Okay, so i've been on the search for perfect fluffies since i first started going to raves, and after 6 months have ye to find a pair i like.. i would like some help. I wear a lot of neon pink and neon/lime green. and a little black. My favorite color is purple though. I know that a lot of girls wear a different color nearly every rave and are very themed but i don't want the same boring outfit. i want my fluffies to be sorta versatile and go with almost any outfit i choose. I'd like some help. I'm going to post a few pictures and see if you could help me choose.
There are these : which one of my friends was very enthusiastic about
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=320693420854&var=510030862634&ssPageName=STRK:MEWNX:IT
on the drop down, select "Flo Yellow and purple" and you will see them. I'm just worried that the yellow isn't that bright. I don't want a 'yellow' yellow.. but like a highlighter yellow or more on the green side.
i think that despite the black, the yellow looks like this in this photo...
http://cgi.ebay.com/Rave-cyber-goth-stripper-adjamiba-leg-warmer-fluffies-/170670487319?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&hash=item27bcc0f717
or maybe it's just bad lighting... but that's not the yellow i want at all.
and if you could look through all of these fluffies (using the drop down menu to close up)
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=140385230487&var=440001231921&ssPageName=STRK:MEWNX:IT
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I really like rainbow, but i'm scared it is too busy or looks ugly.. i'm having a hard time between the yellow and purple and the rainbow.
or these
http://cgi.ebay.com/PINK-BLACK-COW-Fluffies-Fluffy-Legwarmers-Rave-Boots-/250586367021?pt=UK_Ladies_Dancewear_LE&var=&hash=item800eb9fac3
but i wear a lot of green
But if you notice, there are a few different kinds of rainbow fluffies, so if i chose some... they would be this rainbow kind of fluffy ..
http://cgi.ebay.com/UV-RAINBOW-FLUFFIES-FLUFFY-BOOTS-RAVE-BOOTS-COVERS-/320470989401?pt=UK_Ladies_Dancewear_LE&hash=item4a9d8f3a59
I would really like it if you took some time to pick and choose
thank you so so so very much for all of your help! it is very very very appreciated - because i can't decided for myself!
The ribbon stays on with double sided tape that's made for the skin. I really like the pink ones and the green neon are pretty hot. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm an 18 year old bisexual girl, and I'm a virgin. It's something that's always in the back of my mind and it does worry me - for years I have wanted to lose it. I wanted to be able to be promiscuous and not make a big deal of sex, but I just don't have it in me. I am not a naturally promiscuous person - I've tried, but I'm just not comfortable being that intimate with someone unless I am very, very close to them.
Now, here are some points I want to make. Firstly, I'm not someone who can't get laid. Not to sound big-headed, but I am considered attractive by most and get a lot of male attention (although I'm bisexual, I'm not out yet and don't tend to get attention from females). Secondly, I don't think there's anything wrong with being a virgin at my age. People should be able to have as little or as much sex as they want without being judged. However, I won't say I don't feel the pressures - I do, a lot. No one knows I'm a virgin apart from closer friends I've known since I was 13 or younger, I hide it from everyone else.
So, really, I know I should just be comfortable with it and wait till I find someone I am comfortable enough to have sex with. But here's the thing: I really want to have sex. I have such a high sex drive and it's something I constantly think and fantasise about. I want to start experimenting and having sex be a part of my life. I don't want to have to wait for someone I really, really like and who I'm really close to, because knowing me, that could take years.
But of course, the problem is, I know I'll find it difficult to have sex with someone I'm not close to (even if I'm attracted to them) and to tell them that I'm a virgin beforehand (I couldn't do it without telling them, because they'd either find out I was a virgin anyway, or just think I wasn't that good in bed.)
I guess my question is: what's worth it? Is it worth waiting and just being consumed by lust but not being able to have sex, until I find someone I'm really comfortable with? (And like I said, this could take years, I rarely fall for people seriously.) On the other hand, is it worth just getting it over with through an experience I might not enjoy, so I can start experimenting and having a sex life? And if you'd recommend the latter, how do I go about it?
