how do you know if your having a miscarriage ? because im like 2 months preg. and im having the abortion in 2 days .. and im getting really sharp pains in like the lower area of my stomach & its killing me .. like if im walking & i get the pains i have to sit down and i don know what to do; it feels like someones like stabbing me and its driving me nuts .. is there anyway to get rid of the pains or am i going to have a miscarriage ?
But, I just hope that everyone reads this because this is one of the problems with this site. This girl did NOT ask for your opinion (anyone that gave it) about having an abortion! She did not ask you what you thought about it; she asked if anyone knew why she was having these pains. Saying things like *you deserve them* is ridiculously immature and insensitive and people like that really shouldn't be on this site.
And no where in that did I state my opinion about abortions so don't go assuming that I am pro-choice.
PRPrincess14 answered Monday August 21 2006, 5:52 pm: How IN THE World are you gonna abort .....im so AGAINST that.......well I think u shouldnt abort no matta what ppl say.....u could still oove that child...also About the pains probably thats the babies emotions...or the baby growing up in your wound!!!!!!!!
Tulipg17 answered Monday August 21 2006, 1:21 pm: Don't listen to the idiots. Be proud of your decision.
When you go, tell the doctor about what you have been experiencing. They will test you first to ensure that you still are actually pregnant for trying to perform the procedure. [ Tulipg17's advice column | Ask Tulipg17 A Question ]
tjam106 answered Monday August 21 2006, 11:39 am: Ok, first I am gonna say that I am sorry for what other people are saying to you. Just because they don't agree with your choice doesn't give them the right to judge you. I am sure that having an abortion was a very difficult and trying decision for you to make. What they are saying is not only cruel, but unhelpful to you. Don't get me wrong, I am NOT for abortion unless it is an absolute last resort and I do not condone it as being a form of birth control. But these people have no right to tear you down. You have the RIGHT to make this decision, whether they like it or not. I wish you good luck in whatever happens. I certainly hope you have the support of family or friends and/or the baby's father.
Anyway, to answer your question it is possible you are having a miscarriage. I am sure you have been under an immense amount of stress.
Please, get in touch with your doctor and let them know what's up. It's very important, for YOUR safety.
Datgiirlsasha answered Sunday August 20 2006, 10:35 pm: Hey, My name is Sasha. Omg, I think abortion is totally wrong. But I think that you should talk to your doctor as soon as possible. Hope that helped.
Love,
Sasha:] [ Datgiirlsasha's advice column | Ask Datgiirlsasha A Question ]
jennalovesyou answered Sunday August 20 2006, 10:23 pm: abortion is bad and sad! why kill something that didnt do anything to deserve that.......you never know, it could a future oprah.
littleblufirefly answered Sunday August 20 2006, 10:15 pm: Signs of a miscarriage include spotting or bleeding, so it doesn't sound as if you are having a miscarriage, although I am not a doctor. Sharp pains are more than likely from being pregnant. Other symptoms of pregnancy include nausea. Try to take it easy and not be as active. Other than taking over-the-counter medications such as advil or tylenol, there isn't really anything you can do. I know what you are going through and if you would like to talk or have any more questions, you can contact me via e-mail or through IM, my e mail address is XBrooklynHeights@aol.com and my screen name is XBrooklynHeights (if you have AIM or AOL). I hope this helped. <3 Dana [ littleblufirefly's advice column | Ask littleblufirefly A Question ]
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