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hey. i'm 14 and is a girl of many interests and doesn't limit myself to what i can hold. i'm scared of a lot of things, but my life long goal is to conquer them. i love to help people's love lives, especially the ones that remind me of the ones i've had and have right now. i don't like having a lot of time in my hands because it makes me think of things i don't wanna think about. like past relationships, my current life, etc. but i guess it's okay to do that sometimes. as for the moment, i'm pretty much in love with my guy best friend. i asked him out. he said no. we're still good friends. he said that our friendship is more important and will last longer than a relationship. yea i agree. but, you know that feeling of emptiness, and you feel like only one person can fill it? well, that's how i'm feeling right now. i feel empty without him in my life as more than a friend. anyways. i'm here for anything, and i'll try my best to give you advice and such. my AIM is : WANNA BE iiN LUV. feel free to IM me if you need help. =)
advice
Do you think horoscopes are true in any way?
with my experience with horoscopes, it's mostly true. it's not the same with everybody, but like the other advisor said, it depends if yur superstitious or not. as for me, i don't believe the whole bad luck thing cuz, well, everybody gets bad luck, but i'm a sucker for horoscopes.
so hope that helps.
See...well, I like my best friend as more than just a friend. I want her to know without making it so obvious. She does a lot of things that makes me think she likes me too. Whenever she does things like hug me or smile at me or say something really nice, I am always backing off and I don't know why! I want to be with her so badly, but I always change the subject or act like a complete fool whenever she says or does something really nice to me...I need help.
the guy i like also does this to me. we're really good friends, and when i drop hints that i like him, he just changes the subject. well, one thing you can do is do the same thing. start a conversation with her. start something like, talk about a class at skool or something, then lead up to something like, "hmm. i know this is completely random, but if yu could go out w/ anybody in our skool, who would yu go out w/?" then after that, ask her something like, "well, would yu go out w/ me?" if she doesn't say yur name. yea, maybe she'll get wat yur trying to do, but it might work out. who knows?
so if yu need anything else,
yu can IM me on AIM.
my s/n is:
WANNA BE iiN LUV
How can you get someone's attention on AIM without IMing them? Like put something in my pro/away msg? What could I put? Thank you!
wat i do is put something in my profile that has something to do w/ the person i wanna get attention from. for example, i like my best friend and we have inside jokes. one of them is the word perfect. so wat i did was put a quote in my profile that has perfect in it. also, i have this quote that talks about "people in my life ..." it doesn't say if it's about my friends or about "him". so yea. just put things that reminds yu of him or, if yur like me, an inside joke hidden in other things. usually, this makes my crush curious and asks me and we start a conversation from there!
if yu need anything else,
yu can IM me on AIM.
my s/n is :
WANNA BE iiN LUV
13/m ok i like this girl. I have a strong felling she likes me , but im not sure. is there any way of knowing without having to say anything to her. it sounds like im shy but im not i just dont want to mess anything up 'cause weve been friends for about 4 years. and that friendship is really important to me.thanx alot in advance.
all the other posters are right. in my opinion, i think you should maybe glide your way through it, yu know? like, start talking to her about which boys she thinks is hot or something then ask something like, "do i have a chance with you?" yea it'll b pretty awkward for a little while, but if you really like the girl, you would do anything to know how she feels for you, right? if she does, you CAN ask her out. you don't have to, but either way, there's that feeling of relief and grace that she said yes or sure or something. if she says no, well, that's ok. you're young and there's still a lot of other girls. don't take this one too hard, just be cool and do what you need to do!
if you need anything else,
you can IM me in AIM.
my s/n is:
WANNA BE iiN LUV
So.
My two best friends are trying out for the school JV doftball team, we're in highschool obviously. I've always wanted to join a sports team at school so i figure i'd like to give softball a try. The only thing is i've never really played much and the only sports I play are ballet and other types of dance.
Anyone have any tips or something that can help me learn how to and play well?
i don't play softball seriously. i play it just for fun and stuff. but since your friends wants to try-out, you should practice together. ask your friends to give you tips and stuff, and try what they're doing. if you're a fast learner, you'll catch up in no time! it's always good to experience what you wanna do. i play volleyball. some tips that are similar for v-ball and softball is pay attention, keep your eye in the ball, and just do your best. you're not gonna be the best out of everybody, but atleast your gonna be the best in your mind!
