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My bf wants to have sex but i'm scared.... i want to..... but its just that... i dont know... can you just please help me... please. (link)
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If you have any doubt to do it. Or you hesitated when he asked or whatever then you shouldnt it just says that your not ready. So if theres any doubt in your mind dont do it.
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How old should you be to start going down on boys?
When I was 12, I had a friend with benefits. We did everything, besides have clothes off sex. But, after we did that. I regretted it big time, and i havent done anything like that for 2 years. But now, i love my boyfriend and he wants to, you know do some stuff.
so, did you think I should?
14/f (link)
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Honestly i dont think you should do stuff like that unless you actualy love him and you know for sure he loves you. But thats just my opinion. And i dont judge people who do it. I can see why you would regret doing stuff like that at 12, but i think everything happens for a reason. So really it's your decision but just make sure your not doing just because your boyfriend or anyone else is pressuring you to do it. Make sure your doing it because you want to do it and are ready to do it again.
Hope i helped at all
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i need a song that will pretty much get the point across that you're an a**hole who messed everything up.
please lol (link)
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Haha ok well lets see Since you've been gone by Kelly Clarkson is kinda like that and umm potential breakup song i guess but not really but i definitely agree wiht the person below me Puke by eminem most definitely oh also a REALLY great song Move on by the Jonas Brothers i love that song and i think you will too
Hope i helped even just a little
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ok at my school there are only freshmen and sophmores and im a sophmore. but theres this freshmen and i really like him. hes so cute and nice and funny. and idk if its weird for me to like him i mean is the age differance too much? i know some people date people who are more than a year apart but i mean with so few kids idk if it would be just too awkward. (link)
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Well if it's only and year and you like hi take a chance high school is a time for dating differnt kinds of guys so put yourself out there
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Ok well im moving to Montreal, Quebec this tuesday from Fredericton N.B.Im a 14/m, I have hundreds of freinds, including one who I want to make more then a freind, but that is going to get fucked over! I almost started crying in class because im going to miss my freinds, and I'm afraid if and when I come back im going to be replaced by all my relly good freinds. How do I deal with this? (link)
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ok well of all people i definitely know how you feel my dads in the navy so we moved around alot it's really hard especially leaving friends so your probably thinking your friends are going to replace you but trust me if they really are your friends if you come back they will go right back to you also you will make more friends wherever your moving to it's hard at first but i got used to it i've moved like 20 differetn times so it's been hard but once you make friends you'll be fine as for the person you want to be more then friends i dont know what to tell you most people say long distant relationships dont work but i've never tried so i dont knwo i eman you could give it a try but they'll be plenty of other people you'll like in Montreal it's going to be hard but i'm sure you'll be ok and you can always email your friends or tlak ont he phone with them hope i helped if you have any more questions i'm here
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i need to loose 10 pounds in 2 weeks.
HELP!
im not fat or anything.
hahaha ijust wanna loose 10 pounds by 2 weeks
:)
thanks!!! (link)
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ok i dont know if it will work because as the person said below it's impossible to lose 10 pounds in 2 weeks the healthy way but i guess this might help ok in the morning when you wake up befor you do anything else drink a glass of ice cold water or at least cold water then eat breakfast trust me but eat something like yogurt or fruit or something along those lines then instead of drinking soda or something with your meals or at all all day drink water with it it's best to chug a glass of water before you eat because then you wont be so hungary also defiantely exercise everyday for about an hour or so do some wlaking or running maybe some aerobic exercise or something also get eight hours of sleep a night and if your somewhere where theres an escalator or elevator take the stairs and of course eat healthier dont eat any junk food hope i helped
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do you know any good fabric shops??? please tell me peferably ones in garden state plaza in nj. if its not at that store please still tell me. the rag shop went out of buisness =[ i need fabric for school. (link)
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ok well i dont live in nj so i dont which ones you have but i know most places have like michaels is like a thrift store umm you can get fabric from a wal mart or places like that usualy so check those out
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Ok well basically I want to know what some signs of teen depression are. Because I don't hang out or even talk to my friends anymore. I feel I'm being ignored at home. I go for walks everyday alone to kinda clear my head but it doesn't work that well. I haven't eaten much this week. & In the past 120 hours, I've only slept for about 6 hours. And I'm really upset and hurt and like empty all the time. So could I be going through some kind of depression? (link)
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ok well if you are depressed you probably stopped doing things you like to do probably stop hanging out with friends are not happy obviously either not sleeping enough or sleeping to much same with food eatin to much or eating to little there are some signs also if you've had thoughts about suicide then your probably definately depressed if you feel like no one likes you everyone hates you and the world would be better without you thats all i can think of at the moment hope i helped
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I need something to help a stinky feet problem i developed this year. I accidently got my shoes wet, then it smelled, I was busy and had no time to take it off and when i did my feet stunk really bad, my feet and shoes just always stink now.
