hey what's up? My name is tiffany and I'm 21. I love hanging out with friends and listening to music, music is pretty much my life. I have like a million cds. I am honest and a pretty understanding person and my friends and family all come to me for advice so feel free to ask me anything.
E-mail: stwain28@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Saratoga, New York
Age: 21
AIM: jaruleluva2486
Member Since: September 26, 2005
Answers: 59
Last Update: November 2, 2005
Visitors: 3638
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ok i straighten my hair alotttt. anyone have any good conditioners or shampoos that help your hair from such damage (link)
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I use finesse and it really helps. try it and see what happens. It is like four dollars or more at price chopper, hannaford and even more than that if you go to a drug store. But you can get it at walmart for two something. good luck.
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hi im thirteen and my moms been having really bad neck pain, i was just wondering if this could be a problem like a deadly thing because shes been getting headaches and she has been really tired lately and she doesnt seem very comfortable. but my main question is: is this serious? (link)
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first of all your mother definitely needs to see a doctor. I don't think it is serious but in any case she needs to be checked out because it could be anything. just try to stay calm and help her out any way you can. I hope she is okay. Good luck.
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My problem is quite simple you see we have some kittens that I have been taking of since they were born. Since it's close to the holidays everyone is against me and are going to get read of them no matter what I say. But I thinks that is so unfair since I have been the one who's taken care of them this whole time. They mean alot to me but my parents and brother can careless can someone give me some advice ASAP. (link)
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I am sorry to hear about your situation. I think you should sit down and talk to your family and tell them how you feel. If they still don't care then I would talk to another family member like an aunt or grandmother or a friend and see if someone can take care of them until your family can see how much they mean to you and let you keep them. Good luck, hopefully your family will understand and let you keep them.
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Okay I realllllyyyy like this guy. His name is Seth. And I'm friends with him. He sits with all my friends and I at lunch, but he'll never like me. He's liked all of my best friends. And I've been like head over heals for this guy since 6th grade!! (I'm now in 8th) But he likes my best friend! And I seem to have this problem with every guy I've ever liked since I've been in middle school. Every single guy I've ever liked has either gone out with, liked, or was madly in love with my best friend. And I don't really know what to do about it. I know I can't change his feelings for me. Right now he's going out with my best friend Casey. And she's great, and he really likes her and she likes him too. But I don't want to tell her that I still like him because then she'll dump him just because I like him. I don't want that to happen. I just don't know how to cope with the situation. Should I tell her I like him...or just leave it alone and let the situation bother me all the time? (link)
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I think that you should tell her that you like him..best friends usually tell each other everything no matter what. yeah if she really is your friend she probably will dump him because you like him but that just means that you are important to her and she doesn't want you to be miserable. However if you tell her and she still cares but she really likes him and wants to be with him then just tell yourself that she is your best friend and you want her to be happy and try not to let it bother you even though it might kill you and be really hard to deal with. Hope I was able to help you. good luck.
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a girl likes me but i dont like her but she is one of those girls that might slit their wrist if I dont like her wat should i do (link)
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that is a tough one. I would tell her that you don't like her like a gf but you like her as a friend and you will be her friend and maybe you two can hang out once in awhile so that way she doesn't get hurt and hopefully she will be okay with that and not slit her wrist. good luck, you are going to need it. hope everything works out.
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two girls like me and i dont want to hurt either one and (they are both hot other dudes) I like them both how do i decide (link)
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well first of all i must ask is there one that you like better than the other? if yes then ask that one out and then tell the other one that you like her too but you think it's best that you are just friends and if it doesn't work out between you and the one you like the best then you can always ask the other one out. good luck. hope you are able to decide. good luck
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hey guys i was just wonderin...im going on this really hot date soon, he is taking me to the movies and i want to be the best girlfriend i can be so when he puts his arm around me, where do i put my hands???
im not prude or anything, so any suggestions helps!!!
and NO im not going to give him head in the middle of a movie, thats HOish
help! thanks!!! (link)
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I would put my hand on his leg or hold hands. but in order to be the best girlfriend treat him good and make sure that you are both happy in the relationship. good luck and have fun on your date.
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Ok so let me explain the situation first: I went out with this guy, Payton, and everything was great, until I was told he made a bet about me and our relationship (not like a bet to ask me out he really did like me). Then we fought a lot and he ended it saying things just weren't working out and he liked someone else more.