I do have a lot of problems with physical intimacy which gets in the way of this, so if anything knows how I could sort this out, it would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you x
I can totally understand your situation. I'm bisexual and I had my first sexual experience with a girl when I was 14 but didn't have sex with a boy till I was 16. I think having sex with girls for the 2 years before, helped me when it was time to be with a boy. I'm not saying to go out and hook with some girl but if you could find a close friend that's bisexual, she could give you some good pointers. As far as sleeping with a guy, you'll have to decide if it's the right time or the right guy. Everyone wants their first time to be special but rarely it's all that great. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Hi, I am 33.My ovulations dates are July 21 22 and 23. I had sex intercourse with my husband on July 21 at 8am and 10pm. On July 22 I had sex with condom with my ex around 8pm. I didnt saw that it broke, but to be sure I took an afterpil onJuly 25 at 6pm.(exactly 68 hours after the unprotected sex). Can this protect me of getting pregnant of my ex and still get pregnant of my husband?
You shouldn't have a baby with your husband. If you can't be faithful to him, you don't love him or deserve to be with him. Tell your husband what you did and see how he feels about it. A good mother wouldn't act like a whore and cheat on their husband. If you really want a child, you need to grow up and be honest with your husband.
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me and my friends got caught with a bottle of alcohol and a few beers on vacation in new jersey. we're going to court for it but they didn't breathalize us or anything and we weren't drunk. what do you think they fine will be?? and what happens if you don't have the money then and there to pay for it?
You should hire a lawyer and they could get it down to disorderly conduct or even thrown out. Most likely you'll have it on your record, pay some major fines and no jail time. If you can't pay, they'll put you on a payment plan to pay over the course of a year. I hope this helps and good luck.
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My boyfriend and i have a lot of fun together. We hook up sometimes but this time I want him to think I'm ULTRA sexy. I want to do something different that will turn him on INSANELY. any ideas on what could turn men on? Is there a certain way to touch his penis? Is there a certain thing I should do/dress? Any ideas!? I will try all your guys' ideas and i will rate the one that works the best a FIVE:)
Wear a dress with nothing on underneath. Go out for a little dinner and let him play with you under the table. Find a secluded spot to park before the date. Have him drive there after dinner, pull out his penis while he's driving and play with it a little. Tell him where to park, get out of the car and have sex on the hood. I hope this helps and good luck.
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OKay so I wont take long I am senior and in the 12th grade and there is this new admission in my school he is in the 11th grade
he is cute and i kinda want to get to know him
but the problem is i am a senior.. and it would be really weird just walking upto him and saying HIIII and conversing
that sort of stuff cant happen
i mean you know i am fairly popular in school and my friends notice. and i know the 11th grade people quite well
and i dont want stupid stuff going around school
but
this guy is really cute and i really think he might just turn out to be my type
but i dont know how i get to know him!!!!!!!
I don't know why anyone would care if you went out with a hot guy, even if he was 2yrs younger. Go up and see if he likes the school or needs help getting around or if he needs some ideas of places to hang out and invite him to one of those places. If he doesn't need any help right now, ask if you can friend him on facebook and let him know you're there if he changes his mind. I hope this helps and good luck.
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im going to try to shorten it but okay i just lost ma v card on ma fiftheen birthday and its was wit a guy i loved it but its like i have a thing for staring at females ass and stuff and i be wanna to eat them out and stuff but i neva asked or tried it does this makes me gay i mean i love dick but im obessed with ass and breast wow
I had my first sexual experience with a girl at 14 but didn't lose my virginity until I was 16. I wouldn't worry about putting a label on yourself until you get a lot older and really know what you want out of life. It's totally normal to want to experiment with a girl and you shouldn't deny yourself the chance to try it. If there's a girl you're really attracted to and think she may be willing to fool around, invite her over for a sleepover and play a little truth or dare and see what happens. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Nothing dirty, please. I'm 17, and want to make an offer to win this guitar drawn all over by one of my favorite bands. It's for a charity, one of those things like where someone starts out with a paper clip and ends up with a house, but it's not for like a personal cause. So I need ideas on what sort of thing I can do.. because the seller gave the impression that another offer was weak (some LPs worth like $100) sooo idk what to do. he gave ideas like selling a dinner with a senator, for example.. but I really don't know what else I could do worth more than $100 cause all I can think of is babysitting and mowing the lawn. but i don't even know how to mow lawns, and I don't have first aid and what not to be a hire-able babysitter. what are some cool ideas in your noggings?
