i have done sex with my girl friend after sex she got her period within 8days..is their any chances of getting peragnent?? last month she got her period on 17th april then she got on around 13th may and i did sex on 5th may is their any chances of gtting peragnent??
If she gets her period AFTER you two have sex then no she's not pregnant.
I see what you mean if your confused of the actual copulation and whether that affects periods etc.
If you're not trying for a baby use some form of protection
Why not educate yourself so you wont have these worries in future?
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/
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Hey! So, I go to a Catholic school and we have hour and fifteen minute long masses and I'm a freshman so my class sits way in the balcony and I almost passed out last time. I was shaking and had a cold sweat. Is there a way to prevent overheating in the balcony? I think that's what happened. I'm definitely going to wear a short sleeve shirt for mass and bring mints, but any other tips? Thanks!
Hey,
I used to have to attend masses too at my high school and yes, sometimes they do go on for a while!
At first when I read your question I thought that you fainted because of a panic attack or something-so was ready to advise you on that.
However-it seems overheating is the primary cause.
So personally I faint at the sight of blood-so I'll just let you know how I cope with that and then you can hopefully transfer what I do to your situation :)
1) Bring some ice cool water. If there's a shop on campus by a refrigerated bottle of water. If not, pop a bottle in the fridge at home the day before and on the morning of the mass, bring it with you in a cool bag. Even if you feel well, make a point of sipping it during the mass. This is because the reason we faint is there's less oxygen to the brain. Drinking plenty of water will help maintain healthy oxygen levels throughout the body because it contains vital minerals like zinc. The coolness will obviously help as well.
2) Practice your breathing. Breathe in slightly, but take a your time breathing out. Its the breathing out that helps to calm you down. This is important-because when you go into this mass my guess is that you'll already be abit nervous about fainting. Learning how to control your breathing is a key skill, as it control the amount of oxygen in your brain and will stop you from fainting.
3) Let a friend know about your worries. That way there's always someone to keep an eye on you. Tell her if she suspects you are going to faint, to place your head between your legs bending over
http://www.wikihow.com/Cure-Feeling-Like-You're-About-to-Faint
4) Sit on the edge if you can. Should be cooler though if you're about to faint STAY WHERE YOU ARE as they'll be more people to help you. Don't run off as you'll fall from a standing position, making things worse. Like I said sit with a friend
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My boyfriend is ready for sex and I'm really scared about loosing my virginity what should I do about this? And what does it feel like to loose your virginity?
If you\'re scared-don\'t do it. Scared implies a fear that you\'re not ready. Its natural to be a little nervous-the fear of the unknown-but scared especially with you\'re boyfriend rings alarm bells.
I\'m going to be really honest with you and say that I only lost mine recently too.
Most people drone on about how its precious-how its a one of and once its gone its gone-and do is wisely. They also may say things like you lose your innocence etc.
For me-it was not what I expected. If you\'re ready (and only you will know) then it just feels like the most natural thing in the world. So its not as big a hurdle as you probably think.
Physically it may hurt a little. If you reckon you\'ve torn your hymen before then it wont bleed at all-or maybe slightly. You\'ll most probably wonder if how you feel is how everyone else normally feels. If your partner is enjoying it. If you\'re doing things right. For me it hurt less than I thought it would. The guy in question knew I was inexperienced so not knowing where to put things and where this leg should be now blah blah blah was less of a worry. As long as your bf knows its your first time then he\'ll be gentle. Physically expect to feel more \'open\' down there for the first days after. But don\'t expect to be mind blown.
Emotionally-now this is interesting. People cope with it in different ways. For me-I felt a sense of relief-and then a sense of being used-because it was with a one night stand.
Others may feel abit tingly inside-like that awkward feeling when your mom tells you its time to start wearing a bra-kinda sexualized-ya know?
I\'d say emotionally expect to feel a range of emotions. Happy. Dissapointed it wasn\'t like the movies. Relieved you\'ve done it. Teary you\'ve entered a new chapter in your life even. A sense of trust with your partner (a tighter bond)
Take it in your stride-I mean its a totally natural thing.
