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am i pregnant!?!?
me and myboyfriend had sex. We didnt use protection. He didnt cum in me at all. I looked upsigns of pregnancy and ive been feeling them ever sence. I just had some blood fall out . I dont know if it was spotting or not. He said he didnt pre cum in me and there was no acess cum on his dick. Im scared im pregnant . But it doesnt seem like i could be with no cum. SOMEONE ANSWER QUICK
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You're probably not pregnant. Your fear of becoming pregnant and the stress of that fear can make you period late. Regardless of what your boyfriend says it is most likely that he did precum in you, almost all men do is he was in you for any amount of time other than just in and out. If he came on you after he pulled out he precum in you it is not something he can control and most of us do not feel the emission.
That's the bad news. You are probably not pregnant. If you missed your period it is because of the stress related to the worry over being pregnant. The only way to know for sure if your pregnant is to take a home pregnancy test.
I know you don't want mom finding the evidence. I normally don't suggest lying but in this case I will suggest how to be sneaky. Go purchase a kit that you can use immediately meaning there has been enough time past since you have had sex.
Put the kit in your purse and keep your purse in your room with you. In the morning take your purse with you into the bathroom for your morning shower. Carefully open the kit so you can put it back together after use. Take the test. Once you have the results repackage the kit, put it back in your purse and dispose of it at school.
Hopefully you are over 14 years of age. If so no one can stop you from making that purchase. I would be surprised if you are pregnant. If the test is positive don't panic. There are more false positives then false negatives. Wait 10 days and test again.
Now as to unprotected sex. I don't care what the boys says as to why he doesn't want to use a condom. Simply put you tell him no rubber, no lover. That condom not only protects against pregnancy but protects your health. Remember when you have unprotected sex with someone you are having sex with any and all they have had unprotected sex with.
Now that you are sexually active you need to be on birth control. If you are 14 years of age or older you do not need parental permission. All you need to say to your doctor is "HIPPA"
HIPPA is a federal law which allows you confidentiality of your reproductive system. Saying to the doctor; "I have a HIPPA question for you. "Tells the doctor you wish to speak to him or her in confidence. If mom is in the room she will be asked to leave. You can then ask the doctor for birth control and the doctor must prescribe.
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Obviously the only real way of finding out is to take a pregnancy test-we can't say on here!
Even if you're scared its best to take a test to make sure.
Sometimes we see a list of symptoms and apply them to ourselves to eliminate the doubts/hole in our knowledge we have for piece of mind. By taking a test it'll eliminate these doubts.
Also (if you're new to sex relatively speaking) some girls do bleed. I bled (I'm not talking about losing your virginity) like the fourth time or something.
But yeh I know every guy says its uncomfortable and most girls think they can risk it. But wear protection next time...or don't do it at all.
Check now or asap before its too late...don't just wait to see if you get the same symptoms in a weeks/months time. You didn't say your age but there's plenty of support out there either way.
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You're probably not pregnant. But your great fear of becoming pregnant and the stress of that fear can make you period late.
Then the power of your mind can play crazy tricks on you.
My suggestion is that you make a trip to planned Parenthood and have them talk to about your birth control options and get started on one of them. Be sure to get complete instructions on how to use it, if the difference in the colors mean anything, if during the week of rest you can or cant get pregnant, these are the usual questions including what to do if i forget a day. Make a list before hand but get that done. It's more comfort for your peace of mind than just a condom. As you already know, precum can get transfered to the vagina in several ways before a guy even gets to the point of putting on a condom.
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