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Okay, I went out with this guy in November, we didn't know eachother all too well, rushed into a physical relationship, and ended up breaking up in 2 weeks. We've both seen other people since then. Recently, we've hooked up and been talking more, now that we're both single. We've hooked up a few times recently and Im afraid that if i become emotionally attached to him again, he may not want to get back together. Question is, should I get back together with him if the subject comes up? Should I let him know that I may becoming emotionally attached to him again? Im 14/f he's 15/m
Tell him straight up how you feel bout him! He might still have feelings for you too~. good luck && hope i helped!
Can you be in love with someone, and not be physically attracted to them?
Yup, you definately can. You don't have to fall in love with someone with just because of their looks. You can fall in love with someone's personality/character. hope i helped.
okay im 16and me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 2 years now we had a massive argument da ova day and he put a knife to my throat and ses he would kill me if i shouted at him like that again i really like him thought and he dont always act like that but now im scared just to have an argument with him ive talked 2 him about it and he ses im being stupid bt i dont wana break up with him what do i do?
......dump him. Any guy that threatens you, doesn't deserve to go out w/ you. This isn't a love relationship, it's more like....um....i dont know. A very weak relationship. You shouldn't torture yourself by going out w/ someone you're scared of. Even if you really like him... holding a knife to your throat is way past the limit. My opinion is that you should dump him. good luck && hope i helped.
Well I met this guy. He is a year younger than me but he really likes me. He is my cousins best friend. I like him just not a whole lot I hate it when he calls me b/c he gets on my nerves alot. He only gets on my nerves because he acts shy around me and he doesn't what to talk about. Do you think that I should give him a chance or what?
I think you should give him a chance. If it doesn't work out, then you could always break it. hope i helped.
well i like my bf... kinda the think is i just broke up with him and hooked bak up..... and now i am having second thoughts... what do i do?
Yeup~ just follow what your heart tells you to do. If you're having second thoughts, then maybe you shouldn't go out with him. if you keep going out with him and dumping him...it won't do any good. Go out with different guys! ^-^ good luck && hope i helped.
okay i dont know how to put this but how do i bring up to my boyfriend that i want to make out with him besides just saying wanna make out? like i dont wanna pressure him into it but i dont wanna move so slow and it seems like he wants to..please help
Just do what a lot of couples do. Go on a date. put in a movie, turn off the lights. and just kiss him when the time is right. I'm sure he'll kiss you back. good luck && hope i helped
i have been dating my boyfriend for 9 years. we are going to get married in july. i went to visit my brother at camp pendleton and i met one of his friends. we really were into each other. nothing happened sexually but we both wanted it to happen. now i can't stop thinking about him and my brother says that he keeps asking about me. i have n o sexual intrest in my boyfriend anymore. but i felt this way before i met this guy. he cheated on me three times. he hasn't done anything in the past 3 1/2 years. but i don't feel anything towards him. what should i do???
...Break your current relationship. I dont think you should be getting married to some guy that's cheated on you three times and hasn't done anything for that long. Do something you won't regret. I say to go out with your brothers' friend. good luck && hope i helped.
i recently went on vacation to visit my brother. my brother is a marine. so i met other marines and i met one of his friends and we hit it off. the problem is that i have a boyfriend of 9 years. we have three kids together. but i have no sexual intrest in him at all. i felt this way before i went on vacation. we are supposed to be getting married in july. what should i do??
...My opinion may be worth nothing, but I honestly think you should stick with your boyfriend. I mean...you've been going out with him for 9 years. and you two have three kids together. Don't make it hard for you kids future, and don't brake your boyfriends heart. This guy you just met....is nothing compared to your boyfriend. Just do what your heart feels. hope you make the right decision and hope i helped.
I was going out with this boy for 2 months and I decided it was best we brake up and stay friends but when I broke up with him I thought he was going to doit and the same day we broke up he got together with his ex.When I found out I fell and started crying I still do cry about it when something reminds me of him I really want to stop and move on but I still see him at school and all I want to do it get with him again but I don't know what to do I miss him so much and I still care about him as much as I try to find a reason to hate him.Please help!!!
