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Question Posted Wednesday May 18 2005, 11:46 pm

I was going out with this boy for 2 months and I decided it was best we brake up and stay friends but when I broke up with him I thought he was going to doit and the same day we broke up he got together with his ex.When I found out I fell and started crying I still do cry about it when something reminds me of him I really want to stop and move on but I still see him at school and all I want to do it get with him again but I don't know what to do I miss him so much and I still care about him as much as I try to find a reason to hate him.Please help!!!

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>_Ashlie!_< answered Friday May 20 2005, 8:57 pm:
my advice would be to move on.... there are so many other guys out there who you will like just as much or more... you may think that your heart has broken and will never be fixed, but you're still young and have plenty of time to find that special someone... hang out with your friends to get your mind off of the situation and eventually you will meet someone else who will make you forget about him.

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i_define_weird answered Thursday May 19 2005, 9:13 pm:
Think of it this way. 1.)You dumped him, and you still care for him a lot. 2.)You dumped him, he moved on VERY fast; to his ex-girlfriend.

If he cared for you as much as you do for him right now...don't you think you two would be together right now?
Move on...he doesn't deserve you. You should go look for some other guy that cares for you a lot more than this guy does. hope i helped

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helpful_jess answered Thursday May 19 2005, 9:41 am:
well you will never find a reason to hate him as you love him so much im not saying you will never get over him all im saying is it will take time you will always feel 4 him as you do really like him but trust you will get over him , you might do in a few days/weeks or even months perhaps a few years but you will be able to fill that space in your heart again maybe you dont wana let go i think you should go out with a few mates and meet some new people you need to let someone take his place or you will never be able to get over him im not sayin go out with the first guy you meet just make some guy mates go clubing or something just try something to take your mind of him hope ive helped out xx

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ava123cat answered Thursday May 19 2005, 4:43 am:
Find out if he is still seeing his ex and if not tell how you feel. Stop torturing yourself. If things don't work out then just take time and move on.

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EaTuRhArToUtx33 answered Thursday May 19 2005, 1:34 am:
well this is what i think if he moved on that fast do you really think he was even worth it he probably still likes you an is tryin to make you jelious just think do you think he gives you that feeling like butter flies if not than you need to find the guy that does no one can help u on this really juz follow ur heart and if he doesnt like you hes missing out but if you like him alot then make him jelious or fight for him

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sadf16 answered Thursday May 19 2005, 12:09 am:
In the first place, why did you broke up with him if you aren't sure of your feelings? Well, we can't change that but I think it's because when we lose something/someone that's the time we realize how important it is in our lives. I myself had been in a process that really really hurts. Forgetting someone you really care about. Like you, I cried many many times but I can't change anything with that instead I became stronger and time will just heal. But if you want to give one last try, then you can approach him and see if he still have feelings for you. If he made it clear that he doesn't like you anymore or if you see that there's really no hope, that's the time that you give up. In my part, I didn't try to save my relationship so it was really painful since I didn't try and now I keep wondering what if I tried? I hope it wouldn't happen to you.

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drama_queen_101 answered Thursday May 19 2005, 12:08 am:
hun, you need to stay away from that dude! he sounds like trouble! get with another guy and move on, i know its hard, but eventually, you will! i promise!

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Behind_Blue_Eyes answered Thursday May 19 2005, 12:02 am:
Even though you want to find a reason to hate him, right now it won't happen. Your heart still cares for him. Since he got back together with his ex so soon it is ovious that he was no good for you to begin with. It is going to take you time to get over him but you need to take it one step at a time. Try to keep your mind off of him by doing other things, read, hang out with your friends, write etc. Gradually you will be able to get over him. Trust me. I hope this helps, good luck hun.

&hearts; Behind Blue Eyes

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