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Moving 8 hours away!!
Ok well im moving to Montreal, Quebec this tuesday from Fredericton N.B.Im a 14/m, I have hundreds of freinds, including one who I want to make more then a freind, but that is going to get fucked over! I almost started crying in class because im going to miss my freinds, and I'm afraid if and when I come back im going to be replaced by all my relly good freinds. How do I deal with this?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
simple.
basically everyone has myspace or a phone.
keep in touch by calling them.
those who are ur real true friends wont replace u.
as for the one you want more than a friend.
that will be the toughest,
i say move on... if you have that many friends
your most likely going to have tons were ever you go. you might even try some visits to ur friends houses in the summer and spring breaks.
xoxo-kiki
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Plain and simple, you're a friend freak. I don't even know hundreds of PEOPLE, let alone have them as friends.
In conclusion, you're probably some likable magnet who will pick up a shitload of people wherever you go.
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ok well of all people i definitely know how you feel my dads in the navy so we moved around alot it's really hard especially leaving friends so your probably thinking your friends are going to replace you but trust me if they really are your friends if you come back they will go right back to you also you will make more friends wherever your moving to it's hard at first but i got used to it i've moved like 20 differetn times so it's been hard but once you make friends you'll be fine as for the person you want to be more then friends i dont know what to tell you most people say long distant relationships dont work but i've never tried so i dont knwo i eman you could give it a try but they'll be plenty of other people you'll like in Montreal it's going to be hard but i'm sure you'll be ok and you can always email your friends or tlak ont he phone with them hope i helped if you have any more questions i'm here
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Moving is tough and it's something that you're probablly not going to get over for a while. I know how you feel though. You're lucky that you're moving just 8 hours away, .. I had to move across the world. I had to leave ALL of my friends and ALL of my family. Now, I just have my parent's and brother. Those really close friends won't replace you. You guys will still keep in touch and talk. Of course it's not going to be the same since you don't see each other everyday, but you will meet tons of new people and make more friends. Don't look at this move as a negative thing. Look at it as a new oppritunity and a fresh start. It will be hard at first but give it some time. Spend as much time as you can with your friends and make the best of it.
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