hey my names amy im 18 and experanced many things in my life though being excepted within friends, all kinds of emotions, sex, realtionships, bullying. never be affaird to ask for advice day or night
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I am a 14 year old girl. I am moving... not very far... only about 30 minuetes away. well my parents say that i can got to the high school i was supposed to go to, with all my friends... my parents say that they will take me to the school for the first year and then i have to find my own ride or go to the other high school. well my friend think that i'm gonna meet new people and get into drugs... i keep promising her that i won't but her last friend did and that's what she thinks is gonna happen to me! My parents really don't care about what i think. and they don't care if i loose my best friend. What should i do? (link)
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ur best friend is affair of losing u . She lost a friend who moved and got intoo drugs that must of hurt he and been very worried for her. Talk to ur friend and explain u express ur views on drugs and reasure her of ur friendship. She is being protective of u and its hard for her if u move. Go out and have fun and cheer her up.
i hope my advice helps a little
by friend2all
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I have a very screwed up family. But my problem is that my oldest brother is in the Army and has been in Iraq since November. Well, he came back for 2 weeks and I only got to talk to him once while he was here. He was to busy with his wife and 3 adopted daughters. Then I find out on the day he left that he called the rest of my family ie my twin brother, my sister, and a couple other relatives and NOT me! I am the youngest girl in the family and my brother sticks up for me but why would he not call me when he left? (link)
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He would b really busy there is a lot of reponablitiy given to ppl who has a family life and in the army he only gets a small amount of time to use the fone and his fone calls and letters are read and recorded to make sure no infornmation is passed back. Dont b to worried hes ur big brother and he loves u , he stickes up for u coz he loves and doesnt want u 2 be blamed.
by friend2all
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how do you know if you have a std or weather your partner has one ?
Is the only way to catch one if your partner has sex with you????
Pleeze help (link)
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i have a test 4 stds today. Ive had a few parners. Its best to be tested. Your nurse will talk u though what she will do and its doesnt hurt. U lay on a bench and she puts a tube up into ur vagina and takes swobs. If u have had parners or not had save sex its is gd to take responablity and get it done. The nurse talks to u all the way thoi so no need to b embrassed.
from friend2all
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aaalritez.. im a 14 year old girl..im dealing with this guy.. ive been going out with him off and on for a while.. first 4 months.. now.. i forget.. i lost track.. anyways.. in february.. i was put on lockdown.. so i couldnt see him as much.. we talked a lot though.. but now i find myself getting bored of him.. but we have a history..n i would feel bad about dumping him.. what do i do? (link)
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even tho u r young u have to b true to urself. Talk and tell him that u feel u are better of friends
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I wanna know the best way to pleasure my self without using dildo's or vibrators. I mean yeah i know figer yourself but that does nothing for me. I AM soo horny right now and i wanna know the best way to get a really awesome orgasm.......PLEASE HELP QUICKLY!!! (link)
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its about experimenting , use ur hands, fingers toys. Circula movements about the lips of the clit or fingering is a great way to cum but as i say its about experimenting and what feels right to u
have fun
by friend2all
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BTW~ this is a question I asked earlier but I'm repeating it cuz I continue to search for more imput. *'s are additions
Hiya!
I'm Annie (13, fem, MD). There's this guy and we used to be together like last year but I gave him the dump. I'm starting to feel that it was a mistake- I mean thinking about it, I can't remember why I dumped him in the first place. It was for my own good, and I know good from bad, don't smoke straight-A's only drink a little is my description. But this guy- he's so amazing. I totally can talk to him really closely and he has all these amazing aspirations for his life. He hangs with me at parties a little but he's a little safe- no kissing, no sex, though he is a druggie. I like the fact that he has very few friends- I admire people who don't require a possie to function. SO anyway, you probably are accustomed to giving guys advice but I really hope you can help me. I need to know if he likes me at all. How can I tell? And if so, what moves should I make, like how fast should I make them, aswell? And what can I do to keep him liking me? Please help!
*muah*
***~I'm pretty cute looking, but I havee kinda small boobs. Would him being predjudice against that be a big factor in the eqation, particularly at this age? Do guys REALLY care about that?
