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my friend cuts herself because of her ex-boyfriend...ive tryed to tell her not to. she cuts herself all over her body except her wrists. and when her parents ask her what happens she makes up excuses like she ran into something, fell... i dont know what to do!
-signed help my friend out!-
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Hi.. my friend used to cut herself to .. but she blamed it because on of her bff's was mad at her.. i think you should tell her that alot of other guys are out there for her..
*-Janelle
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Tell her that if she keeps doing this to herself over some guy, that she will cut too deep soon. Tell her to put her mind on other things than the guy. Hang out with her alot, as she wont cut herself in front of you. Try and keep her mind off of her ex, and giver her positive re-inforcement all of the time. If this doesnt help, sit her down and talk to her about it and tell her that you are concerened and may tell her parents. She might not like you if you do tell her parents, but you will be doing her a very big favor that she will thank you for sooner or later.
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it sucks but u gotta either ge tthru ot her, or tell someone who can. tell her ur rly worried about her. iv known alot of ppl 2 cut...n its just like any other mental thing...they cant get help until they realize they have a problem. just be there for her n tell her u care about her. do somethin 4 her tht makes her happy like take her on ur next vacation or have a sleepover n make her laugh alot or take her 2 an amusment park or somethin. get her mind off her problems. also if shes doing it bc of depression, she eneds medicalhelp bc depression id caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain n shed need some med.s gl hun n im sry u gotta watch a friend go through this..it sux i kno :(
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well hun, Get her some help.. If she keeps doing what shes doing she eventually could die if she lost enough blood. I think that this ex boyfriend of hers needs to be taught a lesson in how to be good to a girl other then making herself hurt like she does.. Get her the best help that she can get, and dont be affraid to tell her parents what really happens.. even if she hates you, she will get over it once she realizes that she really needed that push to be helped -goodluck, I hope I helped and Dont forget to rate me. Need me for anything else just drop me one in my inbox
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