As you may have guessed I am a redhead. I get teased a LOT mostly by other girls but I never have anything to say to come back with so I either cry or get really mad and walk away.
What are some good comebacks for people who make fun of me just because I am a redhead? You would think it was a crime to have red hair the way they talk to me. :(
Thank you!
Things to say-
" wow really? you have nothing better to do, your cool"
"So your making fun of me because i have red hair? You have problems and i can obviously tell your insicure with yourself and you are taking it out on me GROW UP"
" I"m sorry you feel as if i am any less than you because our hair color doesn't match"
" uhhm... ok? so your making fun of me cause i stand out un like you who just blends in with everyone?"
"I rather be diffrent and stand out, than be just like everyone eles and blend in"
" i'm sorry that it bothers you so much that you waste your time about it, and just smile at her and give her an evil look"
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How do i make a girl want me? Everything iv sad or dont she has sad she heres it all the time from other girls and she always gets screwed over. How can i show her that im not gonna screw her over and that i truley want to be with her and that i am different from every other girl? helppp
Its me agian i got your response and if she is telling you that she has 10 guy trying to get her and she said no to all of them including you then i say just don't waste your time give her a brake and maybe she will relize she liked you or maybe she will forget about you
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Don't ask me why, ok? I need to know how long you can go without eating before something bad happens? I don't want to die but I need to lose weight and I have tried it all.
please don't judge me. :(
I would say nothing past a day but you don't loose weight by starving your self thats how you gain weight.
I have been trying to loose weight since i was 5 and no i just go running all the time and eat fruit and vegtables.
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Icaught my dad cheating on my mom almost three years ago. walked down stairs saw him on a web cam with another women.... we stopped talking all summer, i never told my mom, i could never ever let my parents split and ruin my life, i was 15, now im almost 18. we finally kinda have a relationship, i mean.. i guess we talk. it kills me everyday, we hardly saw hi, and i never do anything with him. i caught him on weird chat sites.... all the time. and tonight, i found it again, on yahoo. i found his user name, a reallyy fuckin weird one for him, i luv9999... what the hel am i supposed to do. ive been depressedover this shit, for the fact my dad is a fake, im the only one that knows, and my mom is my best friend and im hiding this from her. its killing me. i go to collehge in a year so i cant wait to get out but to know im leaving her here with him. lately two people my parents knew husbands have been arrested for sexual predators with lil kids. it kills me, what if its that? god what am i supposed to do. i cant handle this, i cant see my family part, and i dont even know
i never told my mom, i could never ever let my parents split and ruin my life, i was 15, now im almost 18.
^^ you said that and i 100% understand what you are saying divorice is really painful, and know one wants to deal with it, but you should of told her the first time you saw him doing that. you said "i couldn't let my parents split it will ruin my life" i hate to say it but that selfish i am not trying to be mean because i really do feel your pain but how do you think your mom feels she doesn't even no that a guy is taking adventage of her he doens't love her and your mom is wasting her time with him and she doesn't even no it how can you keep that HUGE secret from your MOM. it's not fair what he did or is still doing to her and she deserves to no.
i really want to help and i am not saying this to make you mad or sad or feel anything i just believe that you should tell her.
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Im 14 and a guy, i have had 1 gf but i didn't kiss her or anything but hug and i was wondering if first kisses are suppose to be awkwardish?
And is it normal to not kno what to do?
It's really not that bad i had my first kiss at 12 and now i am 13 i look back at it and laff cause it's really not that bad but i'll give you some tips.
You deff. need to make the move.. if you don't know how just ask her "if it would be ok if you gave her a kiss" i think it's so cute when guys do that.
Then lean in, close your eyes, and push your lips out a little, and gently touch your lips with hers.
i know it seems very nervracing but just wait so you guys are in a comfterable spot and try no to make it acword .
after you kiss you can just smile at her and look at her and then either hold her hand and walk or just talk.
have fun with it, and be safe..
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Hi im 18 and im a guy who just recently asked a girl out who i was told likes me, which turns out to be evident anyways. Shes younger than me (16) but all day at school she was making alot of contact and such, and at the end of the day i gave her a long hug and she seemed very much like she was leaning toward giving me a kiss. BUT me of course being not sure if that's what she really wanted, (especially in front of like all of the middle schoolers and our grades....) i sorta slowly backed away and said see you tomorrow...
If anyone has any insight on maybe what she would be thinking right now cause i cant really go back and change that but was that a mistake???
