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I need to know
See...well, I like my best friend as more than just a friend. I want her to know without making it so obvious. She does a lot of things that makes me think she likes me too. Whenever she does things like hug me or smile at me or say something really nice, I am always backing off and I don't know why! I want to be with her so badly, but I always change the subject or act like a complete fool whenever she says or does something really nice to me...I need help.
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Know the feeling, unfortunately. Sort of going through that right now, but I know he's not into me. I know it's friggin hard, but bring it up. Maybe over a game of truth or dare. When she says truth, say like "what do you think would happen if we dated?" but maybe something sweeter and more articulate. Or over a game of chess, that might be cute. Be like "ok, so, here are the stakes. if I win, you have to kiss me. what about if you win?" Something cute and casual like that.
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Dude relax. Do yourself a favor and read through questions on this website. How many GIRLS are having the same problem? A bunch! Not saying everyone does, but a lot more peopele than you think have that going on. It seems like while the guy is thinking one thing, the girl is thinking the same thing and then they both don't say anything. What would make things easier for them? If the other person just admitted to liking them or something, right? I think you should go for it and be honest and open; just flat out tell her that you like her as more than just a friend. If shes your best friend I'm sure you can come up with the courage to say that to her. Really, I don't see why you couldn't do that, it's not like you won't be friends anymore if you do tell her - she won't hate you for it. Plus you owe it to her, right? Don't be shy or afraid of rejection. You aren't hurting yourself or anyone else by telling her or trying to work things out. Put aside and fears or squash them with the idea of how awesome things could turn out. Trust me with that. Just be patient and relax. Go for it and good luck.
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the guy i like also does this to me. we're really good friends, and when i drop hints that i like him, he just changes the subject. well, one thing you can do is do the same thing. start a conversation with her. start something like, talk about a class at skool or something, then lead up to something like, "hmm. i know this is completely random, but if yu could go out w/ anybody in our skool, who would yu go out w/?" then after that, ask her something like, "well, would yu go out w/ me?" if she doesn't say yur name. yea, maybe she'll get wat yur trying to do, but it might work out. who knows?
so if yu need anything else,
yu can IM me on AIM.
my s/n is:
WANNA BE iiN LUV
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