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should you swim in the ocean while on your period,? (link)
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Yep...no problem as long as you stay away from places that might have sharks near by. Sharks have keen olfactory senses, with some species able to detect as little as one part per million of blood in seawater. They are attracted to the chemicals found in the guts of many species, and as a result often linger near or in sewage outfalls. Some species, such as nurse sharks, have external barbels that greatly increase their ability to sense prey. The short duct between the anterior and posterior nasal openings are not fused as in bony fishes. Sharks generally rely on their superior sense of smell to find prey, but at closer range they also use the lateral lines running along their sides to sense movement in the water, and also employ special sensory pores on their heads (Ampullae of Lorenzini) to detect electrical fields created by prey and the ambient electric fields of the ocean. Because of their great sense of smell you should be very aware of where you are and where they might be.
Also use a tampon...don't use a pad. Your bottums will inflate and it will be the most embarassing thing you have ever expeirienced.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shark#Shark_senses
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well today my bff called me a pendeja(its a bad word in spanish)when i walked away she told me that she was just joking around and that i take everything to personnal she said that i was like her mom then she said that she was just getting revenge for freshmen year when i got mad at her for wat other people said(we are in 10 grade now)then 2day after school she waited for me but i was so mad at her that i walked ahead of her she then her friend asked why i was doing that she said that i was mad at her i just left and she just stayed wit her other friend.Wat should i do? (link)
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Well I looked up pendeja and ya it is bad word and no one should be called that for no reason. If nothing happened before that she probably was joking around, but if something did happen then she wasn't joking around. So say something didn't happen before she called you a bad word...she probably was joking, but she should also appoligize because that could hurt someone joking or not. I see why you are mad at her even if something didn't happen before. Then think about what you could have done to make it stop there. Maybe you couldn't do anything and that's fine. From what I've heard I'm on your side. Then she said she was getting revenge...revenge is a preschool thing when it comes to a year or more dating back. That is very stupid and it is no excuse for calling you an asshole. You were right to just walk away. You needed time to cool off and maybe now you are ready to talk to her about. It is a good thing you walked off and didn't start a confrontation. So say something did happen to make her call you a pendeja...you should think about what it was that set her off and ask if maybe you were the one who really started this whole thing. If it was you apologize and expect one from her too. The revenge thing once again is immature. Tell her if she is still whining about that one thing one year ago she isn't a really true friend. True friends forgive and forget. And once again you were totaly right to just walk away. So what do you do...tell her how you feel about the situtation. Tell her that you were offended by it joking or not. Tell her that is not acceptable behavior. You be the bigger person and maybe next she will have more respect for you. Respect=Love=Relationships=Communication. Get her to respect you she will love more. Build a better relationship of love and respect. And then the last part. Communication is what keeps us on our toes. So talk to her if you are having a problem with her. Don't start the conversation out with yelling. Just tell her everything (from the first time you saw her to now) of how you are feeling about your relationship. Open up to her it will make it better I promise!
Hope I helped
Kelse Kaye
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hey homie i have a zit how do i get rid of it? (link)
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pop it
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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess. (link)
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Don't go through with this! Don't do it! Suicide is not the answer. If you're hurting physically go to a doctor and get evaluated. If you are hurting mentally and emmotionaly go to a physcologist. I'm serious this is not the way you wanna go. I've seen someone die and I know what it does to people. It's not just you that you'll be giving up on. It's your family, your brother, your brothers wife, and his future kids. Don't you want to meet youre neices and nephews? Do you want them to think of you as a quiter in life? No. If you once had a successful career you will have another one. You just have to keep going and trying. There is no such thing as a painless death either. You will be hurting so many people. Don't leave your brother behind with this to deal with. Trust me, losing a brother is like losing your own life. Remember SUICIDE IS A PERMANENT FIX TO A TEMPORARY PROBLEM. Please don't go through with this...please.