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why do he have to be a bf? it doesnt matter wot u look like and im glad ur smart at school it willl help with ur future. Y cart u be friends? u get to talk still go to movies have a laugh. If hjes a druggie? is he 13 to? that is way young and illegal to sell drugs i think ur going down the wrong path if u wanna b with him. Do lead him on or have sex with him i sure he likes u as a mate and my opinon is to stay only friends
gd luck
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I just met this guy today and he's really sweet and nice ,ect...But the problem is when he's around me he gets kinda ,no very speachless, he's 16 and he just asked me out, I hardly even know the guy and now hes wanting to go out with me and I need help, I'm 15 and looking for the right guy,but waiting a long time !!!!! Help me , Should I give him a chance??? or should I look for the right guy by waiting.... PLEASE answer by tomorrow!!???? (link)
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i say go on the date its mite be fun dont keep lookin 4 love at such a young age only a small personage marrage there childhood sweetheart Have fun telll us how it goes
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I used to have really good friends, they were the best friends you could ever have! But one day at the beach there was this person we met, and she was really nice to us so we got to know her really well and became good friends with her. Suddenly I find that my so called good friends have replaced me with this girl now, I can't even squeeze between them to say something. They totally ignore me completely and won't even pay attention to me anymore. I decided that I didn't need them anymore and I should go make new friends, but that doesn't seem to work either. For some reason almost everyone I meet can't accept me for who I am, and I don't want to change for them. Any advice? Thank you! (link)
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u much b finding it real hard. Im sorry ur friend did this to u i think mosty of us experance this! have u tryed meetin friends at a club , health club, or doing on of ur hobies dont try to hard say hello to ppl and if u see a nice group of girls go up to them and ask to join in. U dont need to be accepted or approved u need to b a gd person and most importantly b urself
i hope u make new friends soon
gd luck
by friend2all
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My husband and I live in Southern California and it's so expensive to live here. I don't want to move to another state because I would miss my family. We live in a small noisy city that is not so great but not terrible either. We would like to move to a better neighborhood. Our 2-bedroom is fine for us and our daughter who is almost 5 but we are thinking about having another child, and would like our kids to have separate rooms. Also, this street is very noisy. We went last night to look at a mobile home. It was nice and it even came with beautiful furniture. It wasn't as small as my husband thought it would be, but the bedrooms were kind of small. But after talking to the realtor, he found out that the rent on the space plus the loan payments would be too much for us. He is a mail carrier and I work part-time at a restauraunt. We were really dissapointed and depressed. I was kind of mad at him too, because he acted all enthusiastic to the realtor and then told me it was too much. I didn't hear what was said about the space fee, so I had no idea until we got back in the car to leave. Do you have any suggestions? Would a forclosure be better? My husband says we can't afford that either but I think he is just being negative. (link)
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isnt there a quiet nabourhood in ur area houses and apartments tend to b cheaper when their not near the city centre or out in the country. I dont no what to advice arange a meeting with ur local coucil and ask for advice on housing.
I hope everything works out
good luck
friend2all
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i really need help losing weight, i am soo depressed. My favorite place is the bar and i wont go cause i dont look good in anything, and i wish one guy would just notice me and tell me that i was pretty but they always go for my friends cause there skinny and beautiful and then that hurts me and i always cry about it cause im not pretty enuf. lately i dont even wanna go anywhere unless im in my sweat pants and a large hoodie because i am way too fat!! no matter what i do i cant seem to keep to a strict diet, i try to work out but never have the time or i just get lazy. I need some motivation, and i wanna know the best way to lose weight fast. So does anyone know any good diets that i could try out???/ or any suggestions for me???? please help before i do alot of harm to myself (link)
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ur size has nothing to do with u pulling a guy trust me i no. Guys love confidance. Smile. stand tall catch a guys eye and give a nice smile be loud dont be a shadow of ur friends. If u wanna lose weight u can try weight watchers, gym there have ppl there to movitate u. If u go to a gym and u start to sweat u will feel refreshed and that with movitate u . Its not ur weight that is the problem its all in ur mind.