After we broke up he continued to flirt with me and tell me we should make out and stuff even though we weren't together anymore and were just "friends". Now today when we went to the movies with a big group he commented to my good friend on how hot i looked today. I always see him staring at me in class and stuff too. I kinda still have feelings for him too..What should i do? Sould i try it with him again or let it go? I am scared that he wants me back just because he has no one right now and things didn't sork out with him for with the other girl. THANKS! (link)
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if you really like him and he still really likes you then give it another shot, but with no bets. If you just want to make out with him then go ahead. do what makes you happy. If he goes with you but then you find out that he makes another bet then get rid of him and find someone else who isn't childish like that. good luck
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There is this boy and he sits behind me in home and careers, reading and writing and he sits across from me in math and social studies.
He annoys me so much and I'm not allowd to change seats.
What should I do??
He curses me out all the time I just want to strangle him or my self. (link)
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why aren't you allowed to change seats? have you talked to your teachers? If not I think that is probably the best thing to do. Make sure you explain to them what he does that annoys you and how he curses you out all the time and make sure you tell them that he is affecting your ability to learn. If they fully understand what you are going through they are likely to change your seat or his or at least discipline him to make him stop. hope everything works out. good luck
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I really want to die. Really badly. I tried to kill myself but i chickend out. I'm not afraid of death.. I'm looking forward to it. I just can't handle life. My body is breaking up. I feel depressed and find the urge just to die. I don't understand why ssomeone can just take my life away. I'm alive and I want to die and there's dieing people that want to live. I don't understand why god just cant give those people a life and take mine away.. I hate myself so much.. I'm having a lot of problems now.. I'm 13, F. (link)
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ok I think that maybe you should look in to counseling, if you don't want to go that route try talking to a friend or someone that you can trust. Maybe god won't take your life because it's not time for you to go right now. May I ask why you hate yourself? I am sorry to hear about you being depressed and having a lot of problems. I tried to kill myself before, which wasn't a very smart thing to do, because it hurt alot of people like friends and family. I am 21 and the first time I tried to kill myself I was in 10th grade. I was doing horrible in school and I barely passed, everyone in my family was calling me a loser and telling me that I was never going to amount to anything, to top it off my parents were on their way towards divorce because my dad left my mom and went to california to be with this woman he met online and that happened on my birthday, great way to celebrate a birthday, huh? well anyways needless to say I was really depressed and I felt the only way out was to kill myself so I took a whole bottle of advil which wasn't smart at all. I passed out and I had to be rushed to the hospital and get my stomach pumped. The worst thing is my best friend melissa who i've been friends with for ten years found me past out and she freaked out. That really put a strain on our friendship but when i got out I didn't stop trying to kill myself because i decided that I needed to do something else so then I began to cut, another bad thing, cause I figured if I cut myself deep enough I might bleed to death. Things got better for awhile so I stopped that shit. Then a few months ago I started getting depressed again, both of my best friends hated each other and it made it really hard to hang out with them because when I would hang out with one of them the other one would get mad, plus I was having family problems because they I thought they didn't care about me so I chose my friends over them all the time which just caused more problems so I took a knife and put it to my throat and one of my best friends was there and talked me out of it and told me how much I meant to her and that she wouldn't talk to me ever again if I did something like that again. I put the knife down right away and then I started to cry because I began to think what it would be like to not be able to hang out with my best friends and see my family when I wanted to. It was horrible. Anyway my friend told me that either she was going to call my other best friend and my family and tell them what I did or I was. Well, I decided that they would probably rather hear it from me so I made some phone calls. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to do because they were so hurt by that and I felt horrrible but now I am alot closer to my two best friends and my family and I thank god every day that he didn't take my life. I hope I was able to help you with your problem. Good luck.
