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One of my best guy friends, that Ive been friends with for about 4 months now, is the sweetest, nicest, most gernerous, giving guy i know. After all that being said and done, i plan on having only a freind-relationship with him. He has the biggest crush one me and i dont know what to do. I want to tell him how i feel about our relationship but i dontknwo how to say it without him feeling uncomfortable around me when we hang out again. pleas help.
You should confront him about it and tell him you just want to be friends with him. Sure, it may make him feel rejected, but chances are he will take it in stride and remain one of your best friends. Just tell him before he gathers up the courage to ask you out.
okay so i met this guy when i went to mexico and he was really nice and we talked alot and made out once... but n e ways i haven't talked to him in a year! and i got his sn from my cuzin so finnally he came online and i sent him and i.m saying..."hey sexy wuts up? do you knoe who this is?" and he hasn't answered for over like 10 minutes! y wont he talk to me!! should i tell him who i am? or just wait for him to send me sumthing back cuz i don't wanna be all like hello? hello? hello? hello? cuz then ill sound dessperate and annoying! so help me asap before he signs off!
If you typed the message like that, I'm sure you did scare him off. Just wait and see what he says. If he doesn't say anything, then he is either away from his computer or just doesn't like you.
I REALLY like this guy named kyle and he goes to my school. and he likes me too! and ive only talked to him for a week but i have gotten to know him REALLY well and have have LOTS in-common, and im still waiting to get to know him more but if i really like him and he really likes me should i tell him that i love him even if were not going out?? please help because i want to tell him but i dont know if it is to early or not!
(im 14)
Love isn't just a word you should throw around. Only tell him you do when it is obvious he loves you back. A way you can know when you are truly in love with someone is if you would do anything for him/her, and won't let anything get between the two of you. Only then should you say you love him.
Ok so me and this guy dated for a year and a half, my first love, first guy i had sex with everything. I screwed up our relationship by taking him for granted and i cheated on him. Well he forgave me but we broke up and now he has a new gf and i had a new bf and its been about 5 months. School started and i have 3 classes with him and i cant get him off my mind and i want him back soooo bad but i really doubt he will dump his gf for me...wat should i do? please help
Ouch, tough predicament. It all comes down to how much you really want to be with him. You did cheat on him, so he does have reason to be distant and/or unresponsive of your advances. You can try to talk to him and tell him your true feelings, but don't expect any mutual feelings. Tell him how you feel, keeping these emotions bottled up can only lead to 'what if?'s later on.
What's a good way to lose weight on the tops of your legs? I've tried the running thing and it doesn't seem to work well. Bicycle? Walking? what?
Here are some different streches you can do.. http://www.workoutsforwomen.com/stretch2.asp?type=innerthigh
http://www.workoutsforwomen.com/stretch2.asp?type=hams
Also, you can do squats and lunges, you dont have to use the barbell on the squats if you dont want to. http://www.betterbodz.com/quariceps/front_squats.html
http://www.fitstep.com/Advanced/Exercises/Lunges.htm
Hope I helped!
Alright what do you personally think is sexy on a girl. Like prep/abercrombie.. what. I usually shop at hollister and sometimes abercrombie but im just wondering.
Thx hunny
-baby blue eyes-
The sexiest thing on a girl is her personality. And I happen to be in love with the sexiest girl on the planet. :) But clothes-wise, it doesnt really matter as long as she doesnt dress too audacious or then again too concealing. A&F and American Eagle are some brands of clothes I like, but then again, personality is of much higher importance than anything.
does anyone know how to loose a couple pounds in like a week?
-thanks
Eat less, run/jog, play some basketball, drink diet cokes, and drink lots of water.
okay, my ex bf had sex with this girl like 3 yrs younger than him about 6 months ago, she gave it up to him really easily, they werent even going out or nething..then he asked her out like 2 months later..but then he broke up with her after like acouple weeks..now i hear that they are back together as "fuck buddies"..do u think he really likes her, or is just using her?
Well, if he admits that he and her are just "Fuck buddies" then its probally not too serious. Find out what the girl thinks about her relationship with him, if she shrugs it off, then you will know that they are not serious at all.
i wanna know how to make my b/f really turned on when he comes over tomorrow and maybe evn make him get a b*ner, any ideas?
Haha, all you really have to do is bring the subject up and he will most likley be turned on. Us guys are easy.
my friend cuts herself because of her ex-boyfriend...ive tryed to tell her not to. she cuts herself all over her body except her wrists. and when her parents ask her what happens she makes up excuses like she ran into something, fell... i dont know what to do!
-signed help my friend out!-
Tell her that if she keeps doing this to herself over some guy, that she will cut too deep soon. Tell her to put her mind on other things than the guy. Hang out with her alot, as she wont cut herself in front of you. Try and keep her mind off of her ex, and giver her positive re-inforcement all of the time. If this doesnt help, sit her down and talk to her about it and tell her that you are concerened and may tell her parents. She might not like you if you do tell her parents, but you will be doing her a very big favor that she will thank you for sooner or later.
Ok, so I'm thinking about getting some plain t-shirts that are colored and getting clothes paint to right on them, but I dunno where to get some shirts (for cheap) and what to right! does anyone have some suggestions?
Go to Wal-Mart, theyve got shirts there a dime-a-dozen (More like 7 bucks a pop.) You can also get your painting supplies there. Wal-Mart is king. (I like Target more, but Wal-Mart is cheaper.)