One things to add-don\'t feel pressured if you\'re not ready that that\'s it. Period. It aint going to happen yet.
I\'m curious to know what you\'re scared of? Doing it wrong (only natural first time)
That your not ready? (Your boyfriend will understand if not dump him)
On a final note. For me, I lost my V card the very first time I ever went clubbing. Sure-it was not how I expected it to happen. But losing your virginity IS NOT such a big life decision as most people make out. If things don\'t go to plan. Who cares? You can only learn from your mistakes. Think of it as a learning curve.
Sorry my answer was so long-I just wanted to help you as this was me a year ago! Anymore help just inbox me. Good luck!
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Im 16/f and I do not get the whole fascination with dressing up, lots of makeup, dying hair etc. Like all the girls at my school are starting to wear these pretty dresses and doing their hair and they all look so beautiful..but its like i dont give a shit about any of that. Ive always been decent looking without doing a whole lot so i never really got into fashion or lots of makeup..I would like to tbh. Today i tried doing a smokey eye, and it kinda looked like shit lol. And i also tried looking up skirts and dresses that i could buy and they were all ugly and expensive. And all that stuff seems like a lot of work to keep up looking really nice everyday. I just dont get it, why is it so important? To feel good about yourself, sure but why else? I like looking nice but at the end of the day it doesnt really matter.. i dont wanna spend so much time on something that wont really get me anywhere and idk i just dont get it.
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Rate me a two girlie but I've rated your question low aswell.
Because you're not asking for a piece of advice but people to tell you you're perfect the way you are.
Can't take people's opinions? Don't be on the site
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She dresses like a freak, does stupid things, sticks her tongue out like an idiot, appears naked in her music videos, and literally only sings one song these days. WTF? She used to be my role model, but now I hate that stupid bitch. I know Ariana Grande defended her, but she defends everybody. What my friends say about Mileys “wrecking ball" is,“good song, bad singer" what is wrong with her?
This is a site for people who want advice?
There's nothing wrong with her. She knows what she's doing-the OTT personality, the controversial music videos-excellent marketing techniques. Sad that money has come first and music second in her life, happens to most pop stars these days. What piece of ADVICE was it you wanted ?
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I am a virgin and am considering having sex with my boyftiend. Can someone tell me what to expect painwise. How long will it hurt. Will iy hurt the whole time. Will i bleed?
Okay...
I feel like (as an 18 yr old girl myself) you want an answer based on experience and no disrespect to Adviceman-but he can't give you that from a gals view!
The first time I did it...was a one night stand. Like as soon as I started Uni. So my first tip would be to ensure you're ready. You may be 'considering' it, but do you think emotionally you're ready? Will you be upset because its got, or will be happy because its gone?
Pain wise. It hurts, but not as much as being fingered in my experience. I don't know why, but that's the case with me. I didn't bleed-that's because you only bleed if the hymen tears a lot. However if you do a lot of physical activity particularly cycling (moi) then it tears anyway.
So you'll bleed if you don't really exercise and have never been fingered or anything like that before.
It hurts straight off, but only um a kind of stretchy pain. So you should get used to it after a minute or so. I'd say just breathe through it and if after a minute its still not pleasurable and kills, stop.
I guess the great thing is its your boyfriend. Its not a one night stand. Like me. I wish I waited to do it for the first time with my boyfriend currently. He'll care about you so there should be less pressure there to 'perform' because a) He loves you for YOU and not how good you are in bed b) He should already know you're a virgin, (if not-do tell him) so he'll be aware the first time could be painful.
Just make sure you tell him to be gentle and don't feel pressured into it if you know he's really up for it. To be honest if you're not totally up for it be honest and say, because then you'll be nervous and everything will seem a whole lot harder.
Hopefully I've given you an insight. The best piece of advice I can give you is go with the flow. Its the not knowing that makes you worried. So I guess just by trying it'll make you more clued up. oh and always wear protection.
Good luck :))
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how do u know when u need a bra
Normally its when your cup kinda starts to become more rounded and basically your chest starts to look more like a ladies and less of a ten year old boys.
