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Website: DoRks KnO aLL
Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: School
Age: 15
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Member Since: April 19, 2005
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Last Update: October 3, 2005
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A week ago today, I accidently poked myself in the eye with mascara in the morning. Since then, the bit which I poked has been red and blood shot. My Mum said it was like a bruise and would probably go soon but it's been a week now and it seems to be getting worse. What is wrong with it? What should I do? (link)
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you should probably go to a doctor and see if it is infected. if you just refuse to go to the doctor see if there is any good eyedrops at your local drug store that says anything about your symtoms. but i would really try to go to a doctor, you dont want it to get real infected...i hope i helped...dont poke yourself with mascara anymore! lol...
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My friend and I used to be really close and we told each other everything. Recently she changed her personality, her type of music, her interest in types of clothes. She also has began slagging people she doesn't even know. She says she hates people who judge and stereotype but she does it 24/7. She slags of all my mates, which hurts my feelings(yes I know that sounds gay.) She now has new friends "Skater mates" (sorry for stereotyping)which I don't mind but I don't slag them of if they piss me of like her. I feel really out of place when I'm with her and her new friends. Somethings I wonder if this drifting apart is due to me being a guy(16) anf her being a girl (14.) Maybe that one of my excuses. Any gental tips that I could say to her to make her stop slagging and to realise that her changes have effected me. That sounds shallow sorry! (link)
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no. you dont sound shallow. it sounds like she's just trying to find herself. if you know her well enough, you know she's probably not doing the right thing. but just keep trying to talk to her and try not to feel out of place with her new friends you were freinds with her first! but you guys are growing, and that means new friends, im sorry your going through this...i hope you get yoru friend back...or find a new good friend...hope i helped!
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My Mum hates me she hits me all the time wat can I do? (link)
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you can do a lot of things...but the question really is what SHOULD you do:
1. go to your school counsolor and talk to them about it, they will be willing to talk about the choices you can make, you may be able to file a case
2. talk to your dad (if he's available) and tell him what is happening, he will more that likely not have any idea what is going on and will want to stop it
3. talk to any adult basically, teacher, friends mom, even police if you want to.
4. talk to her...tell her you dont understand she's doing this to you...but if your afrait of what might happen just go to a trusted adult and try here...
5. go to this website www.ndvh.org/
good luck...you'll be in my thoughts...
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me and my boyfriend had sex and we didnt use rubber and im only 14 he got me pregnet what do i tell my parents? (link)
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thats not good...first of all...does he know? you have to talk to him about it...tell your parents what happened...they would want to know...they can help you decide if you want to keep it, abort it, put it up for adoption. but every choice you make will have its consequences...but whatever you do make sure you DO tell your parents...they have to be with you when your going though this...good luck, you'll be in my thoughts...
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i just got my hair cut like an hour ago its a little bit below my shoulders and its angled so the front is at my chin it used to be a litte bit under my breasts i used to be known for wearing my hair in a high pony tail or a low ponytail my new hair looks cute and all but now i know i cant fit is in a high ponytail and i tried getting it into a low one and it doesnt even work if i put my fingers on the side of my eyes all the stuff in front of that is out of the low ponytail does anyone have any ideas on how i could keep it in my ponytail without putting a load of hairspray or gel? PLEASE HELP!!! i will rate high (link)
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you can use clips...bobby pins...boby pins look really cute especially if you have strait hair, i like the messsy look like you just threw it up, but if your a perfectionist you mite want you use one one of those teeth clip thingies they would probably hold your hair up...hope i helped...
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i need a web site of a place with really really cool dress cay=use im picky so can anyone help?
it cant be shipped so it needs to be a store 2! (link)
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go to kohls.com, pretty much anystore you shop at and look there. it would be really easy if you could get it shipped so you can just buy it online, most of time the shipping is free...hope i helped...