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Ok...so...My (only) best friend is starting to turn on me. shes being a bitch and now shes going out with my ex. she knows i still like him though....And i hate this one chick at school and me and marissa(only best friend) talk about her ALL the time. saying shes a whore and a bitch and shit. but now shes BEST friends with her. she can only have one friend. and she chose her over me. And i have this cutting problem. and shes MAD AT ME for cutting when shes the reason i did it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
any advice!? i rate high!!!! (link)
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first of all, if she really is your friend she wouldn't have gone out with your ex when she knows full well that you still like him. That was wrong right there. That was a really bitchy thing for her to do to become best friends with this whore that you guys made fun of all the time and ditch you. She shouldn't be mad at you for cutting considering it was her fault you did it. I think you should try talking to her and tell her how what she did made you feel and that she is the reason you cut. I know how you feel because I cut too. I am friends with this girl who I have been friends with for ten years and I started hanging out with this other girl that I met at work and stuff and she was getting kind of jealous. Well she always used to tell me not to hang out with this girl and stuff like that which really pissed me off. Well, me and this other girl have been friends for about ten months. Melissa( the one I've been friends with for ten years) was getting close to my mom and doing things with her like going out to eat and talking on the phone and stuff and then she would go and say that it was my fault that our friendship was not like it used to be because I was hanging out with Carly alot. It pissed me off so much that I cut and melissa got pissed at me and shit. That is over now and they are friends now and I am still really good friends with both of them they are my two best friends. But anyway I definitely know how you feel.
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Hear is my problem I was friends with this girl for two and a half years then all of a sudden we are no longer friends. I mean she didn't tell me anything. I waited to see if I was going to hear from her but nothing no phone calls and she never came over my house again. I wrote her a letter and she never responded. I don't get it the last time I saw her was when she had a boyfriend. I use to work in a retail store and everytime I would see her she would be buying some things for a baby. So did she have a baby or is she just picking some things up for a friend. But if she did have a baby why would she want to stop being friends. I have another friend and she was also friends with her too but they keep in touch. I wish I knew what happen and how come she doesn't want to talk to me. At frist I thought it was because she had a boyfriend and so did my other friend and I was single. But that's no reason she should stop talking to me is it? Please help me we were such good friends and I would like to be again but I dont' know what to do. (link)
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I am sorry that you are in that situation. No I don't think just because they have boyfriends and you don't is a reason for her to stop talking to you. I think maybe you should talk to your other friend who still keeps in touch with that friend and see if she will talk to her for you and also see if she said anything to her about why she won't talk to you and why she won't answer your letter or come over or call. Good luck. hopefully she will talk to you again or at least tell you why she won't talk to you.
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Hi im 13/f and i have this guy friend who lives down the street from me and we are really tight i mean his parents would trust us both enough that they could leave the house and we could be upstairs alone(i swear we dont do anthing) we spend a lot of time together and i mean i can just like lay on his bed while he plays on the comouter or plays vidio games and we can talk about ANYTHING he is the only guy who i an acually talk to .... but the thing is i think ive developed a crush on him.... wat can i do to take our relationship further????...thanks (link)
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well this could be a sticky situation. If you really like him talk to him and tell him that you like him and you want your relationship to go further than just friends. The only thing is he might say yeah okay but it might freak him out and it might ruin the friendship. But if I really liked the guy I would definitely give it a try.
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I asked a question about this before. I was the one who was being indeed very selfish about my geeky friend who was embaressing me like hell!!! She was being very clingy and I was starting to feel embaressed about her because of her being geeky and annoying!
Well, she sat with me at lunch today. I followed someone's advice on trying to get some space because I realized I needed it!! But, how can I get space without making her upset. She's completely oblivious to me being annoyed with her!! I don't want to go out of the blue saying "You're annoying be so give me some space" She'll ask why! And then i'll have to tell her the truth! She's so annoying at lunch. I sit with cool people and she's totally butting in to all our coversations going "What?" "Who did?" ITS DRIVING ME NUTS!!!!! I've been avoiding her and I know its not right! I need further inforimation!! (link)
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I think the best thing for you to do would be to talk to her when you two are alone. Tell her in a nice way that she is way too clingy and you need some space, it's not that you don't like her you just feel suffocated and you need space and time away. If she asks why then explain to her that she can be annoying and tell her what it is that she does that gets you upset and try to make her understand that you don't want to hurt her at all. I hope everything works out and she stops annoying you. Good luck
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For some time now i've thought i was bi. I've never done anything but i've realized how i was thinking was totally different and unusual. It's been a year and i still haven't made up my mind. Once in awhile i'll "decide" that i'm not but then it ALWAYS comes back and drives me nuts until i'll decide i'm not again. But even then i can't get it off my mind. I know that raging hormones has to deal with this too, but what are the chances of this coming back EVERY SINGLE TIME?!?!?! My family is against it and my friends are okay with it. So please don't tell me to talk with my parents. I just need to know what's going on and why i can't decide. I'll rate ya high!!! (link)
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Okay i am 21/f. I can totally understand what you are going through. I have had plenty or boyfriends and stuff but then one day me and my best friend were hanging out and stuff and she kissed me and of course I totally freaked out at first but then I kissed her back and we have done some other stuff which I won't get in to but anyway it is normal to have those feelings. I mean sometimes girls are way more understanding than guys are. My parents and pretty much everyone were completley against it. We are best friends and we haven't done anything in awhile and we both still like guys I mean she has a bf and stuff. She is really important to me. But anyways what I am trying to say is if you like both guys and girls it's okay to go both ways. Just do whatever makes you happy. Good luck! hope everything turns out the way you want and I hope you find what you are looking for.
