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first girlfriend
13/m ok im wondering, for your first gf would you want somebody you really care about. or wuld you want someone who you like just not at that high of a level just to see what its like first so you dont mess up with the one you really really care about, but first letting her know. for the record im not some kind of player that wants alot of girls just to have them.
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Don't ever use a girl for that or mess with someone's heart. Date only the one you really like, or at least try for her first. No prior experience needed!!! Just be attentive and respectful.
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I think for your first, and for any girlfriend in the future for that matter, should be cared for on some certain of a high level. I mean yes, it's good to test everything out with girls and see what types you like and everything and what mistakes you first make so you don't with the one you really really really like, but you still gotta have feelings for them and everything.
Just don't treat them and act like their some guinea pig or something. I think the first one should be really nice and cared about cause I mean, it IS your first girlfriend. Your kids might ask about her someday and you don't want your response to just be,"Uh, I don't even remember her name or anything."
So just have a good relationship with your girlfriends, have a good time with them, and just see where it takes you, and just make mental notes of all the mistakes that might ( hopefully they won't ) happen in the relationship, so when that one that you really really really like does in fact come along, you can be like,"Well, I shouldn't do this, or this, or this. If she starts acting like this, that isn't the signs of a good relationship, etc."
I hope I helped.
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I think all your relationships should be with someone you care for. It might not last forever as
far as dating goes, but you might make a long time friend. :)
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