Also when your nipple starts to show through your top-then its time to get a bra :)
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23 f living with my 25 year old boyfriend and his family. I am living there because of a crazy home situation that I couldn't stay in. I like his parents a lot but I don't like living with them.
When I first was dating Tim, it was obvious that he had been spoiled or sheltered. Not money wise, just that his mom would do everything for him. He didn't know how to clean, cook even basic things, do dishes, do laundry, etc. I noticed that whenever he would try to do something, his mom would say he was doing it wrong and take over, rather than showing him how- she doesn't have much patience. Over the last year, I have taught him all that stuff and he's gotten really good at it. However, she still makes derogatory comments when she sees him doing something like cooking. "oh god, what are you doing now", "what mess are you making", etc.
She is 'linked' to his bank account, which basically means she can go online and see what he spends using his debit card and credit card. We each have our own checking accounts and share his credit card, which we almost never use. We take turns paying for things and manage our money pretty well. However, she still criticizes him about we spend money on and how much we spend.
Recently we opened another credit card at a clothing store because it offers a large discount on their clothing. We don't plan on using it too much. His mom opened the bill and yelled at him for spending the money. I have more than enough to pay for what we bought, as well as several hundred extra. He has less than fifty bucks in his checking account, but that's not a problem, I've been giving him money for gas and food to hold him over and he gets paid tomorrow.
He is very close to his parents and understands his mom is wrong but doesn't want to do anything about it. She is hurting our path towards independence and making him feel bad about himself. How can I change this frustrating situation?
Woah..try and change it and its out of the relationship for you.
If she's this controlling then have you even considered that any slight dissatisfaction his mother gets wind of coming from you, and she'll probably be able to convince him you're not the girl for him?
Is there a dad on the scene? I think you need to first appreciate what you have been given by his family. The 'normal' home situation that you didn't have with yours. To be honest the fact she checks his account shows she cares and looks out for him
Is there anyone else you can live with instead if you're unhappy?
The only think you can do is to gently talk to his mother. Not about the lack of patience thing or the checking up on him thing-because that's her personal choice. Similar to how it was her personal choice to allow her sons girlfriend to live under her roof. Generous thing to do.
Instead. Speak to her about YOUR worries with your boyfriends money. Try to understand her point of view, perhaps any reason why in the past she now has to monitor his money. Offer to take over her role if it'd make her job easier.Make sure you let her know how much you appreciate her once in a while too.
You only want whats best for your relationship. I get that. And perhaps his mother is slightly over protective of her son. You need to gain her trust, that you can care for her son now-he's safe with you.
Once you've done that maybe things will get easier. if not, I suggest you live somewhere else. Either that or the relationship could run its cause pretty soon.
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my hymen not break yet but I want to get pregnant am i pregnant?
Please re phrase the question. I don't understand. OR type your question into Google. OR check the 'search questions' icon to see if your question is similar.
Your hymen doesn't break it tears. If you want to get pregnant then you need to have sex. Having sex means the hymen tears. What more do you need to know? If you can explain your situation I think it'd be easier to answer this :))
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hey i've been having a heavy heart beat every time i take a bath or get up from the bath. i also get heart palpitations at night before i go to bed. I am also a healthy and fit 18 year old girl with a history of anxiety BUT i've not once ever had this problem which leads me to question if this is heart related? i would love to read something comforting as this is a scary time for me please. please respond..
Surely the best comfort is knowing exactly what's going on i.e: seeing your doctor.
Palpations are quite commons with people with diagnosed anxiety. So I reckon the doctor will teach you how to cope with the anxiety first (meditation, herbal teas etc)to reduce the heart rate rather than right off putting you on powerful heart meds.
Have you considered that your anxiety may be making you think its something a lot more serious than it is? I have anxiety too, diagnosed. And really-you've GOT to learn how to control it else it'll control you. When I say control you, you'll see the physical symptoms a lot more.
So yeh, see your doctor. I suspect its anxiety related because palpations-they don't just happen without no other symptom. They are a strong symptom for anxiety and there are drugs out there if needed,like beta blockers which can for temporary use put things right again. Though they only give you this in serious cases as you're only 18....