Kelse Kaye
Talk to me. Go to my advice column and say ask question. I will give you my e-mail and we can talk.
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My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 2 months now..and all we have done is makeout, and that is all i am planning on doing with him, i don't believe in sex before marriage. but what kinds of things can we do to keep things interesting when together, or making out or w/e, but no tounge...and no sexual stuff beyond makeing out...???? (link)
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Well I'm in the same boat as you. I have the same morals and we have been dating for about 6 months though. When it got about 2 months we started getting a lot more frisky and I told him to back off and he did. So first you should probably discuss this with your boyfriend to make sure that he knows to keep his distance. And I believe that oral sex is considered sex. Also think about this would you like your future husband to be giving oral sex to his girlfriend right now and then when you are married would you like the fact that you have to kiss what has been in another woman's vagina. And it's even weirder to think of him kissing your kids goodnight. So here's what you can do to lighten things up a bit...
1)Tease him every once in a while. Don't look overly sexy but a sophisticated sexy where it doesn't look like your sending him the wrong message. Don't go beyond what is good for your age either. There's nothing like a 12 year old tramp. So tease him into kissing you. Give him little kisses and bite his lip(not too hard) pull it out a little and then kiss him on the cheeck. It will flow and you'll know what to do after that.
2)And hun, no tongue? I'm not trying to be rude in any way but you'll probably start to have to use that tongue. And when you do use it...kiss him really hard one day and the next give him a really cutsie type of kiss (like smiling and having a fun time with it). The next day give him a really sentual kiss. Keep him guessing on which one your gonna give him.
So that's all I have for you. I hope it works out great, but remember to stay true to your values and don't let him take something from you that means a lot to you.
Have fun,
Kelse Kaye
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i need to find the easiest way to lern a back handspring..I don't know what i am doing wrong but every time i try to do the move i ent just doing a fancy fowards roll...i never land on my feet! also, help with a sumersault would be nice..any advice on this matter is welcome! (link)
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So about your backhand spring. I don't know what kind of training you have had so I will start from a basic thing that will help a lot if you work with it. Lay down on the floor and lift your arms and legs about 2-4in. off of the ground. Don't lift them up too much though or it won't do any good. This tightens your stomach muscles. Hold it there for a while and then release do this over and over again. When this is tightening it helps you to know how to tighten them. So when doing your backhand spring tighten them just like you did before and jump high (but not too high), lock your arms, keep head tucked and pull feet around quick but not too quick or you will end up on your head really quick.
Hope I helped
-Kelse Kaye
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Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
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By reading this I first thought that you really do know what you are talking about, but then I thought she wouldn't be asking us this if she did know what she was talking about so...
A) Nate could be using you and maybe he's not. None of us can tell you wether or not he is. That is your decision to make. Maybe he really does like you. So find out wether or not he is using you or if he does like you. My opinion, he has to have some sort of feelings for you or else he wouldn't be coming back to you. So how to resolve this...tell him how you feel about the situation. You're smart and I'm sure you can think of a way. Get his opinion. Because if he has no feelings for you (which I completely doubt) then he will tell you and you will have a better time deciding which boy to pick. And if Nate is making you feel so right then why aren't you with him? It's resentment of knowing the truth. And like I said before find this truth out before making a decision you might regret.
B) Blake...oh Blake. From my prespective of this story he is head over heels for you. If you don't think this is true think about it. You have told him twice and he's still with you. Any other guy would say F*** you I can find someone better. So you have found yourself a really caring and loveable person. So why are you damaging that? Because you're not sure yet. It's okay to be not sure, but for his sake you might wanna start getting sure. If you care for Blake as much as you say you do then I know you have to be feeling like a total and complete b**** for doing this. I'm not just saying this to piss you off I'm saying this so it's embedded in your mind. Obviously you know what you're doing and you've already said these things, but have you thought about them hard? Think about this story from a different prespective. Like, Blake's prespective. Act as if you were him reading this knowing all the things you, Nate, and Blake know. You'll feel more of something to reread over and over. It will help your decision also. In my opinion, Blake is a great person that can give you what you want in life, but if you're not satisfied with him then you should think of what isn't making you satisfied. What is it? You got it? THink about it hard. Now talk to him about it. Maybe it's the lack-of-sex part. If it is tell him. If it's to unconforatble then you shouldn't have sex with him anyways and keep sleeping with Nate.