Any tips?
What can i use to wash my shoes with to get rid of that smell?
Many poeple got that problem and i was so glad i wasn't one of them but now..=/ its too embarrassing to take off ym shoes anywhere at all, even for one minute! (link)
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umm ok well i'm pretty sure you cant put shoes through the washer but i'm not sure try to find out and if you can then do that then of course pu them in the dryer until the dryer stops then let the shoes sit out in the air like inside cause you dont want to put them outside unless there somewhere safe from bugs and stuff ummm if you cant put shoes in the washer try adn get new shoes and throw those ones out and if you cant do that then i guess you could just soak your shoes in hott water and soap like laudry soap then let them dry after you rinse them but until you do that try not to wear those shoes
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i think i developed bulimia around last november. ever since thanksgiving i've been throwing up like everything i eat. i used to binge but i stopped and i try to only eat when i absolutely have too. but today i ate some chips, freaked out and purged and i threw up some blood. i'm scared. it's never happened to me before. what happened? what do i do? i don't think i can stop i really can't. if i do i'm afraid i'll get really fatter.
i'm like 5'6" and last time i checked 121 pounds. normally i check everyday but i've been afraid to lately. i don't know what to do. i'm scared. my mom kinda knows about it but she's only said something to me twice. i don't get how i could overcome this. how?
any advice?
thanks so much. (link)
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well if you know you cant stop and you want to stop talk to your mom or someone you trust and get some help and if you tell them your afraid of gaining weight then they will probably help you honestly just start exercising it works like walk an hour everyday i usualy walk 10 minutes after i eat something trust me it will work and just drink lots of water trust me you be fine but you need to stop throwing up cause you can die from that and i'm sure no one wants you dead so please talk to someone about it and if yuo cant write a letter to someone or something but please get help
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15/f
so right now. im dating this boy matt, and hes a football player and hes like a quarterback and hes really popular, and hot and what every girl wants.
however. i dont. i mean i like him, but i kinda got a crush on this emoish boy, name max. hes soo cute. and he seems so nice.
i guess im just sick of dating jocks, who just want to show me off in the halls like im some prize or something. like my boyfriend doesnt even like listen to what i say sometimes. its so annoying.
what should i do (link)
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ok well i have to say it doesnt matter what they dress like how they talk if their popular or not i mean if like someone then go for it especialy if your boyfriend doesnt like to listen to you and just wants to show you off then you should definately go for this Max kid honestly i dont like steriotypic people and i'm not judging you cause i dont know you but i doesnt matter what they look like how they dress who they hangout with it just matters whether you like them or not well good luck
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ok well since i know that they're a christian rock band now, um does any of thir songs show that? like the lyrics have a little something about it? I don't wanan search through but if you know some of their songs (link)
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oh ok umm well the only one i can think of at the moment is "For the moments i feel faint" hope i've helped
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We have to present a song or any song as long as the lyrics have gospel or catholic lyrics included.
I'm having a hell of a problem finding a good song, and even one song!