I have been hurt by a few boys previously in the past.
I have been in love once, but hurt by other boys i liked. I am 14/f btw.
So there's this one guy that i have liked for a while, and after a long time and him blowing me off, i decided i needed to move on.
So this other guy friend of mine (we've been aqantienses for about 2 years. got close a few months ago)
we went on a date. and it was so much fun. and he likes me and i do like him.
i just dont want to be hurt again
my parents are recently divorced, and every relationship i have ever seen has failed.
i am afriad of him getting bored with me just like the rest of them
so here's my question,
Give him a chance, or move on with my life?
of course give him a chance! you'll gonna get hurt more than once in your lifetime, and that's to prepare us for the future. the way i see it with relationships, you have to know the worst person to be with, to know the best person to be with. since you like each other, it'll work better. don't be afraid to take the chance. be afraid that you might miss out on something good.
hope i helped.
if you need anybody to talk to, you can IM me in AIM. my s/n is :: WANNA BE iiN LUV
Does anyone know an aim profile site, like an xanga, that has a profile that say something like, 'give her that kiss, it's long overdue' or something close to that
i'd love any help :]
well, i can do it.
i have an aim profile site,
www.xanga.com/untitled_username_4_fades.
so i can do it for you,
just request for it on xanga!
...I'm wondering if dating my best guy-friend is the best thing because I've heard that you'll never be friends after but as I've said before...I've dated one of my other friends and we broke up and we're still good friends...The thing is...with this guy...I never really liked him before but now I feel as though I can't spend a day without talking to him...Is it a good idea to date him....
i'm going through the same thing as you are. i can't stop thinking about him, and always wondering about him. i guess i do like him. but anyways. there's a lot of pros and cons to this thing.
pros: it's easier to talk to him. you know him so it's easier to have a good relationship with him. it just feels better to be with him.
cons: if/when you break up, it's gonna be awkward. your friendship is in risk. you might lose somebody whose close to you.
i guess i would say, ask him if he would wanna try going out. if you want it to be a successful relationship, both of you have to commit to it. also, make sure that if/when you break up, you'll always stay friends. you would not want to end up not talking to each other after all you've been through. i learned that the hard way. and, never change. ya'll have been friends all this time, and just cuz ya'll are dating doesn't mean you should change. that's really important.
if you need anything else, feel free to IM me. my AIM s/n is:: WANNA BE iiN LUV
okay me and my almost boyfriend have been talking either on the phone or through aim for atleast 2 hours a day! we talk about EVERYTHING. its weird how open we can be to eachother.. well anyhoo we have talked and talked and talked until theres nothing to talk about anymore!! for the past couple of days we've just said "so what do you wanna talk about?" and "i dont know what do you wanna talk about?" we have nothing to talk about we have past relationships music sex movies.. we've talked about everything.. i need some interesting topics that arent so ordinary because i dont know what to talk about with him anymore!! and i dont want him to lose interest. help?
i don't have a boyfriend, but i do have a guy friend that i talk to everyday. one time we even chatted on AIM for 8 hrs straight! well, anyways, usually, we start our conversation w/ sup? or how was your day? or watcha doing? you know, the classics. but even though its the classics, it a good conversation starter. after that, it's really up to you to comment on something he says and go from there. don't try to much to think about what you're gonna say. just relax and talk to him as you would a normal person. saying random things here and there might also help, expecially to break awkward silence!
hey i'm having a HUGE guy problem. and i just need opinions on what you all think so is their anyone out there with a heart that would help me by just giving me their email adress or IM or anything so i can tell you the story because the guy its about goes on this site. thanks soo much. please help im desperate.
sure!
no problem!
jalover93@yahoo.com
i'm a girl thats 13 and I like a guy alex that is 13. we are friends and sometimes i think he likes me, but he flirts with everyone. We flirt more when our other friends aren't around, but he's not mean to me when we are with our other frineds. I don't want to ruin our friendhip by going out with him. and sometimes I feel like i just want him to like me, and once he does and asks me out ..i'll say no. how do i figure out if i want this for real or am just seeing if he likes me? should i keep flirting with him and see what happens? or should i just keep it as friends and then see what other guys come along?
thanks for your help
i'm going through the same thing you are. i like my best guy friend. i think you shouldn't lead him on then just say no when he asks you out. that'll make it more awkward. really, i would stay friends until you know that your friendship is so strong that you can have a relationship and know that when the relationship ends, you'll still be friends at the end.
