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Dating my best friend
...I'm wondering if dating my best guy-friend is the best thing because I've heard that you'll never be friends after but as I've said before...I've dated one of my other friends and we broke up and we're still good friends...The thing is...with this guy...I never really liked him before but now I feel as though I can't spend a day without talking to him...Is it a good idea to date him....
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i dated my best guy friend and we broke up. but now were even closer than before.
i think its a really good idea, cuz to me dating a friend is better than hooking up with someone that you thought was hot.
[[besides, it sounds like you REALLY like him now!!]]
good luck w/him! hope i helped
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It depends how close you and your guy friend are. My best friend (who happened to be a guy) and me tried going out for 5 months and we recently broke up. We're still friends but it's just not the same. If you still want to be bffs even if you break-up, I do not think you should date him.
But if you really really really like him and feel like you'll die if you don't get a chance to date him, then go date him, girl! =)
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i decided to date my best guy friend and for me it worked out as a really good decision. we dated for a really long time and it was amazing, but then after a while we decided it just wasnt working out so now we're back to being really good friends. like the other person said, its not awkward unless u make it awkward. i still feel like i cant spend a day without talking to him, and i think he feels the same way, so its like things never changed.
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Well even though SOME say that you'll never be friends, some say the best relationships also start out as friendships ; so date him, give it a shot.
And I don't think you guys'll necessairly never be friends again. It's only awkward if you guys make it awkward, and so on. If you two were to just push it behind you guys and focus on being friends again and just talking and work on it, then I'm sure you guys could smoothly get your friendship back on track.
To ensure you two'll stay friends in the end, maybe just talk about it with him first and let him know you're worried about what's going to happen if you two ever were to break up. Some couples even make a promise to eachother when they first start dating ; no matter what happens, you'll always remain friends. That might make you two feel a little better about your relationship and dating eachother.
I hope I helped.
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i'm going through the same thing as you are. i can't stop thinking about him, and always wondering about him. i guess i do like him. but anyways. there's a lot of pros and cons to this thing.
pros: it's easier to talk to him. you know him so it's easier to have a good relationship with him. it just feels better to be with him.
cons: if/when you break up, it's gonna be awkward. your friendship is in risk. you might lose somebody whose close to you.
i guess i would say, ask him if he would wanna try going out. if you want it to be a successful relationship, both of you have to commit to it. also, make sure that if/when you break up, you'll always stay friends. you would not want to end up not talking to each other after all you've been through. i learned that the hard way. and, never change. ya'll have been friends all this time, and just cuz ya'll are dating doesn't mean you should change. that's really important.
if you need anything else, feel free to IM me. my AIM s/n is:: WANNA BE iiN LUV
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i think that dating a friend is better than dating someone your not really friends with....its a lot less akward...and you breeze past the getting to know you stage...your comfortable in a good way...true the first kiss might be a little weird...but sometimes weird is more intersting...and if you ever do brake up make sure he knows that you wanna go back to being good friends, and then actually go through with it...if you wanna stay good friends, just stay the same...it might get akward at first, but you'll work it out...if you brake up that is...maybe you two might be soulmates;)
well hope i helped
good luck
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There's so many good things and bad things for something like this. You guys might be meant for eachother and if you don't give it a try, you'll never know if it's suppose to work out or not. He could be the one for you and you'll be holding back on something because you're scared of ruining a friendship. Since you guys are best friends it going to be hard for you. I mean, what if something doesn't work out in the relationship and you guys break up then never talk again. You'll be losing your boyfriend and bestfriend. But on the other hand, he could be the guy you're going to spend the rest of your life with. He could be the one and you'll be passing that up because you didn't take a chance. So, honestly, if I were you I'd listen to your heart and do what it tells you to do. The heart never lies, so follow it.
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