C) And you don't want to hurt any of them, right? Wrong. It's impossible. If Nate is using you then it probably won't hurt him at all. But I think he has feelings for you. So then it would hurt him to say "Hey, Nate I don't wanna have sex anymore...I'm with Blake." And more than likely Blake will be really heart broken. So which one do you choose? I have no clue. You do though. Talk to both of them. Find some way to make it work with ONE of them. You know that you can't have both for the rest of your life. Talk to both. Tell them everything. Maybe you shouldn't tell Blake everything if you don't want to, but if you do go ahead it's your life don't let me make any decisions for you. You're smart and so are they so don't think that they are completely blind to all of this. They both know some sort of something.
So lastly...do what you feel is right and not what anyone says. Be with the one you love and not the one that gives you pleasure, but if the one you love gives you nothing then retreat to the one you're passionate with. It really isn't about not hurting one of these guys although one will get hurt. It's really about what makes you happy and complete. I hope everything works out. Tell me how things end up!
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First off, this isn't one of those questions on how to lose weight or anything.
I really want to lose weight & I know that I can do it. My biggest issue is on how to keep motivated and to keep on track. I want this SO bad but nothing will seem to make me stick to it. I love food and that's my issue. No doubt.
I know about nutrients, protein, carbs, calories & I've learned this all from Jenny Craig. That was working fine for me but it was expensive and again, my problem was keeping on track and being motivated. I just want to be healthy and I want to feel great about myself and I'm confident but I'd like to acomplish this. I'm 15/ female.
I need advice on keeping motivated and honestly, I really want this even if it doesn't seem like it. I don't want a nutrtion or anything. Thank youu. (link)
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Like the first answer said it does come down to your personality. You need to keep focused on eating the right things and not eating to much of it. Not as easy as it sounds...I know. So try this:
Hang up pictures of a celebrity who is your ideal size. Ideal size includes, the height you are, the weight you wanna be, and the kind of shape she is in. If she is in good shape she might have strong legs and arms and a nice butt. Put this picture on your fridge or where ever you eat from most often. So when you go to get a pop, candy, or other junk food you will see the picture and think I wanna look like that. This will keep you to focus on what you need to keep out of your body. But make sure and change the picture at least once a week so you don't get bored and just give up on it. If something happens to your mindset on the way you wanna look change your picture with someone new.
I also suggest to ask a friend to do this with you. If you have a friend do it with you it keeps you more competative and motivated. If your friend loses weight you'll want to look better than her. Then you lose weight and she wants to be better than you so you trade all the time which not only helps you but someone else. Make sure this idea is okay with your friend first so she does not get mad at you for "using" her or competing with her.
And lastly go to the mall and buy you a bikini you want to fit into by summer. Hang it up in your room and everyday you are about to eat or drink something think of how good that bikini will look on you in the summer. I hope I helped, hun!
Good luck losing weight,
Kelse Kaye
P.S. If you need additional help or are not satisfied with this answer just leave one in my inbox. Thanks!