Think of it this way. 1.)You dumped him, and you still care for him a lot. 2.)You dumped him, he moved on VERY fast; to his ex-girlfriend.
If he cared for you as much as you do for him right now...don't you think you two would be together right now?
Move on...he doesn't deserve you. You should go look for some other guy that cares for you a lot more than this guy does. hope i helped
Well, there's this girl at school named Garrison. I can't keep her out of MY FREAKING HEAD! I was sleepless for two fucking nights just thinking about her face, and I can't stand it. I want to ask her out, but I'm too nervous. Please help.
Just ask. Even if you're too nervous, how else are you gonna ask her out? Just build up courage and carry on a conversation with her. Ease into the subject and ask her. good luck && hope i helped.
Me and my bf have been going out 4 three months he just found out something bad about a family member and its been making him really angry. I understand how he feels but he takes all of his anger out on me! Last nite he was being such a jerk we almost broke up he tells me he loves me all the time but idk if its true. im only 14 but how can i talk to him without bringing up anything thats going to hurt him?
hmm....instead of talking with words, try to do something special for him ^-^ get him a nice card or something expressing how much you love him. It's good that you undestand how he feels, and it's wrong of him to take all his anger out on you, but hey..that's how people are. so just try that. hope i helped!
ok...theres this guy and hes goin out w. one of my friends...but like ive liked him for almost 2 years...i dunno it seems like he likes me but hes in w/ my friend for action...im never gonna see my friend after next year.and me and him r gonna be goin to school togehter...but i cant wait any longer and everytime i see him and my friend i have to leave from where they r and it makes me wicked sad/mad...i really wanna get over him...but i dunno how...every1 tells me i can do wayyy bettter...but i dont want better...i just want him...please help me
well, just because your friend and this guy is going out, doesn't mean you can't like him. and plus...it's not worth liking him. if he's only going out with your frind for action, then what he does that to you if you two end up going out? think what'll happen if you two even up going out. Getting over a guy that you've really like takes a long time. so just try to avoid him and hang out with your friends. hope i helped!
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um..I dont know if i can help you much on this...but...well, all i can say is just try not to think about it. i dont think you should call yourself whore. Just try to get rid of all the things that you think about. such as porn, and your playboy magazines. sorry, i know that wasn't much help, but i hope i helped some.
tha school yr is almost over and i wanna tell this guy how i feel before the end. but how do i tell him? i mean it's weird that i haven't told him yet, should i write him a letter? i mean, i really like this guy but im not so sure he likes me in that way. i know this sounds all 1st grade, but this is high school. i may never have the chance again and when it comes to expressing my feelings, i get scared. and i dont wanna seem all dorky for writing love letters and getting talked about. i dont want this guy to think im all emotional and sensitive. cause im not. i want him to know the truth and i wanna tell him in words that i would actually say to him. so how should i do this?
Don't right him a note. Just talk to him and tell him how you really feel. If you really want him to know the truth, then tell him. If you want to try o see if he likes you back, then just hang around with him a lot. Just watch the way he acts around you. You should be able to tell. good luck && hope i helped!
My Boyfriend and I broke up a couple of days ago and i still cant stop crying. Any tips on getting the pain to go away??
Don't cry..it's not worth it. All it's going to do is make you feel worse. Just hang out with your friends. Do fun stuff! It should take your mind off of him. You do have every right to be sad, but just dont stay sad for a long time. hope i helped!
Ok so i am going out with this boy and its been 7 months and 20 days and he is moving to virginia and im still in florida and theres this boy named Doug and i really really like him a lot and i dont kno what to do??? do u stay with my bf which i dont see anymore or do i go for doug which i see every day????
-13/f if that helps
..although im only 13 too, i'd say to break the long distance relationship. They're just really hard to keep up with. you should go out with a guy that you see everyday. I mean..you're only 13 so im sure you'll meet a lot of guys. good luck and hope i helped!
