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i have been dating my boyfriend for 9 years. we are going to get married in july. i went to visit my brother at camp pendleton and i met one of his friends. we really were into each other. nothing happened sexually but we both wanted it to happen. now i can't stop thinking about him and my brother says that he keeps asking about me. i have n o sexual intrest in my boyfriend anymore. but i felt this way before i met this guy. he cheated on me three times. he hasn't done anything in the past 3 1/2 years. but i don't feel anything towards him. what should i do???
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don't leave your man, that would be wrong and stupid, everyone gets feelings for someone else you just need to forget about it. you've got a family, deal with it and stay with the father of your children, broken homes suck
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...Break your current relationship. I dont think you should be getting married to some guy that's cheated on you three times and hasn't done anything for that long. Do something you won't regret. I say to go out with your brothers' friend. good luck && hope i helped.
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That's kind of sad because, this may be a sign, if you can't go around one other man and then you don't feel the same way about your fiancee' then you have to learn control. When you're in love no one can change your mind, not your friend, mother, or even dad because you know that you two has something special. I can't tell you have to live your life but you have to follow your heart. You see now you're bringing back up the negative in your fiancee', so that you have an excuse to break up with him or even cheat once, but when you'rte in love, no one can stop your passion and loyalty for that person. My advice is to think to yourself, why do I love my fiancee', why i'm still with him and why an I getting married in July? Talk to your fiancee'.
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If you don't have any sexual interest in the guy it wouldn't be fair to either of you if you got married. You both deserve someone who you love in all ways. Break it off with the boyfriend if you don't love him. Then, your free to date whoever you want to date. :)
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