I think you should go for it next time... i love when guys make the move on me and are cute like that and the long hug was good to but next time go for the cute little kiss nothing to big just a little one for the first time
hope i helped:)
good luck....
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I need a really cheap or free photo editing software program to help me alter my photos to look really good. I know Photoshop is suppose to be the best but I can't afford Photoshop so I'm looking for like a Photoshop ripoff, I guess. This girl at my school uses one program (I don't know which one) to amke her skin flawless and perfect. I want to do this too for my senior photos and stuff. Which program is the best and where can I find it?
Photobucket.com
You make your own account and put all ur pics on there and you can edit them, theres a lot more stuff on there emil me if you are intrested.
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I just broke up with my Ex... 3 days ago...
This other guy, whom I've REALLY, REALLY liked for
AGEESSS!!!! asked me out today, I told him I'd let
him know.
Do you think it's too soon to be with somebody else?
Because I really care about this new dude... And
have very few feelings for my ex.
What's your view on the situation?
xx
I would say yes it is two soon if you are still in love with your ex but you obviously aren't so i say go for it! if that's what you want there is nothing wrong with it.
It really jswut depends on how you are handling your brake up witch you seem to be doing fine.
GOOD LUCK AND BE SAFE
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Please dont tell me other wise. I want so badly to be happy and live a long healthy life but honestly everything I have done in my life makes me so unworthy of life. I know I need help but I dont trust anyone with this problem. I go to doctors for help but theyre hopeless and take for ever, Im unabled to open up to absolutely anyone. I want it all to end so bad RIGHT NOW!!! I hate myself I hate my life. Im making everyone around me miserable.
I don't know what to say because i'm not a pro. at this so i will make it short.
You only live once is it really worth ending forever?
The answer to that is NO
God put you on this earth for a reason and maybe your going through this so 2 yrs later you can share your experince with some other little kid that is thinking the same thing you were 2 yrs ago, And save them from it.
You said you can't trust anyone around you witch i believe you but you can always trust GOD, I don't no what to say besides that i will pray for you and i hope everything works out in GODs plain for you witch is to live a long happy life.
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I think that i might be a lesbian. I have had crushes on boys, I had a crush on a boy recently. but i still think i kind of like girls. Please dont tell me its ok to be lesbian because I know I would never EVER be happy with my self. Tell me how not be a lesbian any more! please please please!
Ok well i don't think you are if you are saying you don't want to be then you can't.
Being gay is a CHOOICE and obviously it's not what you want cause you said that but Just cause you might think a girl is attractive doesn't mean your gay, Or even if you want to kiss or make out with girl doesn't mean your gay. Maybe you just feel more comferable around them and you haven't met a guy yet that you feel comfterable around, also you could be having an erg to make out or kiss so the easyest option is a girl i think this could be a part of it.
I really think you here all this media about gays and your thinking about it to much cause i use to get scared when i was young that i would do that to myself but now i don't cause i know god and i no thats not what he wants for me or anyone.
emial me if you need advice or anything please!:)
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hey i know alot of you out there will bash me for asking this question but
does nayone know of any good diet pills that actualy work?
i am in a situation where I NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT and do diet and excersize but i wouldnt mind diet pills
any suggestions?
and if you are going to answer my question please dont be mean spirited
i want good answers with actual suggestions please
thank you!
Well i wannted to take them to but after reading about thm and asking a docter about it, I found out it gives you heart condistions and planty more so i dont sugest it.
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im 17 years old and 5 weeks pregnant.
my boyfriends family wants me to get an abortion.
my family doesnt want me to get an abortion.
i don't want an abortion.
my boyfriends family are saying if i keep the baby then he has to move out and there disowning him.
i feel guilty.
i dont know what to do.
adoption ISNT an option.
hes scared and doesnt think were ready, i don't either but happened.
he's worried hes going to have to sell everything and not have a life or go to any parties anymore.
How do i convince him that he can still have a life? and how do i convince him that abortion isnt the right option? how can i make him see that there is a life, part of him inside me and we shouldn't kill it just because we made a mistake?
Making it short...
I am so happy for you that you want to keep your child and you are taking responsiblity for your child. Abortion is so horable and its wrong!!! Please do not do that to your own son or daughter. Also it's not your boyfriend or his familys dicision to make. you are the mother you are caring YOUR child keep it do not get an abortion.
Don't kill your daughter or son.
