i have this boyfriend or basically did...but ok he broke up with me cause the feelings were there, and he nneeded time to mayb see if they would come back. and then yeah so we went to school and he seen me but didnt say anything and he told my friend that he didnt wanna get to attached cause he has college soon, and he feels really bad and really sorry and stuff and the thing i dont get is he told her"if we were met to be together then we will get back together" so what do u think?
please help ill rate!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sweetlittleree answered Saturday April 23 2005, 2:28 pm: I think that the whole thing is something every girl goes through. Her boyfriend goes off to college and she stays back behind. I think you should give him some time to himself and just like he said if you were meant to be together you'll be together. Try looking around for someone to go out with but not to be serious with. He'll do the same thing when he goes off to college and only time will tell you what will be of you two.
karenR answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 6:45 pm: I think he means when he get's done with college.
If you're meant to be together you won't have met someone else by then. Basically, find a new guy. Sorry [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 3:59 pm: heyy .. "if we were met to be together then we will get back together" what i think is that is his way of saying i dont like you anymore without telling you to your face or rudely this guy doesnt like you anymore move on and im sorry about this guy =(
icy answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 3:30 pm: Sorry you're in this situation. I'm pretty sure I know what he means by that. I think he means that if you two were meant to be together, like soul mates, then you would cross paths again. Basically, he wants to let fate has his way. It seems like he still has feelings for you though, he just wants to let your lives run their course and see what happens.
iWALKintoWALLS answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 3:30 pm: well, it sounds like this dude is scared of making big commitment. he may only have girlfriends as long term. what you should do is talk to him about what you are thinking and see if ya'll can work things out together, because it sounds as though you think you had a connection with him, and you should try something, rather than leaving it hanging and not going anywhere with him...good luck, i hope i helped you!
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