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i just came to a new school last week. its been a week now and i dont really hangout with anybody during lunch or anything. its not that im weird or shy or anything, its just that people there have their own friends already. What do i do?
for the last week i just walked around the whole campus in circles just to kill time until lunch ends.
i dont wanna do that anymore!
i know its easy for a girl to make friends at a new school, but its not that easy for a guy.
help.
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Are you serious it is way harder to be a girl in a new school because everyone judges you before they get to know you and there so mean with guys they don't care what you look like in less there fagit's but just loosen up be yourself try to find something in common with them to talk about. oh and also you should deffintly go to lunch it's proble the best chance you have at making friends yes it is aqward sitting by your self and uncomfterable but try to find a table that a lot of people sit at and they will talk to you they will proble say stuff like are you new what grade just stuff like that trust me i know and i always talk to people at lunch if there new to make them feel comfiterable or i tell them to come sit with me, i would go to lunch try for at least 3 or 4 days you will meet someone weather its a girl or boy you will.
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i think with boys, the eisiest way to make friends would be join a sports team or something. or a club. and if not then find someone who is also alone and give them a compliment or ask them a question about where something is since your new. it might start something. goodluck
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Just so you know, it's not easy for girls either. Especially since females have a tendency to be vicious within their cliches. If you want to make friends, be friendly. Find someone who looks lonely too, and strike up a conversation with them. Or find a group of people who seem to be nice and introduce yourself. You have to put yourself out there if you want people to like you. Consider joining a club or sport as well. That's a great way to meet people that have the same common interests as you. :) Good luck.
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