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Hey!!!! It's Alyssa!!! I'm currently a level 1 moderator!

[a]ge: 14
[b]irthday: March 27
[c]andy choice: CHOCOLATE!!!!
[d]rink of choice: Coke or Gatorade
[e]xciting things happening:Pennsylvania
[f]ood of choice: Chinese or Mexican
[g]reastest acheievement: superior @ theatre fest!!
[h]ottest guy on the planet: Sean Faris!!!!
[i]ndoor activity: dance
[j]unk food of choice: chips and dip!!!
[k]oolaid of choice: grape
[l]ove: GUYS!!!!! and Dance!! duh!
[m]usic of choice: POP!!!!
[n]icest friends: Chelsea!!!
[o]bsession: DANCE!!! duh!
[p]izza place of choice: Pizza Hut!!!!
[q]uestion most asked: about styles!!!
[r]adio station: 96.7 kiss F.M.!!!! duh!!!
[s]aturday activity: mall or friends house!!!
[t]ake out food: chinese!!!
[u]r favorite movie: Mean Girls!!!
[v]ery best friend: Chelsea!!!!
[w]hat you wear: everything!!!
[x]yz??? look down idiot!!!
[y]our favorite singer: i have a lot!!!!
[z]odiac sign: ARIES!!!!!

I'm always here when you need me!! So ask me ANYTHING!!!

advice

so about a year ago, my dad and my step mom got a divorce. It really suc'd like any divorce, but my stEp mom blamed it on me...I still belive deep down that it was my fault, but everyone tells me it wasnt. Ive been through so many consolurs and crap, but i still don't feel good about it. I still rember the last night we talked...she told me how much she hated me...((the mom i had for the last 12 years just told me she hated me))then she refused to talk to me for the last like month she lived with us.
well my real mom's really f'd up, and my former step mom wont talk to me ever again..and i realli dont like my dads new g-f..i need a mom. im a teenage girl...my dad doesnt always get it..Where should i turn? I mean i can talk to my freinds...but i would love more then anything to have a mom...should i try apologizing to my former step mom, or call my real mmom...ee..lost

this is a really tough question. well what i would do is maybe talk to a friends mom or an aunt that you have! you would probably feel more comfortable w/ your aunt cuz it's one of your family members but your friends moms are willing to help! i promise you that they won't turn you down! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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ok well friday was the dance and a guy I like told me that day that he was going to try and make other gurls mad by asking someone that he doesnt look good with out..well he hooked up with this gurl named miranda but i wasnt there b/c i had a social dance now im realy bummed out what should I do and do you think they'll last??

i think you should just wait until they break up and then talk to him and stuff!!! that's what i would do!!! hope this helps!!!!

~Alyssa

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im 13 and i never got my period yet. i always get white stuff in my underwear. i know thats norml. but is it normal if youve had that for like 2 years and still no period? please help. and dont say see a doctor, its embarassing to talk to anyone about it. thanks

that white stuff just shows that your period is coming soon! i had mine 4 3 years b4 i got my peiod!!! hope this helps!!!!

~Alyssa

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Theirs a game tonight and i know that my boyfriend is going to be there but im not sure if any of my friends are going. I feel kinda nervous when im walking into the school bymyself and then everyone else is already at teh game ill get afraid that no one i kno will be there. should i go?

you 2 could go 2gether so that way u would already be w/ someone u know!! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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I have the "your space" design template for my advicenators and my username for advicenators takes up 4 lines at the top of the page and it breaks up my username. is there any way that i can fix this?
thanks for your help!
-Katie-

just try shortening your name!!! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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okay, so "my friends" birthday is coming up and she promised herself when she was 9 that when she turned 16 shes gonna commit suicide. i dont no what to do. please give me some advice that i can tell her to stop her before its too late.

-birthday girl

u need to tell her mom so that she can keep a close eye on her!!!! that could be a dangerous situation!!!! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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i know a lot of people are asking you these questions..but here it goes

vday is MONDAY! and my bf derek..weve been going out for a year and like we usually get eachother ..50$ stuff but his family is kind of low in money and i dont want him to feel bad like cause hes getting me a 20$ gift and i said i was guna get him like 40$ and he got mad but anyways i dont want to give him a photo album..cause i read peoples answers.. i already got him a necklace and braclet and cologn..i was guna give him my diary to read that ive been writing in for a while but i DEF. need something else so dont just say only the diary please. i dont know what else to get him. like tshirts are hard to find for him and yeah. please help! thanks

everything you r giving him is really good enough! if he really is into u, he won't care wut u get him!! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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Ok, I have the opportunity to go to this really good highschool, where you can have 2 years of college finished when you graduate and it looks better on your college application and everything.The problem is,I know some people that go there and they said that htey were straight A students, and when they got there they started making C's and D's, and that it was ALOT of stress and they never get to do anything anymore.Everybody keeps telling me to go, that I can handle it, but I don't really want to, and I'm scared to. At my school now, everything is going good, and there's a guy that I really like, and I would never get to see him again if I went to that other school. I just have no idea what to do. I don't want to give up a great opportunity, but I don't want to go either. I have alrady prayed about it, but I'm still confused. Please help! And please, no rude answers, I'm stressed enough as it is. Thanks! I'll rate!

P.S. Sorry so long!!