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So I like this boy right. Except he's pretty shy. and well let's just say I'm pretty outgoing. I don't really talk to him, like I've talked to him once. And I don't want to randomly talk to him all the time and him be like "wtf why does this girl keep talking to me?!". I don't have any classes with him so I don't know how to start a conversation with him. I have lunch with him and I'm friends with his friends. How should I handle this situation? Any ideas? Thanks so much! (link)
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Wow. Same exact thing I'm going through and I got some answers so here are some that might help you. First off don't be somebody your not just to get his attention. Make sure to stay you at all times so that he doesn't fall head over heals for the "other" you. Then after a while you'll get bored of putting on a show and that could end badly. And I know how hard it is to just go up to a guy and start talking. So maybe hang out with your friends that are his friends and invite some of your friends over to your house or to the movies and tell them to invite him. Maybe when your there hanging out he'll notice you and you will be more at ease talking to him if you're around mutual friends. Don't be to outgoing at him. Remember the number one rule we already discused to be you. Don't be so out goint that it will annoy him. After a while of talking flirt a little and then he will feel much more at ease to flirt with you and talk to you back. I hope I helped!
Good luck with this boy,
Kelse Kaye
P.S. If you need additional help or are not satisfied with this answer just leave one in my inbox. Thanks!
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I have a question about my hair. Its passed my shoulders by a couple inches or so, and i was wondering how could i style it? My hair is naturally quite straight and its getting boring just leaving it the way it is all the time.
I was thinking of dying it as well like have blonde at the top and black on the bottom layer, would that be any good? I just want different ways of styling my hair so it doesnt look boring all the time. Mind you, if i try and curl my hair, its really really hard to.
Any suggestions would be awesome, thanks. =) (link)
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I think that you should be conforatble with any hair you get so I suggest that you consolt your beautician before cutting or dying it. Your beautician might have some great ideas for you. Talk to her about how the way it would compliment your face. For example if a person with a chubby face gets a bob it may not look as cute as if someone with a heart shaped face gets a bob.
Also if you are dark toned don't get a hair color that is so light it would make you look funny. And about styling it...you could straighten it and then "fluff" it. By "fluffing" it I mean taking a rat tail comb and rating the underneath of your hair to add volume to it. You can then put your hair in a updue or half poney tail or leave it down. If you might be interested in getting a perm it would be easy to style in the morning. With perms you need to consolt with your beautician incase you want it really curly (use small small curlers) or if you want a lot of wave to it (use big big curlers). I hope I helped, hun.
Good luck with your hair,
Kelse Kaye
P.S. If you need additional help or are not satisfied with this advice just leave one in my inbox. Thank You!
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my boyfriend and i broke up about 1/2 a week ago. we found out last night that we both still really like eatchother. there are a lot of problums, like i hardly ever see him durring the day(our classes changed in the new semester) and, as i told him, we are both presented with new oppertuinities every single day and its hard missing out on other people for someone you hardly ever see, even if it is worth it. i kindof regret breaking up with him, but it seems like that doesnt even matter because we basicly broke up with eatchother at the same time, and he would have broken up with me, annyway. we care about eatchother a lot, and this is reallly bothering me. it was getting hard for me to trust him, also, because it seemed like he just didnt really 'act' like he had a girlfriend when i wasnt around, and i had seen him winking at other chickas when he didnt know i was around. i dont really know what to do. please someody give me some advice
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Well first off I have been through the same thing a million times with my ex. My ex and I still like each other infact we love each other, but I completly trust him. I think that relationships should be built on trust, compatability, communication, and honesty. If you don't have one of those it could be a real problem. I think you should focus on your trust issue with him before you come to any conclusions and date him again.
Trust is an extreme thing and is not one of those things you should let everyone have a peice. Make sure before you say yes or no that you trust in him to be a loyal boyfriend with you. That is something that can affect your relationship with him if you do not review it carefully.
Next, the thing about not getting to see him as often as you once did. I think in my personal expeirience that you should consider wether or not he would be able to deal with seeing you less. Because if not then you shouldn't persue him. Like you said there are more oppertunities out there for you and if you need to take one then take one of those and don't wait on him. So lastly, make sure to keep yourself protected. You need to make sure that he won't hurt you again and you won't regret persuing one of the other oppertunities. Hope this helped, hun.
Hope I helped,
Kelse Kaye
P.S. If you need more help just leave one in my indbox.
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