It's for a project, please help! (link)
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ok well do you want real gospel chirstian music or do you want like a song from christian bands and stuff cause like relient k is a christian rock band ummm you can find lots of christian rock bands on like myspace they have a category for it on the music section so i think you should check that out i think they have both of gospel sounding and christian rock bands hope i helped
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i recently got a pass to my school's (i attend a community college) PE building. i have access to pretty much any kind of gym equipment including a pool, indoor track, etc. i would like to tone my upper arms and thighs (you know, eliminate a little fat and flabby-ness) so i decided to dedicate the two hours or so before my yoga class to working out. so, how would spinning (stationary cycling) or running for 20 minutes and then swimming for an hour and then participating in a 50-minute yoga class work out for me? maybe i could lose a few pounds in the process? (link)
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yeah i think that will definately work the swimming will help for your arms and running will most definately work for you legs/thighs just make sure you drink lots of water and also if you wanted to you could lift some weights anything that involves moving your arms
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Can anyone tell me what love is like? Decribe it to me please. (link)
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ok what Cuxmibecknow7 said is totaly right i completely agree with him but also listen to wht your heart says i mena i know that probably sounds really cheesy or whatever but it's true you have to trust your heart so good luck in life
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does anyone know any good ways to lose like 10 pounds pretty fast? anything that has worked for them? (link)
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all i have to say is to eat helthy drink lots of water you should be drinking 8 glasses of water a day so i drink one in the mornine before i do anything and that boost my metabolism then drink water all day you will be to busy drinking water to drink anything else also it will fill you up so you dont eat as much then you should definately be exercising go to the gym work out for like an hour a day trust me dont try that working out for 5 hours or something you will lose just as muhc weight working out for and hour or hour and a hlaf then you would 5 hours also if there are any specific areas you want to lose weight in find the correct exercise for it you should also definately be walking more my friend cut out all sweets started watching what she ate and walked an hour a day she lost 10 pounds in a week or week and a half so i hope i helped
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okay so i'm like 5'5 i'd say but i'm not 100% sure, i could be shorter, but i'm 120. and i wanna be down to at least 110. it seems like impossible! i think i have love handles & i wanna get rid of them. umm if i run almost everyday & drink water & watch what i eat do you think i can do it in like a month? what else can i do, like excercises. and please don't answer unless you've done something like this before and it worked. no offense but i need answers not suggestions. thank you (link)
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ok what you said you'll be doing like drinking water and watching what you eat and exercising will definately help so what you need to do is find the right workout that works your hip muscles and you abs if you want to get rid of love handles thats what i do and it does work also your supposed to get 8 glasses of water a day so what i do is i drink one glass of ice cold water in the morning when i wake up but i drink it before i do anything then drink a glass before every meal and during every meal make sure your drinking cold water though it's better by drinking the water in the morning this will boost your metabolism a bit more which will make it easier to keep the weight off not to mention by drinking all this water you shouldnt be as thirst so you will stop drinking other things like sodas and stuff oh and you you should drink water even if your not thirsty this will fill you up some more so you dont eat as much hope i helped
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I cant believe i am doing this okay i am writing a book about the titanic a novel and the crash happened and they got saved the girls name is isabel and her brotheer died in the crash also she met a boy named alex on the trip and they are in love ok the people rescued them and i dont know what to write next i am having a writers block can i have some ideas (link)
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well once they get rescued in the movie titanic she gets back to where ever she lives and lives her life then when she's older those guys came to talk to her about it to hear the story and in the end she drops the diamond in the ocean if any of this help i dont really know but i believe it would be best to include their ramance in it because that movie is one of the best ramance movies ever and i bet everyone would want a ramance like that
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Okay, so I really like this guy. He's funny but he's kinda popular too and I'm kinda in the middle. Do popular guys go out with girls like me? Thanks much! (link)
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ok first thing forget what the last person said popular people do go out with un popular people it's not like in thos movies where they have bet's and stuff even though that happpens too but if it does it just menas the guy is a total jerk now i cant reallt tell if he likes you or not but it is possible and dont even think it's not just out your self out there wear lipgloss around him if he looks mad or upset make sure your there to comfort him wear your best clothes basically make him notice you and give off little hint that you like him and then see what happens hop i helped
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Does anybody know of any good songs that have to do with saying goodbye to somebody who has made a difference in your life. Not necessarily a lover, but more like a role model... I know it's hard, but if anyone can think of anything that might go, please list! Thank you! (link)
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well i kniow one i dont know if it's what your looking for but it's a great song Avril Lavigne-Slipped away so give it a listen see if you like it it's a really sad song
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