Question Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 10:40 am
I am retyping this question cause last time it was way too big and no one answered.
I had this girl. At the beginning it was all fine till I fell deep. Way too deep. I did everything for her and I was willing to do so much more. And when I say everything, use your imagination, I mean EVERYTHING.
Anyways, after 2 months she dumped me and I know I love her. Did I push her away? Did I reak her out? Did I express strong feelings too early? I did not tell her that I love her, but trust me, she knows it. Of course I want her back, no matter how long will it take. Just as long as she will end up in my arms again. Every second I spend away from her sucks. But If I have to keep a distance so I will. What do you suggest I should do?
She hasn t told me she does not want me, she told me all this lame excuses why we cant be together. I practically begged her to tell me she no longer wants me and she just wouldn t. Was she being kind or something? Was she being honest?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? dontrepeat answered Wednesday October 11 2006, 5:53 pm: She might have broken up with you because you got too clingy. I had a boyfriend once that would compliment me on anything, and I mean anything. At one point it was just too weird for me and I dumped him. If you told her how much you love her like you did in your question so early on (even a month is early), she might have gotten freaked out and that may be the reason why she dumped you.
I suggest you keep being her friend, if she wants you to. Hopefully, you'll eventually get over her and maybe find a girl that likes being told how much they are loved each day. The best of luck to you. [ dontrepeat's advice column | Ask dontrepeat A Question ]
Boy4gd answered Wednesday October 11 2006, 3:52 pm: now this might not be gd advice but you need to find owt y she dumped you, if she sed she still wants 2 be friends then tell her that your her friend & that you 2 can talk about anything or you could 4get about her cos if she really cared 4 u she would come after you [ Boy4gd's advice column | Ask Boy4gd A Question ]
ash7 answered Wednesday October 11 2006, 2:27 pm: hey let me tell you sumthin that you may not like it because you are in love with her. First of all you shud have told her that you love her because sumtimes unspoken words are not enough specialy in love.
Secondaly when gals wana break up they give lame excuses bcuz they dun hve one,may be she likes sum1 else or may be she is not getting along wth you.take my advice if she has left you once dun wait for her she wont cum back. Dun think therz sumthin wrong wth you im sure you are great but jus thnk that you both are not meant to be, the more u'll begg her the more she'll run frm you. It will be hrd but u'll get thru n u'll find that sum1 special who understands your feelings.so jus tcrz man. [ ash7's advice column | Ask ash7 A Question ]
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