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there was this geourgous , relli popular guy, josh and omg we went out 4 about 4 weeks , we were at a basketball game w our skewl one day and every1 was coming up to me saying hey leila blake is guna break up with u, and i didnt pay attention 2 it(after all it was april fools day) wen i got home i called him and we broke up (he broke up w me)during this tyme he didnt talk 2 me call me ot anything, then wen i was at 6 flgs one day he was there and he asked me if i wanted to go ride the batman, i was liek SURE and i didnt even wana hold his hand, wen the ride started he grabbed mii hand and goes im sorry, ill always love u, NOW wen we got to skewl once again he didnt pay attention 2 me or anything, then he starts saying crap, liek im greasy??? and im relli confused ryt now... what should i do PLEASE HELP!!!
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this due is acting like a freakin ass. if you try to fix things between each other be strait forward becasue it sounds like he may be messing with you and you dont have to take that bs. walk rite up to him and ask him whats wrong with him. dont be afraid to. do what you think is right. if he's a letter type of dude right him a brief note. ask him to respond. that should do the trick. i hope i helped...good luck
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i've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and we still love each other a lot. i show him all the time how i feel about him, like by giving him a back rub or making him dinner. he tells me that he loves me and is still in love with me, but he never shows me anything that can prove what he says. he has a hard time saying i love you first. i just don't know what to do (link)
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it sounds like he may be afraid of getting into a real serious relationship guys are wierd, they really dont want to grow up and going out with a girl for over a year they start thinking that you may want to marry them and a bunch of crazy things. what i think you should do is talk to him about how your feeling, because you dont want to be giving him all your love and affection and your not getting anything in return...there's a guy out there for you that will give it bak to you, you just have to find him first...or wait for him to find you...good luck!
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I have show choir auditions in about a week and I didn't make it last year because I wasn't very excited or emotional when we danced and when I did my solo. Are there any tips to help me become more lively when singing and dancing, without making a complete fool of myself? Also what are some good upbeat songs to sing? Thanks! (link)
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just go up there and pretend that nobody is watching you. do what your up there to do,dance and sing...if you really love doing what your doing then it should be no problem with you, if i could do that i would want to show it off!!! you wont make a fool of yourself i promise, just do your best and have fun...it depends what kind of music you like to sing...but alisha keyes has some good songs you can sing and dance to...try looking up her lyrics on lyrics.com....good luck...hope i helped...
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hey im 15, and i was wondering can teenagers get breast cancer? like on my left breast i feel like some bump on the inside or something but i dont know if its really a bump and it hurts a little in that area. i was wondering could that be breast cancer? im really worried and i want to know, if any of you know what can that be, maybe its just that my breasts are still growing or something i really dont know. please help me.
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yes. you can get breast cancer, but its rare, but happens, you should really go talk to your mom, so she can make an appointment for the gynocologist, they're the "woman" doctor. your probably worrying over nothing but just in case...dont hold off on it....if it is something serious you should get treated for it rite away...dont be afraid to go to your school nurse also to see if she can be of any assistance...good luck...you'll be in my thoughts
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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait? (link)
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you should stick with what you want. and that is waiting. you should never be pushed into something you really dont want to do. i suggest you go to www.teenadvice.about.com/library/ teenquiz/14/blisitlovequiz.htm its a really good quiz on seeing if your ready in having sex. most likely your not beacuse the biggest factor in doing this thing that you can never ever give back is regreting. you want it to mean something in the first place and you think you should have sex after marriage, which is a good choice in my opinon because having sex can fuck your life up real bad if something goes wrong. so in my opinoin stick with your wishes, tell you man that if he wants to be with you then he better not make you do anything you dont want to do and that if he wants to have sex with you that bad then he's just going to have to wait to see if you marry him, and thats the only way...good luck,
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ok i like this guy ALOT and were going out but my friend also likes him and shes not talking to me because im going out with him but she also told me over and over again go out with him he really likes you and i kept telling her no no because of you and he told her before we were going out that he didnt like her he liked me so now im going out with him and i dont know wbout my friend...
i need help! (link)
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this is exactly what is happening to me, but its my friend thats going out with him, not me. just remmeber this, that friends are forever, but guys come and go. talk to your friend about how your feeling and tell her that you dont want her to feel this way, and ask her to put herself in your situation, would she want to break up with him if she were going out with im right now? i think not...if it doesnt work out to good...keep trying to talk to her...if over a week she's still p.o.ed at you...tell your guy you need to take a break, tell him the truth...and see how it goes...wish you luck! hope i helped...
