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17/f
my boyfriend and i broke up about 1/2 a week ago. we found out last night that we both still really like eatchother. there are a lot of problums, like i hardly ever see him durring the day(our classes changed in the new semester) and, as i told him, we are both presented with new oppertuinities every single day and its hard missing out on other people for someone you hardly ever see, even if it is worth it. i kindof regret breaking up with him, but it seems like that doesnt even matter because we basicly broke up with eatchother at the same time, and he would have broken up with me, annyway. we care about eatchother a lot, and this is reallly bothering me. it was getting hard for me to trust him, also, because it seemed like he just didnt really 'act' like he had a girlfriend when i wasnt around, and i had seen him winking at other chickas when he didnt know i was around. i dont really know what to do. please someody give me some advice
thanx much xoxo
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Well first off I have been through the same thing a million times with my ex. My ex and I still like each other infact we love each other, but I completly trust him. I think that relationships should be built on trust, compatability, communication, and honesty. If you don't have one of those it could be a real problem. I think you should focus on your trust issue with him before you come to any conclusions and date him again.
Trust is an extreme thing and is not one of those things you should let everyone have a peice. Make sure before you say yes or no that you trust in him to be a loyal boyfriend with you. That is something that can affect your relationship with him if you do not review it carefully.
Next, the thing about not getting to see him as often as you once did. I think in my personal expeirience that you should consider wether or not he would be able to deal with seeing you less. Because if not then you shouldn't persue him. Like you said there are more oppertunities out there for you and if you need to take one then take one of those and don't wait on him. So lastly, make sure to keep yourself protected. You need to make sure that he won't hurt you again and you won't regret persuing one of the other oppertunities. Hope this helped, hun.
Hope I helped,
Kelse Kaye
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What is your question, exactly? Whether you should get back together with him?
I think that since you guys do still really like eachother, you should tell him how you feel. Tell him that you don't like the way he acts around you and you don't like that he winks at other girls. Just be honest, it will help you guys figure out what's going on with your relationship.
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