16/f
me and my boyfriend recently broke up and my other guy friend says that the best way to "get over" a relationship is to rebound date. personally i don't think that's right because its leading the other person on, making them think that you like them when all you are doing is making the ex jealous or making yourself think about the ex. then my other guy friend (the one from above) calls me up and asks if i want to do something this weekend, and i say yeah because he is my friend. but later on during our conversation, he suddenly whispers really fast that i should go for the rebound dating. i know what he wants, but do you think that rebound dating is the best way to "get over" a previous relationship? thanks in advance.
signed
weirded out and conflustered
I personally think that rebound dating isn't the best way to get over a previous relationship. It's hard getting over a relationship with someone you really liked, but no, rebound dating isn't something you should do. You're friend might like you, but you might want to watch out if he ends up asking you out...if you two go out and break up..he might just start rebound dating.
Getting over a relationship...is hard. it takes a lot of time;especially when you really liked that someone. So, just go have fun w/ some girl friends. that'll take your mind off of your ex for at least some time. good luck && hope i helped!
(14/m/oh) I broke up with my girfriend about a week ago and i'm kind of looking for other girls now because i know she wasn't for me and i need to move on. i have two girls in mind. one is a really hott girl that goes to my school. she isn't stuckup or snobby like most of the girls. she is fun to be around and she lives about 5 minutes away. (she might not work out because i am the skater type and shes more of a prep) the other girl is my best friends old girfriend. she is very beautiful and very understanding. she is so easy to talk to, i talked to her for hours last night about these situations. after talking to her for so long and realizing that she was just like me, i started to like her. she said she needed a boyfriend and i need a girlfriend, she doesnt like anybody in particular right now because she just got over my best friend. which girl do you guys think is better for me? and how should i become close to her?
That's good that the first girl isn't snobby or stuckup like most of the girls. However, you don't describe her as well as you do with the 2nd girl. you seem to be able to describe her a lot better. You two seem really close too. I think the second one is best for you.
Ask her out and see what she says. hey, afterall, she did say she needed a boyfriend didn't she? ^-^ And you already seem close to her, since you can talk to her about certain situations.good luck and hope i helped!
guy #1: we've been good friends since the begining of this school year. everyone says we like each other and for a while i just denied it. he's funny and has amazing eyes. i can be myself around him so i'm pretty comfortable around him. he's always been there for me and he's really nice. he looks out for me. i like flirting with him more than guy #2. we're a lot alike. we like working out together at the gym. he's so funny. all my other ex boyfriends thought i liked him instead of them. my parents like him, my parents know his family and like them. if i do break up with my bf because of this guy, it won't be gauranteed that we'll be going out... i think hes a little scared to ask me out. this other guy said that this guy would go out with me if i asked him out but who knows if he was telling the truth. so many people say he likes me though! and when we were dancing he pulled me in reallllly close.
guy #2: we've started dated a few days ago. this is guy #1's friend. we've only liked each other for a week or two. i don't know him as well as guy #1 and i'm not THAT comfortable around him. but he is funny but not as cute as guy #1 and he's shorter than me. he's pretty nice. i used to like him more when we were NOT going out but now were going out and i don't like him as much. he's really sweet though and smart. my mom thinks he's really nice and he is. he's open and not afraid to ask me if we're 'going too fast' or anything, i like that.
My sister had this same problem. She really liked this guy, and then they finally ended up going out. well now, she says she doesn't like him as much as she used to when they were just crushing. She said she could just talk to him more and be more open and talkative around him when they were friends. She dumped him.
I'd say that you should go with Guy #1. He seems a lot more special to you than guy #2.
a lot of guys who haev asked me out say i play hard to get reeeaaalllllyyyy bad. i cant help it. i dont want to come off as easy , i want to give them a challenge to see how long the stick around before they give up. i still want to be hard to get but im scared that it will drive soem of thebest guys away. what should i do 15/F/MA
You do what you feel like you want to do. If you wanna play hard to get, then so be it. It's just how you are. You'll find the right guy. one that wouldn't care if you play hard to get or not. don't be scared to drive some of the good guys away. If you really want to stop yourself from playing hard to get, try saying yes for a change to a guy. See if it works out or not. good luck, and hope i helped.