I've been kind of bummed lately. I am 14, I have never kissed a girl, or even had a girlfriend.
I have plenty of friends (enough to make me happy), and I have no problem talking to girls as friends, but not other than that.
I have had plenty of girls that "liked" me, but most of the time it didn't work out (for random reasons), or they just didn't seem right for me.
Unlike a lot of guys, I am not just in it for sex (that would be great, but it's not my first priority). I just want someone to be with.
i personally think that being single is better than being in a relationship. i've been in three relationships with 3 completely different people. yea, it was cool being with them, but sometimes it gets irritating to make someone happy when your not. also, being in a relationship can really take a lot out of people. really, just wait til "the girl" comes, then make your move. besides, it's more fun just flirting. i flirt with boys a lot, and it's a whole lot of fun. since yu already have girl friends, keep talking to them, get to know them better, the best relationships are the ones that had friendship first!
here's an article kind of thing that i read a couple of hours before i saw yur question:
http://www.teenadviceonline.org/dating/
"It's Okay to be Single"
About 8 or 9 months ago, I revealed to a boy that I really like him...he said he didn't want to do anything to put our friendship at risk, so we didn't start a relationship...however, we eventually became intimate with eachother from time to time, (not the kind where I would lose my virginity, but still pretty intimate) so it's sort of evolved into a "friendship with bennefits" thing...I am still very much in love with this boy, and the more time I spend with him (intimate or not) I grow to love him even more. I'm not sure exactly how he feels about me, but I desperately want to move forward with him. I'm not sure what to do...
maybe try asking him if he wants to start having a more personal-ish relationship than friendship. i mean, there's nothing wrong with friendship, but if he feels the same way about yu, then yu can work a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship no matter what consequences.
feel free to talk ask me whatever yu want.
good luck!
I like this girl soooooo much. All these other girls tell me that the girl that i like also likes me back. But one time when i confronted her about this she said the whole i just want to stay friends thing. I decided im not giving up. I like her so much but it killed me when she said i just want to stay friends. how do i get around to her and show her how great of a boy friend i could be? I really dont want to just stay friends, so is there anything to help me get out of the friends zone and get her to love me the way i love her without showing it too much?
Shes well worth it
Thanks, (14,m)
i'm actually experiencing this with a friend of mine who's a boy. what i would advice is for you to stay friends for now. anything can happen in the future. so if she's worth the wait, then that's all you can do. sometimes, during this kinds of situation, one of the people are scared of losing the relationship they already have, so they'll just stay the way they are. i'm feeling a little bit of both. i kinda like the guy, but i wouldn't wanna ruin our friendship. i don't know if he likes me or not, but, like i told my friend, if he asks me out, i would say yes. just hang in there!
if you need anything else, feel free to ask me. i'll be here!
17/female
I have this sleeping probelm it's like iam always tired even though I go to bed at 9:00pm and wake up about 6:00am in the morning to get ready for school and even though thats about 9 hours of sleep each night and that's how much sleep iam suppose to get and last night I went to bed at 8:00pm and I was still tired all day at school today and I was wondering why i've been so tired lately what should I do?
please help me now thankyou.
most likely, yur sleeping too much. i sleep at around 10:00 - 10:30 and wakes up at about 6:10 or so for skool. i don't really feel sleepy then, and that's about 8 hrs of sleep. maybe yu can try not sleeping 9 hrs and like the others said, exercise.
I'll start by describing myself as I have been described by people:
I write amazing songs on guitar. I'm the best actor in my high school's theater company. According to many I'm the smartest kid they know. According to a similar number I'm extremely attractive. They claim that I'm also one of the nicest, easiest-going and can hold stupid and intellectual conversations with anyone equally well.
Okay. I'm not an egotistical selfless son of a bitch. These are things people have said to me. Here's something that bothers me: I have never had a girlfriend. I've never even been on a real date. Ever. I came close a few times, but then one girl decided to tell me yes when she really meant she didn't like me that way, and then another got as far as telling me what to tell her dad when I came to pick her up, but then changes her mind an hour later, because. No real specific reason, end of two or three weeks of getting to know eachother and whatever.