I always here how young moms regrate getting an abortion it is so painful meantily idk about physicly but it is really sad and just please dont do it.
oh yea and seriously hes so fucking worried about partying and stuff he rather party and KILL his OWN SON or DAUGHTER
Then screw partying and take care of his reposiblitys. In 10 years partying is nothing and its stupid how can he say he wants to kill his own child thats discsting!!!!
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i thick i am gey but i dont know how to tell my mom i am onlly 14
I am 100% sure you are not gay you are 14 your just a little boy... or girl what ever you are.
You are just influenced by all the shit out there about all gay stuff and its discusting! my cousin is gay and he is now 40 something and i know he regrets it so much you can see how un happy he is and it kills me he was always made fun of in school and that is the reson he is gay to this day you are to young to even be thinking this trust me god created us to be with the oppisite sex not the same sex. It is a discrase to god!!!! I do sugest maybe talking to your mom if she disagrees with gays to maybe help you but your so young your just influnced by all that discusting gay nasty stuff out there it is so wrong pleaseee don't do that to yourself you will be happyer doing life the right way.
please emial me if you have anyqeustion i would really like to help you.
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sooo ok dont judge me because im asking this. im completely normal, i just love my boyfriend so much. weve been dating for 2 years and he suffers from schitzophrenia and he refuses to take medication because he hates the way it makes him feel. i feel so horrible 4 him because he is in so much pain and its just getting so much worse. i know he doesnt want to live anymore. yesterday he asked me to kill him and at first i didnt think he was serious but we talked for a while and he said it was the only way or he would do it himself. i dont want him to go to hell for committing suicide so i told him i would kill him so id go to hell instead. i havnt decided if im going to kill myself yet because my boyfriend says he doesnt want me to do that. but i dont know if i could deal with the fact i killed the boy im in love with. but what happens if a 16 year old kills another 16 year old who asked her to do it? jail? death penalty? psychiatric center forever? im not crazy im just putting the one i love out of his misery because i cant stand him being in pain any longer. id rather be in pain for him. just wanna know what would happen. dont try to do all that talking out of it and stuff either. wont work. thanks
Everyone is saying to get him help and all
But in reality you BOTH need help
I can't believe you would say that, you are
Going to kill your boyfriend why wouldyou kill anyone!
You oviously are a cyco and u need to get help asap!!!!!
I no this is harsh but it's the truth and I just wannt
Youto get it through your head
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last night i gave my bf a bj and he said he liked it, but then he said he wanted to go farther and i said you will find out tomorrow....should i do it??? im 14 btw
Seriously you are 14!!!!
You shouldn't be doing that you are
Way to young! No don't your not ready.
No one is at 14 that is discstig and it's ajoke
To be doing that stuff at 14
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Hi,I am 13 and I really need some help.
All of my friends have matured, and....they...look...drop...dead...gorgeuos.
But, then there is me, I have matured also(I have hips.I HATE them!) But that is the only place I have matured. I do not want to have a chest I just want to be tall (I am only 4'11)
and to have cheekbones.I am more of a round girl, and all the time I try to lose weight, I do but thenit never is the amount I want,and it comes back on. I just want to be the size that I was back in grade 6.
alright sorry for such a long introduction but, I think my real question is is it natural for in 1 year to go up 3 sizes in pants? Or ,4 depending on the pant.
My friends are all so nice like they gain weight but, not as much as I did.
I have cut back on my food but, that is not helping.
I also work out so much it kills,Do you know why this is happening to me?(Sorry that is 3 questions)
-N.
Wow I feel like that's me talking I have the same problem! I am 13 and a female in 6th grade i was 5.2 and size 0 Then 7th grade I hit puberty :( and i hated it so much and i still do i now have hips and boobs and i don't mind boobs but yah no ha ha But i am always crying because i went up 3 sizes to!:( i was so uncofterable with my body and yes all my friends were going through puberty to but none of them were get big changes in there body and i felt like an outcast because of that.
So to fix my problem i have been going running and watching what i eat. And you said that you have been exercise witch is great but you can't just do it to loose weight you have to make it a life disetion that you will always do, you can't just do it in till you loose the amount of weight you wanna loose you have to commit to it and keep up with it.
I no this is long and I'm sorry but this is exactly what is happening to me and i hate it so much but all i can do is try to be positive and try my best to work on it.