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There's a homecoming dance on Saturday that I want to go to. There's a girl I really like and want to ask her to go with me. People have told me that I should ask her. I've never done anything like this before and am really nervous. Can you please give me help on what to do? Thanks a lot. (link)
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okay first you need to calm down. I know it's easy to get nervous about these things considering I am a girl but I have always had to be outgoing and ask the guy out. anyways, if you really like her as much as you say you do then ask her to go with you. The worst she can do is say no and if she does don't let it get you down just find someone else to ask. I'm sure you will find someone to go with in no time. Good luck!
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My name is Alexa and i am 15 years old. Ever sense i can remember i have gotten these sharp shooting pains in my lower legs and ankels. The only thing that helps is motrin,tylenol,advill, ect. i get them about once a week or sometimes more. I dont know what causes it, and docters dont know either.i get it mostly when i have been on my feet a lot that day, but sometimes thats not the case. all i know it is very painful and it wakes me up for hours at night every once and a while.Im scared that taking to much medicen will hurt me in the long run. Does anybody else have this problem or know what it is. Will i outgrow this???
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my cousin used to have that problem and she is 14. When she went to the doctors they told her it was because she wasn't getting enough potassium and they told her to eat two bananas a day. So try that and see what happens. I hope it helps, good luck.
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ok i'm 14..turning 15. Im a freshman. homecoming is next next friday and i dont have a date. i dont understand why a guy wont ask me. i am NOT ugly. i am actually really pretty. i used to model. i am NOT mean. i am a really nice person. i like this guy but i dont get why he wont ask me. any ideas? i dont think he likes anybody else. should i just ask him? is that weird? i really dont want to do that cause i think is akward. (link)
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Maybe the reason why ryan won't ask you is because he might be shy. I think you should ask him and see what happens. You never know he might say yes and if he says no then don't let it get you down. Go ahead and ask his friend carlos and if for some reason he says no then find someone else to ask. If you are pretty then I am sure you will find someone befor homecoming. Good luck.
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Okey, well, I don't know if I like this guy or not. But well, this guy is my best friend. He likes me since he was in 2nd grade, and now he's in middle school. It's been a long time!! Then, this year, I'm moving to another country, and he's like sad and thinks that he doesn't have any chance to be with me anymore. And now, I've heard about him alot from my friend that he likes another girl, and I'm kinda jealous to that girl. And two weeks ago, I called and asked him about that girl. I don't know what to do. I really want to ask him, if he still likes me or not. That's the only thing I want to know from him , but I don't know how to ask him that question. And also, my sister always says "You like him", but I always say "no, I don't!" Then she would say like, "You always say NO, but you really like him, I can tell!" And I try and try to make her thinks that I don't like that guy. So, do you think that I like him or not, and give me some advice about how to ask him if he still likes me or not. Thank You.. (link)
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okay well it sounds to me like you do like him but maybe you don't want your sister to know so she won't make fun of you. I think he really likes you too he's just upset because you are moving away and because he thought that he didn't have a chance with you so now he moved on to this other girl to try and forget about you. I say if you really like him like it sounds like you do then call him and talk to him and let him know how you feel about him. It won't hurt to talk to him see what happens maybe you two will end up together. Go for it girl!
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