Speak to your doctor-this complaint is a lot more common than you think and its best to not jump to conclusions until you know the facts. Meanwhile the best thing you can do is to try and take stresses out of your life-or rather learn how to cope with them more effectively. This helped me-hopefully it'll help you too.
http://bemindful.co.uk/
Its a self therapy-that CAN also be taught to you. There is no right or wrong way of learning it-but tbh you've got nothing to lose by trying.
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Hello..why I am so exited for sex I am 18yrs girl and I am single ..i dont want to do sex but sometimes I cant control I really want do naturely I feel it ...what is this tell me ..and I am virgin ...
So in other words sometimes you get abit horny?http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_arousal
Um...that's normal especially for your age-hormones everywhere.
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okay so im a virgin but my boyfriend isn't... I want to have sex with him im just worried that his dick will be to big and wont fit... (im very tight) we cant even fit two fingers in and he is kinda big.... what if it doesn't fit then what do I do?
Everyone's tight at first. Just remember persistence is key. Only need to do it the once and you'll be fine. Tell him to be gentle.
Humans are designed to be able to 'fit' like that. How else would the human race survive?
If you can't manage the first time just carry on with the fingers abit to help loosen you. Other than that I wouldn't worry. Its not like you're trying to reproduce just yet.
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me and myboyfriend had sex. We didnt use protection. He didnt cum in me at all. I looked upsigns of pregnancy and ive been feeling them ever sence. I just had some blood fall out . I dont know if it was spotting or not. He said he didnt pre cum in me and there was no acess cum on his dick. Im scared im pregnant . But it doesnt seem like i could be with no cum. SOMEONE ANSWER QUICK
Obviously the only real way of finding out is to take a pregnancy test-we can't say on here!
Even if you're scared its best to take a test to make sure.
Sometimes we see a list of symptoms and apply them to ourselves to eliminate the doubts/hole in our knowledge we have for piece of mind. By taking a test it'll eliminate these doubts.
Also (if you're new to sex relatively speaking) some girls do bleed. I bled (I'm not talking about losing your virginity) like the fourth time or something.
But yeh I know every guy says its uncomfortable and most girls think they can risk it. But wear protection next time...or don't do it at all.
Check now or asap before its too late...don't just wait to see if you get the same symptoms in a weeks/months time. You didn't say your age but there's plenty of support out there either way.
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So recently today I recieved my retainer. Right now its hurting so badddd. He said to wear it 24/7 and that got me annoyed like why not wear it during the night? -.- But anyways, I'm 13 and I don't want to wear this thing forever. People at school always have to say something about it and it bothers me. The fact that I have to take it out during lunch every single day. I'm concern on what other kids are going to say about it so please help? ._. I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS TOMORROW IN SCHOOL.
No you don't have to wear your retainer. If you don't want straight teeth and want your jaws to not be aligned then don't wear it. However, my advice doesn't stop here, because it is improper for me to suggest you don't wear it, when medical professionals suggest otherwise.
The reason you've been given a retainer is to line your jaw up. I wore one for a year and they made me look hideous-and really enhanced my chin.
I know its tricky and stuff especially at your age when you feel the most self conscious about yourself, but you have to realize you've been given this retainer to wear all the time for a reason.
Pretty soon, other kids wont notice you have it in anyway-it'll just become part of your mouth in a way. I mean they are designed to be as discrete as possible. I know-it feels like a big boulder in your mouth or something but its less obvious than you think.
If its too tight then get back to your orthodontist and ask them to slacken it slightly and take regular paracetemol.
Also, make sure you keep asking your orthodontist to give you a big explanation every time you see them as to how your treatment is progressing. That way they'll be more swift with dealing with you and so the retainer will be out quicker.
If you decide you don't want to wear it, tell your orthodontist about the decision and get them to explain why you have to wear it (have they not done this?) If you don't tell them they'll only give you a lot of grief at your next appointment.
I think its just down to self confidence. Get used to being comfortable with who you are (even with the retainer in your mouth). Love yourself and you'll learn to care less what your peers think.
