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There's not really much to say about me. My name is Melissa, but I perfer Mel. I'm still in school..and that's all you will know about how old I am. Hopefully I'll be able to answer your questions, but if not..well, your out of luck. Go find another advicenators page, then. =)

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say someone picks on you and such.. and makes rude comments, how do you stand up for yourself? because i dont have the confidence to go and say something if they were to say something to me or my friends? how do i gain the confidence to do this or what do i say? i dont want to sould like a prissy so any tips?

I sit beside this really gross, perverted guy in class who all the time makes rude and innopropriate comments to me. What I do to stand up to him is either agree with what he's saying (ie "Your mom was hot last night, Mel" "Of course she was") or pretend to be nice to him (ie "You wanna have sex, Mel?" "No, thanks."). Usually he'll back off and I feel a bit more cofident. Either that or he'll, in return, act a bit more humane towards me.

Hopefully this helps!!

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Alright, homecoming was last night and it was alright nothing special, but my main goal that night was to try and get with my ex again, i just cant stop thinking about her. Well it was coming to the end of the dance and she was there with some other kid but they weren't going out. So with support from my friend I got the courage to ask her to dance (which really wasn't that hard to ask her i think it's overated) but anyway she said yes and it was the best feeling in the world to dance with her then at the end of the song she gave me this amazing feeling hug which lasted like 10 seconds then she said she had to go so she left then i left. But what im really wondering is do you think i have a chance of getting back together with her?? please any help is appreciated.

I think you so have some chance of getting back together, however it is going to take some work. Be her friend first and gain back all the trust you had at the start, before you started going out. Then, and only then, you can flirt a bit more and maybe ask her out again.
If she says no, don't feel bad, she may just feel uncomfortable going out with you again.

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I am retyping this question cause last time it was way too big and no one answered.
I had this girl. At the beginning it was all fine till I fell deep. Way too deep. I did everything for her and I was willing to do so much more. And when I say everything, use your imagination, I mean EVERYTHING.
Anyways, after 2 months she dumped me and I know I love her. Did I push her away? Did I reak her out? Did I express strong feelings too early? I did not tell her that I love her, but trust me, she knows it. Of course I want her back, no matter how long will it take. Just as long as she will end up in my arms again. Every second I spend away from her sucks. But If I have to keep a distance so I will. What do you suggest I should do?
She hasn t told me she does not want me, she told me all this lame excuses why we cant be together. I practically begged her to tell me she no longer wants me and she just wouldn t. Was she being kind or something? Was she being honest?

She might have broken up with you because you got too clingy. I had a boyfriend once that would compliment me on anything, and I mean anything. At one point it was just too weird for me and I dumped him. If you told her how much you love her like you did in your question so early on (even a month is early), she might have gotten freaked out and that may be the reason why she dumped you.
I suggest you keep being her friend, if she wants you to. Hopefully, you'll eventually get over her and maybe find a girl that likes being told how much they are loved each day. The best of luck to you.

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Well, let's just say I'm not the greatest person ever at math. I actually try really hard. I do all of the extra credit things, I practice online and I pay attention during class, but I just can't seem to make a good grade. I've tried going to the extra help things at my school with my math teacher, but it doesn't help.
My average for the nine weeks this time was a 79. Is there something that anyone knows of that I can go to for help? Also, do colleges look at middle school grades or is it only high school grades?

You probably think that 79 is a low grade because you might have been getting 80s and 90s in elementary and earlier middle school. My teachers at the beginning of this year all told us, "Don't worry about getting lower marks because that's just a regular thing as the grades go up". 79 is /not/ a bad mark, depending on what grade you are in, it's good-pretty good. So don't worry!!
As for you second question, I think it's only high school, but I have no idea.

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...I'm wondering if dating my best guy-friend is the best thing because I've heard that you'll never be friends after but as I've said before...I've dated one of my other friends and we broke up and we're still good friends...The thing is...with this guy...I never really liked him before but now I feel as though I can't spend a day without talking to him...Is it a good idea to date him....

It depends how close you and your guy friend are. My best friend (who happened to be a guy) and me tried going out for 5 months and we recently broke up. We're still friends but it's just not the same. If you still want to be bffs even if you break-up, I do not think you should date him.

But if you really really really like him and feel like you'll die if you don't get a chance to date him, then go date him, girl! =)

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can i loose weight by not eating but one time a day or not eating at all or will that make me sick i really wanna loose 20 pounds by november plzzzzzz help me give me some advice?

Pleeease don't stop eating, or even only one meal a day!! That's not a good way to lose weight, it's very unhealthy.

A good way to lose weight would be to do something active every day (like go for a jog or a bike ride) for at least 20 minutes and eat more veggies. But don't make all your meals just veggies!!

You might not lose 20 pounds by November, honey, but will lose weight and be healthier. 20 pounds is a big goal, so if you don't achieve it, don't give up!!

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