Please message me if you have any qeuestions, because I'm at your age i no what you are going through and i no i can help you thanks.:)
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Okay, I used to be christian as a little kid, I was ALWAYS at church, just having a blast ya know? But now I'm fifteen, and I'm an atheist. I mean, I dont know whwat to believe. I want to believe in Christ as such, but I just don't know how. I feel as if I need PROOF. And that's what it's gonna take to get me into believing again. My Boyfriend is trying to devote his life to Christ, and he's struggling wit me, because I'm not. And not only because of him, but I want to as well start believing again. I just need help.
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i am a christain and i use to think about that to i never consider myself an atheist for questioning god (religion)but i had the same thoughts because it can get confusing but, i encourage you to talk to your boyfriend to ask him questions about things you are wondering about even your parents look up on google (my evperince with god) i bet you will find some pretty amazing storys i here them all the time from family.
i hope i have helped you and i encourage you so much to talk to your parents or boyfriend to get a bible pray and ask for answers and just do whatever you feel is right.
if you need anything please send me a message.
thanks.;)
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Alright, so I've been dating this guy for almost a month now. By the way..i'm fifteen. But yeah I go over to his house and like I'm really starting to like him because he's hilarious and fun to talk to and stuff. So anyways, whenever I go over to his house he always starts taking off my pants and I have to go "I don't want to have sex yet.." and he like groans and says okay...thats okay. But then the next time we hang he does the same exact thing! And it's like this EVERY FREAKING TIME. And it's just like cool your jets, man. I'll let you know when I'm ready. But I still tell him this and he's still trying all the time. That little horndog him. But I keeping thinking...does this give off that he's only trying to get sex? Like common, honestly if I were a guy and I was dating a girl, I wouldn't try having sex with her all the time, every single time, when we're fifteen? Like I know people want to get out of that "virgin" category but commmmon. Most guys atleast ASK! But this just gives off that he only wants sex, should I break up with him?
thanksss guyss.
yes i do think you should because he should respect the fact that your not ready and clearly hes not respecting your wishes.
Your only 15 you should just be having fun with your girl and guy friends and stop worrying about relationship stuff.... Also you need to find a guy that respects your wishes and i encurage you to stay pure till marriage hope i helped.
OH AND ALSO WEATHER YOU DESIDE TO STAY TILL MARRAIGE OR NOT NEVER HAVE SEX WITH A GUY IN A MONTH THAT IS WAY TO SOON!!!!
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15/m
i just came to a new school last week. its been a week now and i dont really hangout with anybody during lunch or anything. its not that im weird or shy or anything, its just that people there have their own friends already. What do i do?
for the last week i just walked around the whole campus in circles just to kill time until lunch ends.
i dont wanna do that anymore!
i know its easy for a girl to make friends at a new school, but its not that easy for a guy.
help.
Are you serious it is way harder to be a girl in a new school because everyone judges you before they get to know you and there so mean with guys they don't care what you look like in less there fagit's but just loosen up be yourself try to find something in common with them to talk about. oh and also you should deffintly go to lunch it's proble the best chance you have at making friends yes it is aqward sitting by your self and uncomfterable but try to find a table that a lot of people sit at and they will talk to you they will proble say stuff like are you new what grade just stuff like that trust me i know and i always talk to people at lunch if there new to make them feel comfiterable or i tell them to come sit with me, i would go to lunch try for at least 3 or 4 days you will meet someone weather its a girl or boy you will.
hope i helped
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Wasn't to sure what folder to put this in, so I hope this is the right one!!
Since I was about 14 I've wanted to have a baby so much, and to make it worse 8 of My close friends have recently had babies (It isn't one of them "well If My friends have one I want one" moments) none of which where planned.
However Me and my Boyfriend both want a child, sooner rather than later we have spoke about where we would live, about income and how we would support our child.
In all honesty I know I'm ready to be a Mum.
I am currently going into My last year at collage where I am studying 4 academic subjects and planning to go to university in the future.
I know people will say wait till I am older and have more to offer My child but I want someone to give Me honest oppinons and let Me know about maybe any experiences they have had.
The Last part of My problem is if I was to ave a child, I know My family would not be best please, they would support Me, but I know that I would have let them down!!
Whenever I see somebody else with a beautiful baby girl or boy, I can just imagine myself in that position giving a baby un conditional love and anything which they need.
Please give Me your honest advice as I would very much appreciate it.
!Thanks!
Female - 17 -
I know how you feel im 13 and i wish i was married with kids already
but if thats what you truly wannted and you want your child to have unconditional love then you should wait till you and your bf finish collage get married by a house and then have a child i no its hard to weight but trust me that the RIGHT way to do it i hope i helped
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