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Hi I'm just looking for a girlfriend. My name is Kenny I'm a 13 year old boy who is interested in a 13-14 year old Japanese girl. Please help me!
Woahh...
Don't do what adviceman said and look at dating sites you're far too young.
Don't you want to be in a relationship with some one whose personality you like and stuff?
Is there anyone at your school? If not then theres not much more legally you can do until you're 18.
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okay sooo i want to give my bf a blowjob but i dont know how?
anyone who can help me and explain it to me would be of great help.... i have a lot of questions...
-what if he doesnt like it
-what if i do something wrong
and i just need help... im not to worried about anything but i need to know what to do pleae help me
One of the only ways it can go wrong is if you bite his ****.
1) Whatever you do don't use your teeth and just use similar mouth movements to when your ahem sucking a straw
2) Don't feel pressurized into doing this. If you're still not 100% comfortable don't bother. You'll only end up crying afterwards.
3)You may gag the first time/few times you do it. Be prepared for this.
4) Don't be afraid to ask how to do it, or how he likes it. Its like I didn't know how to do a handjob...so I just asked. It wont kill the mood, he'll appreciate it.
5) Be gentle. I had no idea either until I did it for the first time. So its abit like when you brush someone elses hair. You don't want to hurt them right? So just be really super gentle.
6) Ask him to let you know if he's about to C**.
Because idk but I'm not sure the first time doing this you'd want it all in your mouth. Wouldn't be a great first experience.
7)If you can only manage just say 20 seconds don't worry about it...at least you had a go!
8) You can by flavoured condoms which I think people use for this as well...prevents any STD's and stuff
9) If you follow the above tips then I'm pretty sure he'll like it. And even if he doesn't he's still your boyfriend so I'd hope the relationship is based on love and trust so if in anyway things did go wrong he wouldn't really care :)
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What is a good brand of nail polish that's cheaper than 10 dollars that lasts more than a few days?
Barry M is good.
Ones to avoid are Rimmel, Miss Sporty and Collection 2000.
I guess posh brands are good too but needless to say they're above 10 dollars.
I'm answering as a UK resident tho so apologies if you don't have these brands listed above in your drugstores.
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Hi, I am going to be applying for a business grant to start a bakery and I'm wondering what are some odd finances I may have overlooked? Have you ever opened a bakery or know someone who has?
Well we haven't seen your business plan so its impossible to say any 'overlooked' finances.
You'll need a detailed business plan before going any further, if you haven't already.
You need to consider costs like your production costs and material costs.
You need to think about the costs of rent maybe of a shop-bills-heating.
If its an eat in place consider the extra VAT you need to charge for this.
Also consider overheads. Who are your suppliers? Any utilities involved. Any wages if demand means multiple members of staff? Insurance?
Its also ideal to carry out various forecasts such as ARR to see how much in reality you should expect to generate as profit (if at all in the first year) for the first quarter.
There are so many more, but there are also many helpful guides out there for people like you.
http://www.thisismoney.co.uk/money/smallbusiness/article-1583963/A-guide-setting-business-starting-company.html
I admire people who want to make a go of it themselves. Just make sure you know your market and have a USP and a strong business plan.
Good luck!
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I just got a samsung galaxy 3 for christmas this year from my mom and I was textin my boyfrend and we were texting each other dirty texting and I don't know how to deleate text messagess off of it yet and I caught my mom reading my texts how do I delete my texts off of my samsung galsxy 3?
Go on the conversation part (where its yellow, blue etc)
You should see a bin in the right hand corner of the screen. Click on the bin.
It'll give you tick boxes next to all the messages. click the tick boxes next to the messages you want to delete and press delete, or cancel if you've clicked the wrong one by accident.
Takes time tho.
This is what I do for my Samsung S 3 anyways :)
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what is the fastest way i can lose my virginity i am a male
If you're over 18-go to a club. There are many girls there looking for a hook up.
Um, could you please add your age because there are other ways but I don't want to say in case you're under age.
Then I'll answer your question better.
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