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what are some good questions to ask when you play the game 20 questions? (link)
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go to 20q.net. they have a bunch of good questions...if youi want more just go to google and type in 20 questions...hope i helped...have fun..
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Well, ive taken all the advice, and i havent had soda and I feel great! Ive been doin regular exercises, but my thighs look fatter then ever same with my upper arms ! Whut can i do?? (link)
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losing weight takes time...dont give up and keep doing what your doing. whats most important is that you feel good. do any arm/leg exercises you see. you can go on google and find some out. do a little bit everyday and go up gradually on the reps. good luck...! hope i helped
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what are some websites that i can look at up-do's for prom that can give me an idea of what to have. I can't seem to find any.. and i want all my hair up. no messy buns either.. thanks (link)
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just go to google and type in prom hair up do...that should do the trick! google is the best. or what i would prefer is buy a magazine. because you can cut the pics out and it's just easier and more fun to look at...but thats just me! hope i helped...
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I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong? (link)
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no, not everybody does drugs...dont believe it. because your part of everybody and you dont. that counts as something. just dont listen to everybody, listen to yourself, you dont think they do any good, only bad. thats ok. tell your friends that you dont think its for you and that you wont every do that stuff. if they try to pressure you tell them specific reasons why you dont do it, (bad breath, cough, teeth, addicted, make you do bad stuff, addiction, cancer, asthma, death, w/e the reason may be) but what i do is i just say no and act cool about it, i dont make such a big deal b/c thats what they want to do, its their life, if they want to screw it, then let them. they will learn with time. if your friend is really worrying though i would have a one on one talk with her, and tell her what your thinking....dont tell her what to do though, tell her what you think is right. say what you want girl...dont hold back...
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I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do? (link)
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well, if you think your friends will diss you because you want to be friends with a girl from class then they're probably not true friends. what i would do is introduce the girl you talked on the phone with to you friends and see if they have anything in common and might get along also. but if they act like she's not good enough to be in your posse, then continue hanging out with her and be as good as a friend as you can. tell your friend that you are allowed to have more than one best friend (which you are) and that you think you found a really good friend. but please, please, dont not talk be friends with that girl because your afraid what your current friens might think...dont be afraid to do what you think is right...hope i helped
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Tell me if this shirt is cute for a car chick, like me.
Its white and too big so i tie it in the back (i have a long tight black tank under) On the front ot says FORD with the blue and white letters. On the back:
"My daddy drives a bad stang and i will drive it when i get bigger".
I need your advice..... I RATE HIGH (link)
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ya. that sounds cute. but i dont get the whole ford stang dealy do. but other wise it sounds cute. i like wearing long tanks under shirts too...black specially...i bet you will have lots of guys turning there heads...hope i helped
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Hey, I want one of those livestrong braclets except I want one for breast cancer. Where can i get them and how much are they? (link)
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you can get those in walmart, they will either be by the cash registers or by the ladies underwear...yup yup yup...believe me...or, if you just can't find them anywhere you can order them online, just go to google and type in breast cancer bracelets, they cost .99 cents. good luck! hope i helped
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i have this boyfriend or basically did...but ok he broke up with me cause the feelings were there, and he nneeded time to mayb see if they would come back. and then yeah so we went to school and he seen me but didnt say anything and he told my friend that he didnt wanna get to attached cause he has college soon, and he feels really bad and really sorry and stuff and the thing i dont get is he told her"if we were met to be together then we will get back together" so what do u think?
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well, it sounds like this dude is scared of making big commitment. he may only have girlfriends as long term. what you should do is talk to him about what you are thinking and see if ya'll can work things out together, because it sounds as though you think you had a connection with him, and you should try something, rather than leaving it hanging and not going anywhere with him...good luck, i hope i helped you!
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