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i'm a girl thats 13 and I like a guy alex that is 13. we are friends and sometimes i think he likes me, but he flirts with everyone. We flirt more when our other friends aren't around, but he's not mean to me when we are with our other frineds. I don't want to ruin our friendhip by going out with him. and sometimes I feel like i just want him to like me, and once he does and asks me out ..i'll say no. how do i figure out if i want this for real or am just seeing if he likes me? should i keep flirting with him and see what happens? or should i just keep it as friends and then see what other guys come along?
thanks for your help
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i'm going through the same thing you are. i like my best guy friend. i think you shouldn't lead him on then just say no when he asks you out. that'll make it more awkward. really, i would stay friends until you know that your friendship is so strong that you can have a relationship and know that when the relationship ends, you'll still be friends at the end. ]
Sweetie this guy sounds like he's pretty into you and you're pretty into him. You'll never know unless you don't try and you might miss out on something great. If you do go out, you should probably have a talk with him and say 'I hope this doesn't happen anytime soon, but if we do break up, we have to promise each other we will remain good friends'. Chances are if you wait for other guys to come along, you're going to be asking the same question as you are now.
Good luck;; xx ]
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