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Confused about love.
Okay I realllllyyyy like this guy. His name is Seth. And I'm friends with him. He sits with all my friends and I at lunch, but he'll never like me. He's liked all of my best friends. And I've been like head over heals for this guy since 6th grade!! (I'm now in 8th) But he likes my best friend! And I seem to have this problem with every guy I've ever liked since I've been in middle school. Every single guy I've ever liked has either gone out with, liked, or was madly in love with my best friend. And I don't really know what to do about it. I know I can't change his feelings for me. Right now he's going out with my best friend Casey. And she's great, and he really likes her and she likes him too. But I don't want to tell her that I still like him because then she'll dump him just because I like him. I don't want that to happen. I just don't know how to cope with the situation. Should I tell her I like him...or just leave it alone and let the situation bother me all the time?
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Casey seems like a good friend and you don't want to give her a guilt trip like that specially if she likes him a lot.
Leave it alone and move on.
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I think that you should tell her that you like him..best friends usually tell each other everything no matter what. yeah if she really is your friend she probably will dump him because you like him but that just means that you are important to her and she doesn't want you to be miserable. However if you tell her and she still cares but she really likes him and wants to be with him then just tell yourself that she is your best friend and you want her to be happy and try not to let it bother you even though it might kill you and be really hard to deal with. Hope I was able to help you. good luck.
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I think you should just tell her...If she is gonna break up with him just becasue you like him then she really cant love him that much...
hope i helped..
Jess
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