I'm shy around guys too but what i do is i will go out sumwhere w/ my friends and when they talk to guys i always manage to give the guy a smile or laugh @ a joke he tells! (even if it's not that funny, they love that!!) a lot of guys hang out @ roller rinks or malls or like an academy store!!! that's where i always c them!!! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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so, its schedule planning time in my High school. and this year ive taken classes in this program called Middle Years Program. Ive found my 4.0 grades last year imp[ossible in this program, its rigorous. i have a 3.0. its a 2 year program and i can drop out niext year, and take honors and AP classes instead, but i dono if i should. the pros of this program is that ill get a MYP certificate of completeion, i dono if that is important to any college. in addition to next year, id have to ocomplete a "personal project" which is a 6month long project. its tons of work. i need to get a job next year. i can barely do MYp now, i don if i should drop out because next year ill have to have a job, and do the personal project, and get reasonable grades in MYP. im working hard to rise my GPA but so far i find myself very swamped and confused. on top of ALL of this my mom most likely wants me to keep being in MYP, because she thinks i can handle it. but i cant and i want to get into penn state, and i cant with 3.0 grades. please give me advice, i dono what to do with myself.

if i were you i would take the AP classes, they look good on a college application!!! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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I'm like 20 pounds overweight and I REALLY need to loose the 20lbs. Even my mom calls me fat! I really am going to go anorexic if I dont find an easy way to loose the weight! Please help me. I dont wanna go to desperate measures, but I just don't want my mom to call me fat, and I know I want to be the right wait. I'd be much happier!
DO you have any easy ways of loosing 20lbs.?

running helps, and crunches. also eating healthy, drinking little soda, and a lot of water helps!!! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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hiya, my friend has just recently got a new boyfriend. she has had one before and had sex and her mum didnt no. im scared she will have sex again beacuse today she said to her other friend that she did something with him, and im thinking it may well be sex, cos she sed she was in a shed (by theirselves).

anyone give me advice plze?
thanxz x x x x

ask her what she did and when she tells you maybe you can tell her mom and ask her to keep it confedential that you told! this is really tough!! hope this helps!! sorry if it doesn't!

~Alyssa

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okay like im a freshman an im 15 an my boyfriend is a senior 19 but we dont go to the same schools. yeah i always get talks about how hes dating me...a minor...an how its wrong and everything so yeah dont repeat plz. well today he asked me if i could go to this really formal dance at his school and i wasnt so sure becuase my mom of course doesnt know about him and she definitly wont let me go and i dont really know anyone else that goes to his school. i really wanna go but yeah i KNOW i cant. so if anyone has anything about what to tell him that i cant go or ways that i could probably can go please let me know. thanks

i hate to be the one to tell you this, but you daying a 19 year old when your under the age of 18 is illegal. you need to break up w/ him. he'll end up using u for sex or something! sorry! hope this helps!!

~Alyssa

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I need help QUICK!! Im getting my braces tightened for the first time tomorrow and I know to expect pain but how much? And do they hurt WHILE he's tightening them or AFTER hes done? Should I take advil first? Will i be able to eat/chew food afterwards? How long does it take for him to tighten them? Thanks ill rate high!!

It does hurt the first time, but here's what i do! take alieve 30 min. b4 your appt. it helps sooth most of the pain and it keeps it from coming after your appointment! hope this helps!!

~Alyssa

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ok so i go out with this guy and lately i've been getting jealouse of other girls becuz he lik flirts with them rite in front of me and i feel like we dont even go out and i dont wanna brake up with him like right be for valentines becuz he has like this big thing planned...what should i do..o ya i like this other kid ( i have for a long time)HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!
// Jealouse \\

just when he does that get all up close to him & stuff so that way the girls know that he's taken! hope this helps!!

~Alyssa
P.S.-it's a good way to piss off girls that you don't like that he's talkn to!

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A guy i realy like and he is like my bestfriend is going out with my friend and like i am really jelous. i think it is rude of me and like i am happy for her but i really wish i was her. Is there any way to get over him?

just think of it like this, when they break up, you could go out w/ him! hope this helps!!

~Alyssa

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wut turns a guy on? like any tips i can use while makin out witha guy? like where are their sweet spots?!? or any suggestions on sumthin i can say that would really turn them on and wanna make out??

when your makin out, i heard that they like it when you hold their face in your hands! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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ok, the guy I like has become really hard to read. Last week, he was always finding ways to be around me and I could always catch him looking at me out of the corner of my eye. I was starting to think that he liked me back. But this week he's not acting the same. He doesn't always come over, but I still catch his glances sometimes. I don't know what he's trying to say, or what to do about it?!?! HELP!!!

jst ask him why he keeps staring @ you! in my opinion, i think that he likes you! if he's all around you one week, and nervous around you the next, he might tknow that you know that he likes you and he might be emabarassed to admit it. he's a guy, think about it!! hope this helps!!

~Alyssa

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How do I get over a boy that I really like? I really need help on this one does anyone know any thing i can do?

you really have to just let time let you take your mind off him! that's what i always do. it might hurt ot think about him, but it's the only way! sorry! hope this helps!!

~Alyssa

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i asked a girl out and she said yes ok im 13 she 13 and i want to take her some where but i dont know how to go any where because her parents dont know and i dont want to go with one of her friend unless i have to.i have a older brother and sister that can drive so how do i go some where with her???

tell your mom that your going to the movies w/ a friend, get your brother or sister to drive you to the movies, and just don't tell them. get her to tell her parents the same thing! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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I been dating this guy for 2 months and it was going really good untill I found this letter that he wrote my best friend ( that he like befor) he wrote that he really like her and everthing.When I saw that I was going to die.I need help!!!!!! I'm tried of getting hurt. WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!

ask him about it!!! you need to know about what is going on behind your back!!! if i were you i would break up w/ him!!!! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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