I have been going to the same Christian school all my life. Now Im entering high school and I have the choice to go to the public highschool near my house. Im worried about not making friends or getting into trouble in the public school. Its my choice but I cant decide. Which on should I go to and why? Please help! I know its a stupid question but please .. Thanks!
xO mE
To tell you the truth, I would go to public school and ask my parents to save up the money they were going to put up for private school into a savings account for later. If you do that, once you get into college, you will have lots of spending money! Also more people go to public schools, which means more people to find a clique that you fit in. Hope I helped.
i was at my friends house and her brother invited 2 friends over and they were being soo friggen annoying and the brother was annoying the sister in front of his friends...wat would you do?
Younger siblings are like that sometimes. Get some dirt (information) on him and tell your friend to blackmale him next time if he does it again. That should work, but make sure it is something he wouldnt want him mom/friends to hear.
You seem like a smart guy, so I'll ask you my question. I'd like to weed out stupid people and their stupid person answers. So here goes. I'm entirely in love with this guy, who is amazing. Each and every single time I speak to him, everything is better and everything is amazing. Seems great right? Maybe not. I have startted to get it into my head that maybe its never going to work and that maybe me and him won't ever work. Or that maybe me thinking he cares about me, or him saying that he cares about me is all a lie. That seems to happen to me a lot. Everytime I'm happy, I seem to sike myself out of it because I believe that either its going to suddenly fall apart or go away OR that I've imagined it all. Is there ever going to be a way for me just accept that the guy loves me or that I love him and move on with life, or am I doomed to destroy every other relationship with a human being because I freak myself out each and every time? I'm afraid of losing something amazing and at the same time, I'm afraid of wrecking it myself. Any suggestions? I don't want to lose this guy or wreck my chance with him, because I really care a lot about him, every single aspect of him.
I can assure you, that this guy is genuinley in love with you. And for you to be feeling all of these feelings is completely normal, as the mind always tries to find something wrong with every situation. And if this guy is genuinley in love with you (Which he is), there is NOTHING that will stop the two of you from being together. If this guy really loves you, he will travel across the world a million times for you. Love is just like that, weird sometimes.
Hope I helped.
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kool aid as hair dye.. anyone ever try it? should i try doing it? i only want something temporary b/c schools all strict and stuff about hair color. i just wanna find out if its worth doing and what color would you think best on blonde hair?
Dye it with some grape kool-aid. Cant go wrong there!
what do you do when you feel for someone... and u want to tell them but u cant ...
u cant tell them how you feel because you get tounge tied talking to them...
and whats it mean when ur heart beats 1000times per sec. as the whole inside of ur body shakes...
I dont even know if this guy wants me... we tried be4 ... and i called it off... and now i want him back more then ever... idk what to do... help?
It all depends on which part of him you are attracted to. If you are physically attracted to him more than mentally, it is just an infatuation. But, if you like him for his personality more, you could genuinley love him. But in order for the love to work, both of the people have to feel it for eachtother.
Either way, if you want to pursue this guy, just try as hard as possible to act normal around him. If you act weird, he will probally think something is wrong, or may be recieving the wrong signals, such as you not wanting to talk to him. Also, tell him how you feel, and see if he feels the same way. Hope I helped.
Well...I loked this guy almost for 3 years now, and when i was in 7th grade i like him and he knew that i did, well it was obvious..cause i acted really wierd around him and everything.We never talked, we werent friends at all.But then last years i acted normal and it wasnt obvious at all that i liked him.And i'm still afraid 2 speak 2 him or tell him that i like him and that i'm crazy about him.He's populer and alot of girls like him...so i dont think i have a chance w/ him at all.Please help...I dont know what 2 do!!
-Ana(15/f)
Whatever you do, dont act weird around him. Be yourself and if he can't like that about you, he is not worth your time. Talk to him more and display your feelings toward him, if he does not show the feelings back, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Your first mistake is thinking that you have no chance with him. Nobody is out of anybody's league, it is all just in the mind. Hope I helped.
How come you are 16 and going to be a senior?? I am 16 and I'm going to be a junior. Did you skip a grade??
No, I will be 17 in August before school starts.
im going to b a freshman in high school and i was wonderin if anyone could tell me what homecoming is like. do u have to get all fancy or wut? i have never heard about it b4 so im kinda nervous. also r there like sadie hawkins dances?(where the girl asks the boy) im just wonderin. thanx!
Yes, you have to dress up in a blazer/tie and wear a corsage. But its not bad, you dont even have to stay the whole time. Prom is a MUCH bigger deal than Homecoming. At my school there was Sadie Hawkins dances, but they werent too popular.
well since ya looked like a generally nice guy and you seemed to know what you were talking about- i thought i'd ask ya a question! so here goes. i finally got the courage to talk to this guy i liked. well when i did he said to me "well,i think your great, and im not about to turn you down.i wanna hang out with you and see how it goes." well. we hang out alot! even b4 i told him i liked him so idk what he was talking about. i really like him and im not sure why he isnt giving me an answer or anything close to it!? what did he mean by his response?! help!!
Sounds like this guy is being a little shy. I'm fairly certain that he is just a little scared to show you his true feelings. Sort of hint to him that you are interested in him as more than a friend, and then when you think the time is right, tell him how you feel and demand that he tells you his feelings. That way he wont easily be able to change the subject and will give you a straight up answer. Tell me how it goes.