you find a ringtone website for alltel?

Also how does that work?

How do you pay for it?

And does it just get sent to your phone through a text message?

Then its just automatically added to your ringers?

i've actually never heard of 'alltel' but when i googled it got these sites --
*http://www.alltel.com/axcess/web_ringtones.html
*http://www.ringtonesmile.com/clp.php?key=Alltel+Ringtones&c=64

you just fill out the information they ask from you [such as name, number, city, state] && then you're account on that site is set up.. then you just pick ring tones you want. they will send those ring tones to your celly as a text, and [depending on the phone you have] press the options button && you can save it to your ringtones. sometimes [depending on the phone] it will automatically save itself.

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I just got a new cell phone, However I just got texting on my phone, and my parents won't let me go on apps or whatever its called to get ringtones, so on the internet is there anywhere i can ringtones texted to me.

I want ringtones, I just want to get them on my phone without going on the internet or whatever its called on my cell phone.

Thanks!

it depends on your cell phone carrier.. [i have t-mobile] you can go on your carrier's website from a regular computer and download ringtones from there. you can also try:
www.zingy.com
www.jamster.com
www.flycell.com
www.unlimitedringtones.com

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Hi. I am 14/f, going into 10th grade.

I'm 5'7 or so, and 113lbs, so I'm pretty skinny and tall.

Because I'm so tall, and alot of my friends and other people are shorter, I don't want to wear any shoes that make me even taller.

Can you give me some ideas on cute shoes that are flat or have a shorter heel? Also, I don't have that much money so the max. is $20/shoe...which makes it a lot more difficult for me to find shoes.

Also, do you think that if I wear shoes that are taller, people will notice or make comments?

Thanks.

try some cute ballet flats. you can get really cute ones!! they are cheap too.

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what are some cute styles of backpacks? pink is perferrable (sp?)! website would be nicee :) thanks

i was at the mall the other day and i seen the cutest bright pink dickies bookbag at spencers gifts... but my all time favorite bookbag is l.l bean!!

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i think my boyfriend loves my best friend and i think she also loves him. i have tried asking my boyfriend questions like if me and him werent going out then who would he go out with and he mentioned her straight away. they are always talking and gettin on even sumtyms mor than me and him do. i feel quite hurt inside but i want to sumhow get proof if he really does love her and if she loves him too before i start thinking of breaking up with him because i luv him so much. please reply back soon x x thanks x

you'll come to learn that you really can't trust others that well. boys will be boys. BUT girls will be girls. trust me, friends will backstab you over guys anytime. so be careful about it. first go to her and see what she says about the whole situation, and tell her exactly how you feel. tell her that you are not comfortable with the way they act towards eachother. and tell her that you want the honest truth [even if it hurts].. it will hurt more if you find out later by accident

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Are there any ways I can keep my dyed hair from fading??

yes. [i have to do all this, because my dark color fades REALLYY easily over the blonde]. there is this line put out by a brand called wella. this brand is seriously amazing. i have the shampoo, and the conditioner. then i bought this heat/sun protecter since i tan a lot, and straighten my hair daily. [the spray makes my hair extra shiny, which is nice. haha]. just check around for stuff like that. it will say on the bottle if it is for dyed hair or not. i would suggest getting the products from a salon though. they seems to work the best for me.
:]

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on eyelash curlers, you know that little white thing they have at the top? how often do you need to replace that? thanks.

i didn't think you could replace just the thing at the top.. i thought you had to buy a whole new eye lash curler. haha. but i would suggest changing it about every 3-4 weeks.

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What exactly is a tease ? Like if someone calls you a tease. What does it exactly mean ? (I know kind of stupid question). But thanks for people who answer this nicely

it's not a stupid question ;; it's someone who leads another person on with sexual things, with the intentions of not doing anything sexual with the person they are 'playing' with. [example- a girl kisses a guy, and rubs up on him to get him to want her, and want to take things further but she stops and doesn't want to go further with him.] you know?

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Heii! does anyone know where i can get the hats like Emily Osment in Hannah Montana?

try pac sun, or wet seal.

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I'll come out clean. I'm chinese and about 5 feet. Does anyone know the average boob size for a mandrian chinese girl from the south? What's the american average? I know I'll never be the american average, but just wondering. I wear a size 34A. Just a few months ago, I got bigger, which I was happy! I thought I'll never leave 32A. Help if you can. I'm 13 too.

darling. you are only 13. you still have a lot of growing left to do. i used to be flat chested when i was younger, then all of a sudden i hit a growth spurt. the american average is about 34b i think. [[i am 34DD]]. you may want bigger boobs right now, but when you get them, you'll most likely hate them. they are annoying!! [you can never find shirts to fit right. lol] but just give it time, girlie.
♥barbie

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So I just got called in tomorrow for an interview at this really trendy store at the mall. They sell brands like DKNY, Guess et cetera.
What should I wear to my interview? I don't have any time to get my dress pants tailored but I guess I could get it done if I really needed to, but they don't wear dress pants to work and I know I should anyway btu I thought maybe a skirt would work. I have a peasant skirts that I could wear, I have them in black, white and blue. I know I shouldn't wear camisoles without anything on over but are sleeveless tops ok or no?
I also bought two pairs of ballet flat shoes. One is black and the other is a rusted golden colour so should I try to match?
I also want to look really in style and I have a wide belt that cinches my waist and it's black so that might go with the skirt.
I just got side bangs too and I don't know what to do with my hair. I can straighten it but should I let it loose or tie it into a ponytail or braid with a matching ribbon or is that too much?

wear somthing you are comfortable in. you are going to be working at a "trendy store" if they hire you. so dress how you would if you were going to be working there that day. show them that you can "fit in" [i guess you could say] with the rest of the staff, and the image of the store. i would suggest not wearing a cami though. wear something that isn't that revealing. don't act like you were trying too hard to impress them [of course you are trying to impress them] but act as if your style come naturally. if you are going to go with the heels, make sure they are closed toe. most stores don't like opened toe. once you get the job, they'll tell you the dress code. :]
GOOD LUCK, darling.

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do girls go for guys with piercings? if they are good looking that is, and do girls get attracted to guys with piercings,like let's say nose rings?and if they do, can you specify which part of the face or body you find most attractive for a piercing on a guy and how much piercings should your ideal guy have?thanks

i like guys with lip rings, industrials, eye brow rings, tongue piercings, and ear gages.. don't over do it, though. piercings are supposed to be about the indivduality of a person. so you should go by what you like.

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Okay i'm gonna be in my cousins 15, and i wanna lose some weight. I'm not fat but not skinney, but not healthy. How can i do thid. Our fitting for the dress is this Thursday!

Thanks in Advance!

there isn't anything you can really do before thurday that will give you the change you are looking for. but if you are wanting to lose weight try eating healty foods, drinking lots and lots of water, and exercising.

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