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Having Trouble With A Friend?
Hear is my problem I was friends with this girl for two and a half years then all of a sudden we are no longer friends. I mean she didn't tell me anything. I waited to see if I was going to hear from her but nothing no phone calls and she never came over my house again. I wrote her a letter and she never responded. I don't get it the last time I saw her was when she had a boyfriend. I use to work in a retail store and everytime I would see her she would be buying some things for a baby. So did she have a baby or is she just picking some things up for a friend. But if she did have a baby why would she want to stop being friends. I have another friend and she was also friends with her too but they keep in touch. I wish I knew what happen and how come she doesn't want to talk to me. At frist I thought it was because she had a boyfriend and so did my other friend and I was single. But that's no reason she should stop talking to me is it? Please help me we were such good friends and I would like to be again but I dont' know what to do.
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It is very unfortunate what you are going through. I'm sure there is a reason why she stopped being your friend. Try to remember if there was anything that you did or said where she might have felt uncomfortable in any way. Now, you mentioned that you wrote her a letter and she never responded. I am sure that you called too and she does not answer the phone either. If this is the case, do not attempt to contact her, you don't want her to think that you are stalking her. Try to contact the friend you have in common with her and see if the friend gives you some answers.
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I am sorry that you are in that situation. No I don't think just because they have boyfriends and you don't is a reason for her to stop talking to you. I think maybe you should talk to your other friend who still keeps in touch with that friend and see if she will talk to her for you and also see if she said anything to her about why she won't talk to you and why she won't answer your letter or come over or call. Good luck. hopefully she will talk to you again or at least tell you why she won't talk to you.
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You shouldnt have to think about all of these things. The next time you see her ask why she hasnt called you or written back. Ask her if everything is ok, and if she's having problems with anything. Tell her your here for you if she needs you.
~Brina
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You can keep speculating but that is all that you're doing. Speculating. If you want to find out the answers to your questions, perhaps you should ask her about it face to face. Don't force the issue and don't be aggressive with the issue, but make it where the issue shines with significance. Be patient and understanding . And you should prepare yourself for the possibility that she may not want to be friends. And that's alright because with time, people grow. And people change. So you do have a right to be angry IF she decides to end this friendship, but you'll have to move on and move forward with your life and respect her decision. JUST LIVE.
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Friendship goes both ways. You need to call her!
Just call her and find out how shes been.
The other friend that keeps in contact doesn't know if she has a baby either? You guys have some serious communication problems. Call her and see if you can arrange a get together. It will be awkward at first but it should get easier once you start talking. :)
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