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Your basic love life question
So I like this boy right. Except he's pretty shy. and well let's just say I'm pretty outgoing. I don't really talk to him, like I've talked to him once. And I don't want to randomly talk to him all the time and him be like "wtf why does this girl keep talking to me?!". I don't have any classes with him so I don't know how to start a conversation with him. I have lunch with him and I'm friends with his friends. How should I handle this situation? Any ideas? Thanks so much!
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Smile when you see him. Like not a creepy i know what you did last summer smile, just a friendly smile. Then work your way up to saying hey or hi when you see him. Try to hang out with his friends more, and if he's around while you are, include him on the conversation. Basically work up a friendship with him so you can start flirting without freaking him out. :]
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Wow. Same exact thing I'm going through and I got some answers so here are some that might help you. First off don't be somebody your not just to get his attention. Make sure to stay you at all times so that he doesn't fall head over heals for the "other" you. Then after a while you'll get bored of putting on a show and that could end badly. And I know how hard it is to just go up to a guy and start talking. So maybe hang out with your friends that are his friends and invite some of your friends over to your house or to the movies and tell them to invite him. Maybe when your there hanging out he'll notice you and you will be more at ease talking to him if you're around mutual friends. Don't be to outgoing at him. Remember the number one rule we already discused to be you. Don't be so out goint that it will annoy him. After a while of talking flirt a little and then he will feel much more at ease to flirt with you and talk to you back. I hope I helped!
Good luck with this boy,
Kelse Kaye
P.S. If you need additional help or are not satisfied with this answer just leave one in my inbox. Thanks!
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Hey, you said you sit with him at lunch so just talk about what you do in school even though you guys don't have classes together, you can talk about what you like, what you did the other day. You know stuff like that. Yeah you don't want to just go up and randomly start talking to him like sit with him and like oh yeah that reminds me when I fell in the lunchroom! lol. Or something like that you know. I hope it all works out for you!
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