Offer to wrok a weekend at someones house. A Saturday and Sunday that they can use you for any chores they need. Like walking their dogs, cleaning out the garage or other jpbs they don't want to do. I hope this helps and good luck.
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im talking to a guy who is 21 and im 17. i really like him and he says he really likes me. but i heard the only reason he is talking to me for sex. my friend asked him and he said no. what should i do. should i keep talking to him or not. im still a virgin and he isnt.
Most 21 year old boys only want someone they can hook up with. Time to steer clear of this one, even though it seems really cool to be with an older boy. But until you find someone you really care about to lose your virginity to, stay clear of those type of boys. I hope this helps and good luck.
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somedays ago i found a woman aged 43 on facebook who was ready to adopt me..since no one loves me..she was ready to love me..she was single and divorced..she wanted a son and i wanted a mom..everything was going ok..but then i contacted her friend..and asked some question about her,.her friend told her about it..and she got mad at me and now she wants me to stop contacting her..she means my family and my world..i cant live without her..i can do any thing to get her..i love her a lot..plz help me ..i need a mom to love me iam 17 now and my name is brock
Ending your life is never the answer, especially over one person. There are millions of other people that will care for you and give you the guidance you need. Try going to your local church or even talk to a counselor that you can find through your cities welfare system. There are always a reason things happen and she obviously wasn't the one for you. I hope you find what you're looking for and good luck.
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months and were nearly 16, and he wants to do sexual stuff, but i feel that im not ready. i do want him to poke me and eat me out and stuff, but i feel embarrassed. what should i do?
He's a typical horny boy and he'll try anything to get sex. If you really want to keep him around but keep your virginity, try giving him a hand job. He'll get an orgasm without you giving him sex. Most guys are happy when they don't have to do things on their own. If he's not happy with that, you may need to find a new boyfriend. I hope this helps and good luck.
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i was wondering if it is ok to leave my dildo in my vagina for a long time ? like would it hurt me if i left it in there while i slept? i just like having it in there it is about 2inches wide at the most....thanks for the help!
I think the only way possible would be if you put it inside and put your underwear on. I had a dildo inside me when I masturbated once and after I had a huge orgasm, I passed out w/o taking it out. When I woke a few hours later, it was on the bed. As much as a normal person turns in their sleep, I'm sure it would work it's way out. If you made sure it was very clean and try using hand sanitizer before putting it in, you could try it for 1 night. I hope this helps and good luck
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What is better shaving or waxing your vagina? Whenever I shave my vagina I instantley get red bumps and it gets really itchy! I have never tried waxing my vagina before, so I want you guys appinouns cause I no waxing will be really painful!
Waxing is a little painful at first but you don't have to do it again for a few weeks. The best way to shave is in the tub or shower with hot water. Get a new razor that you don't use on the rest or your body. Put some soap on the area first and then apply the shaving cream. I hope this helps and good luck.
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i hate puting my fingers in my vagina, it feels so weird and it kinda hurtss!
i used to use this massaging thing for your back there but it's my parents and there going to think somethings up and thats weird cause its my parents.
i really wanna vibration, but i can't buy one... any ideas?
A massager is probably your best best. Try going to walmart or the local drugstore and find a mini massager that takes batteries. The smaller it is the easier it is to hide it from your parents. I hope this helps and good luck.