I keep trying. I generally don't like to approach girls like that unless I make eye contact and float a smile across once or twice and have one returned. Everyone else says that works, and then you go talk to them. I can't even make eye contact.
So, am I just an unlikely kid who should shut up and stop bitching and moaning, or is there some insight anyone might have here? I'm inclined to believe the first one, really.
it seems like your a really great guy.
somebody whose not one-sided.
if you don't have a girlfriend,
it's maybe because you haven't found the right person you want to be.
i'm not saying you're "soulmate" or something,
but in order to have a relationship with somebody,
you would have to have something in common,
or something you like about each other.
somebody you can open up to.
but if you haven't found that person,
then that's fine.
someday you'll find the courage in you to approach a girl,
but if it's not the time,
you can't make yourself do it.
just have patience.
you don't have to have a girl with you everytime.
sometimes it's better to just be with your friends.
i'm not sure if this is what you want to hear,
but this is my thought about this.
but if you need anything,
just ask me.
this is for everyone to answer.
what age did you have your first boyfriend? and what age did you have you first kiss?
i just wanna get some ideas. thanks.
i had my first boyfriend when i was 10 yrs. old.
&& had my first kiss when i was 12.
ok so theres this guy that i really like. i mean i really LIKE him. but im afraid to talk to him. with all my toehr crushes i was perfectly fine liek i would be myself. liek if i was hyper i would go crazy right in front of htem. but with him.. im just very i have to make sure that im perfect. and that makes me so nervous. does this mean that like i love him?? orr?? well nto love him but i mean that i like him more than the others?? i dont know.. and how can i make myself talk to him??? so yeah theres two questions..lol
you really do like him.
just relax around him.
maybe eventually, he'll start liking you.
but he should like the REAL you,
not the perfect, fantasy life you're acting like.
a lot of girls have done that.
i know i have ;;
impressing a guy to make him like you.
but if you don't know him too well,
how would you know if you really do like him?
try talking to him.
you know, say something like,
"hey. you're really cool, and i was wondering if we can hang sometime and get to know each other."
just have courage to talk to him.
you'll never know unless you talk to him.
and it won't hurt to try.
hope i helped.
if you need anything,
just message me.
Just tell me.. Should I tell him I like him?
Me - Fifteen. Single.
Him - Sixteen. Going out with a girl.. who
according to my friend who knows both of them, is 'an exact replica [sp?] of me.
Us- Close friends. He used to like me, and I didnt know how I felt, so I tried to just stay friends, and put down his attemps to get close/hold hands/ect. I grew to like him more and more and now I really realllllllly like him.
Currently - Even though he has a girlfriend, he always makes it a point to tell me he loves me and Im the only one who can keep him up all night talking, and how he cant wait until after Highschool so he can see me everyday. Yet, his girlfreind is still his girlfriend?
So what do you think? Should I just tell him? And how should I? I dont get to see him that much, we go to different schools, and he lives one town over. I usually just talk to him on aim/texting.. rarely on the phone but I just hate phones.. I might invite him over but I dont want to tell him in person with just me and him there.
you should tell him.
never let go of a chance to tell somebody how you feel about them.
it seems like he's not really much into his girlfriend.
you're probably more special.
and that says something.
maybe you can kind of work your way into telling him.
like giving him hints and stuff.
hopefully he'll get the message.
just because he has a girlfriend doesn't mean he doesn't like you.
maybe he does.
but if you really like him, you have to tell him how you feel.
hope i helped.
if you need anything,
just message me.
My boyfriend & I have been together for several months now. He has recently told me he loves me. Since then, I've felt weird. I'm not sure what love even is! I care about him alot and I can't picture my life without him, but how do you know when you truly love someone? I've tried saying it to him, but the words never come out. I don't know if I'm scared of giving him that part of me he could break or if I really don't love him. How do I determine from the two?
relationships are full of risks you have to take to have a better, if not good, relationship. love can't be explained. it's a feeling. you shouldn't say i love you back to him if you don't mean it. there's nothing worse than words with no meaning, especially that certain one.
hope i helped.
if you need anything else, just message me.