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girl problems, i need help
13/m ok i like this girl. I have a strong felling she likes me , but im not sure. is there any way of knowing without having to say anything to her. it sounds like im shy but im not i just dont want to mess anything up 'cause weve been friends for about 4 years. and that friendship is really important to me.thanx alot in advance.
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all the other posters are right. in my opinion, i think you should maybe glide your way through it, yu know? like, start talking to her about which boys she thinks is hot or something then ask something like, "do i have a chance with you?" yea it'll b pretty awkward for a little while, but if you really like the girl, you would do anything to know how she feels for you, right? if she does, you CAN ask her out. you don't have to, but either way, there's that feeling of relief and grace that she said yes or sure or something. if she says no, well, that's ok. you're young and there's still a lot of other girls. don't take this one too hard, just be cool and do what you need to do!
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The previous poster was right, you just might have to take a chance.
However, you could take things a little slower and just find a reason or two to hand out together sometime. If you're uncomfortable doing something outside of school, find a reason to sit with her at lunch! Do you have mutual friend?
If so, you're in! If not, then its possible to find another way. Maybe you can study together...
It may take a little longer, but you may find out that you just want to be friends, or that you like her even more than you thought.
(Hope that helps! Anymore questions, please feel free contact me at cardenb@countryday.net!)
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since you're friends, appoint a hang out to your group (if you have) in a mall. then tell the girl you like to accompany him first because you want her to help you pick out a bag or dress for the girl you want to court (but this girl is she). tell her that she and the girl have similar likes or size so that she can be able to have what she want. then upon buying, find the others then act as if you can't find them already then you're tired. treat her in a restaurant or any other where you can sit down and talk. then open your real intention with her.
the day after, give the stuff you bought which she chose. put a note inside it that you like her..
i know for you this is a money-wasting thing to do but this is the only way you can get close to her and to make sure of her feelings with you..
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Well sweetheart, you're 13,
and thats still super young!
Rejection is in your future,
for everyone, and you cant be afraid of that!
There really isnt anyway to know if she likes you without saying anything to her, unless you have a friend ask her, but thats always awkward, and it puts pressure on the girl , to make a decision, so she would most likely say no, even when she doesnt mean it. Just if you think she may like you, take a chance, but either way if you ask her out, and she says yes, you're most likley going to break up because you both are so young, and it will be awkward afterwords anyways. I dont meant to be the bearer of badnews or anything, just trying to say it as I see it. But go for it, good luck.
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