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So im 13 and ive been depressed over the year but i've gottena lot better, and to cope my therapist said i should do things/activites that make me happy, so i love to do art/paint, im doing that, and i love music so i figured i would try acoustic guitar for the first time, because music is such a big big inspiration and help to my life and way of living, so ive been looking on ebay and there is one that is really nice with a stand, pick, guitar case and other free accessories and its like totally new, its $30+s&h=$40, which is really good, i already have $10, and i already do chores but my mom wont pay me, and i need to get this guitar within 13 days? any advice/help????!! neeeeed this guitar, im going to babysit and make alootttt of money but that wont be for a while and noone else really needs a babysitter right now, sooo...how can i get $30? thankyouuuuu so muchhhh! oh and no one in my fam plays instruments or anything so they cant lend one to me
Get together a nice lot of clothes that you don't wear anymore and sell them on ebay. It's best if you have at least 5 tops or 5 pants and preferably the same brand helps them sell faster. Find some older neighbors and see if they need some everyday chores done, like yard work, walking the dog or cleaning their garage. I hope this helps and good luck.
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im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m
My boyfriend took my virginity roughly 2 weeks ago, and since then we have been sharing whilst cuddling one night things we would like to try/different places we could go/ what turns us on. he mentioned that it would be a huge turn on for him for us to have sex with the lights on. Because it would be really romantic to be able to stare into each others eyes, and he would be able to see everything.
however im very very insecure with my body, and thats why i like having sex in the dark, because i dont have to worry about what i look like. Although he told me he's already seen my 'problem areas' he says i have nothing to worry about and that he loves my body. but im very well aware that im overweight. especially compared to his previous girlfriends. id love to be intimate with him with the lights on purely for the romance of it all... but im to caught up and worried about my body.
is there any tips or anything to help me 'hide' the flaws of my body in the light?
id really love to do this for him, even though im insecure
I think all guys love having the lights on at some point in the relationship. I would try starting with a nightlight, the tv or some candles. After a few times of you feeling comfortable with that, you can move on to the lamp on the nightstand. Then before you know it, you'll be having sex during the day in the middle of the living room...lol. I hope this helps and good luck.
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19/M
I have had sex a few times with my boyfriends, but I have never gotten the chance to take it. My boyfriend tried to get it in the other day, but he is very very thick and it hurt way too bad for me to take it. Is there any way for me to stretch back there so that it will fit in? We did use a lube, and plan to always use lube. I just want to try taking it, but it hurt so badly. Please give me some advice as for how to stretch myself out. Thanks!
Have him try to finger you first. The best would be if he could suck on you while he inserts a finger but you could masturbate if he doesn't want to do that. Have him start with one finger and let him work his way up to 3 or 4 fingers. This will let your anus to relax and be able to stretch a little more easily. When he's ready to enter you, have him do it slowly with just the head inside. When he does go inside, I would suggest stroking your penis, as this will distract a little from the initial pain. If it still doesn't help, they do sell anal ease, that sort of numbs the area and will be less painful. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Ok so there's this guy that iv been in love with for over a year, he's 18 and loved me to but had a girlfriend so the things we did didn't technically count as going out. But now I really love this other guy named Ben that is 24 and we'll let's just say he can play in the "special olympics" if u get what I'm saying. But despite that, he's sweet, funny, caring, everything I want. I'm 14 and I'm not sure how to deal with either boy! What the hell do I do??????
You can stay friends with these guys until you turn 18 and after that you can feel free to date either one. I know what it's like to be attracted to an older guy but it's against the law and at your age, you really don't know what you're getting into. Try finding a guy that's around 15 or 16 for now and have fun with your life. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I masturbated for like 10 min and i started to bleed a Lil and after i stoped my vagina is hurting? what did i do? i am a female and 13 years old
It could be the start of your period. Sometimes after a good orgasm, I'll get some small spotting for a day and then it won't fully start for a few days after that. I hope this helps and good luck.
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When a man gets out of jail, what are the first things that he wants? What should his s/o have available for him?
A nice dinner, a relaxing massage and the remote control. Try to avoid talking about his time inside because he probably wants to forget about it as soon as possible. I hope this helps and good luck.
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