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I wanna try to take it
19/M
I have had sex a few times with my boyfriends, but I have never gotten the chance to take it. My boyfriend tried to get it in the other day, but he is very very thick and it hurt way too bad for me to take it. Is there any way for me to stretch back there so that it will fit in? We did use a lube, and plan to always use lube. I just want to try taking it, but it hurt so badly. Please give me some advice as for how to stretch myself out. Thanks!
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Have him try to finger you first. The best would be if he could suck on you while he inserts a finger but you could masturbate if he doesn't want to do that. Have him start with one finger and let him work his way up to 3 or 4 fingers. This will let your anus to relax and be able to stretch a little more easily. When he's ready to enter you, have him do it slowly with just the head inside. When he does go inside, I would suggest stroking your penis, as this will distract a little from the initial pain. If it still doesn't help, they do sell anal ease, that sort of numbs the area and will be less painful. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Try it by yourself using a sex toy... get yourself use to it.. also when you are doing it start off laying on your side with your back toward him until you get use to it and then try different positions good luck and have fun ;) ;)
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