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best friends
ok.. i have this best friend.. he means like the world to me.. i love him soo much.. but as a friend.. not as a stocker obsessed way.. and i always talk to him.. and my friend.. like LOVES him.. like she wants to go out with him.. and whenever im with him.. she always gets mad.. so what do i do.. shes my best friend.. do i leave him alone.. or do i stay friends with him.. just never talk to him?? do i stay friends with him.. and risk loosing my best friend?
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your friend is being unfair, you are best friends with this guy, dont give that up just to please someone that wants him. tell your girl friend that he is your best friend and that she has to accept that because you dont want to end up falling out over this.
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Dear,
You don’t have to chouse. If you both liked the guy then you would have to chouse between the two but because it’s not a love triangle so you can just sort thing out. What I mean is that they are both your friends so you are not chousing between a friend and a boyfriend. You should make it clear (tell her) that you and that guy are just friends. I don’t think you should be cold to your guy friend because at the end of the day he is your friend just like you are friends with you best friend and nothing more. She will understand eventually and you can even help her and that guy to get together (you don’t have to if you are not into matchmaking). If you both liked that guy I would say you should chouse being friends with her because you can get over a guy but good friends are hard to find, however that’s not the case. So talk to her (be patient and explain it until she is convinced you and that guy are just friends and nothing more) and whatever you do stay friends with that guy and don’t treat him differently then before because you might really hurt his and your feeling by killing your friendship.
Good luck!
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Don't let some jealous baby contRol youR life. If you aRe close to this guy.. don't let anything oR anyone come between you. Who gives a flying fuck what she thinks... he obviously does not need a peRson like that in his life anyhow... too much immatuRity and dRama going on theRe. She has *NO* Right to tRy and dictate youR fRiendship oR involvement with anotheR human being... you need to tell heR this.. Hopefully eveRything woRks out!
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I think you need to explain (probably again) to your friend that you and the guy are just friends. :)
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yo u r gay get serious hellp
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well, this hard to deal with. I go through with it all of the time. Well, anyways, a guy is never worth it to get in the way a great friendship. But on the other hand, you are best friends with the guy too. So its like a win lose situation. What i would try and do is talk to your girlfriend and explain it to her what is between you and the guy. If she doesnt want to listen, then she obviously isnt a true friend. It also comes down to how long you have known them each. If they ty and make you decide between them, dont get into the middle of it, but if you have to choose, choose the one that youve either known longer or you are closer to. But i would personally stay away from that because a lot of hurt will go around and maybe other things such as rumors and everything else. If they make you choose, then obviously both of them arent good friends at all. Trust me, i have been in the same situation too. But hopefully things will get better and you all can go back to your alls normal and daily lives soon enough. Hope i helped! Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can.
Love,
Candie
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Well, this is really hrd! No offense, but you're kinda screwed. Really, no offense. Okay, I guess you could work it out with your friend that you want to still be friends with the guy, and she might understand after a little while.
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Before completley loosing touch with him try talking to your best friend, explain to her that the feelings you have toward him are not those of love. Tell her that the situation she is putting you in is driving you nuts. Hopefully after you talk to her she will drop the subject. I hope this helps, good luck hun.
♥ Behind Blue Eyes
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I think you should clarify to your friend that you just like your guy friend only as a friend and not exceeding that and you don't have any plans to take him away from her. That way maybe you can stay friends/bestfriend between the two. You can also help her get closer to him so that she'll really realize that you treat him as a friend only.
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