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I dont know what 2 do...help!
Well...I loked this guy almost for 3 years now, and when i was in 7th grade i like him and he knew that i did, well it was obvious..cause i acted really wierd around him and everything.We never talked, we werent friends at all.But then last years i acted normal and it wasnt obvious at all that i liked him.And i'm still afraid 2 speak 2 him or tell him that i like him and that i'm crazy about him.He's populer and alot of girls like him...so i dont think i have a chance w/ him at all.Please help...I dont know what 2 do!!
-Ana(15/f)
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Its not completely common to make the jump from practically strangers to dating. You have to be friends first and he has to get to know you. If you've already decided you aren't good enough for him then why are you bothering? You probably are good enough and you've just decided its not going to happen and if you keep thinking that way it won't happen. Confidence in yourself is appealing. Get to know him as a friend and be yourself, don't put yourself down or sell yourself short.
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Whatever you do, dont act weird around him. Be yourself and if he can't like that about you, he is not worth your time. Talk to him more and display your feelings toward him, if he does not show the feelings back, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Your first mistake is thinking that you have no chance with him. Nobody is out of anybody's league, it is all just in the mind. Hope I helped.
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If you were never friends, perhaps you should rethink whether you like him or whether you are simply lusting for him for some other reason before you speak your feelings. I realize they have been there for 3 years, but seemingly you have had no means to identify them as 'liking him'.
I once had a dream about a boy in junior high, and had a crush on him for several years, I did not like him, and he had a terrible personality. I simply fantasized.
If you find you honestly do like him, after thinking it over, you might try to become friends with him, strike up casual conversation; take your time before you actually make a move. Just going up to him and saying 'I like you' will most probably scare him off.
Good Luck!
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