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boy trouble
There this boy eric i like him but he has a girlfriend he liked me first i heard rumors he was goning to ask me out to the dance but then he went out with this girl... this girls really nice and stuff but i liked him first i guess that doensnt matter i dont know if theres an answer to my problem but if there is...
advice please
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The lesson here is be more assertive next time. Maybe he thought you were not interested and this other girl was making it known to him that she is interested. Let him know how you feel before they get serious, and don't let this happen again!
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Well, the only thing I can really suggest to you is just wait it out, or move on. Just continue to hang with him and maybe even show signs of interest and everythign to keep the momentum of the friendship going, and see what happens later. You never know, they could break up, and you two could get together.
Just don't hook up with him or anything, or flirt heavily while other people are around. First of all, that's a huge drama creator. You're not only hurting the girlfriend's feelings, you're ticking off all her friends too, and you'd probably be tagged as some sort of "man stealer". ( I'm not saying you're going to do this, I'm just listing what some girls tend to do in these situations ).
But just try and sit around with him and hang out and show him what he's missing and just, what a great person you are. But if he doesn't come to his sense sooner or later, I'd try meeting some new guys and giving them a chance. You never know, you might wind up liking another guy more than you do this guy. You can't just sit and wait around forever. You're young!
I hope I helped.
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