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This isn't exactly a question, but how many people agree that if someone goes to the trouble of answering a question, then the person who asked the question could take the trouble to rate it? I don't do this to be rated, of course, but I would like some feedback for how well I've answered the question, so I can improve any answers I give or see my mistakes. So please, if someone answers your question, could you rate them? (link)
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yeah i do agree but some questions get so many replys but yes i do see ur point. And i do think we sould all take time in rateing at least then we can better ourselfs. I sure although some ppl dont rate ur advice im sure u giv very gd advice seen as u take pride in whatin ratin to better urself
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im a girl whos 13 and i cant stop thinking about having sex with this boy im sooo horny when i see him... what should i do? (link)
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do nothing u r to young. You are no where near ready to take on the responiablity of sex the goverment gave the legal age of consent 16 because they believe anyone younger is no where near ready. If ur horny masterbate by urself for urself.
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ok ive liked this guys for six months and he just asked me out like 4 days ago and i was thinking about how much i liked him compared to all of my other boyfriends and this by far is the most serious one even tho weve only been going out for 4 days it feels like i really do love him , but im have 2nd thoughts about telling him how i feel because (1 we are to totally different people as in he isnt a virgin and i am he does pot and i dont and i dont have a problem with him doing it , its just im not sure how he would react (2 he might think im nuts and walk away and tell his friends so they can stare at me even more at me during lunch (3 he may not feel the same way about me . and i have a friend of his who is a friend of mine and says that he talks about me all the time and in the "good" way. ok well let me get to the point im leaving this summer for 3 months and im leaving in about a month and i seriously cant stand not seeing him and i wanted to tell him how i felt befor i left ... should i?
*~a person with love issues~* (link)
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you have asked a range of wquestions. I think in stead of asking me y dont u sit him down and talk it out with him. I think ur to worried about him faults and not really giving him a chance. What happens if he is the one u go out and have a laugh the best bf so far?? U would b missing out on it so hes had sex that can b a big thing but doesnt mean u have to sleep with himdont d anything u dont want to do. Speed is a bigthing tho i dont bleieve in taking drug , drugs have a reaction on a person and sometimes men and women can become voilent call the drugs help line or Frank . I hope i maked its a little easier feel free to contact us again
friend2all
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Me and my Best friend do everything together. we are like family. She lives down the road from me. I just found out that she is going to be moving soon and I dont know if we are going to go to the same high school next year. Or if we are still going to be friends. What should I do? (link)
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im sorry to hear she is moving. Im sure ur friendship is very strong and u can always viste each other. Go exploring about her new nabourhood. R u looking forward to high school??? It is a lot of fun and u get to meet many friends. Talk to ur friend and she if she nos where shes moving but i hope u get to viste :) dont worry have fun
friend2all
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When I was younger I a serious ear infection that was so bad to the point I was unable to hear people's voices. My mom realized something was wrong with i didn't start to develope my speaking skills. As i grew up I {knowing nothing of my hearing problem of when i was younger}I felt as I didn't belong how I didn't know until a several months ago and now I feel that I should be "Deaf" Instead of "Hearing" I just don't seem to belong in the "hearing world" that I should be in the "deaf world". In class i started reading peoples lips for no reason at all but like it so if I ever miss something I can catch it. I wish all the time that i was deaf. Does this mean i have a sick mind? Am I using a deafness as an escape to sort of try and solve my porblems or something like that? If anyone reads this post and is upset by it i'm sorry. (link)
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i can understand how u can feel u dont fit in u miss little words when ppl are talking to u or u cart fallow a conversation. It not bad or wrong to read ppl lip read it is a very gd skill. Have u ever thought about joining a deaf club. It is made up of deaf ppl and some hearing ppl u can make friends and maybe make u feel more confuable. Colleges also do sign laughhuage which is alot of fun to learn. I have , i hope u figure a way to feel more c onfuable in soiiality good luck n lots of love
friend2all
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First off, im a girl and i have a friend who is a guy. we always hang out and we made out once but that waz all. im afraid that we will make out again n he wants to go further then making out. how do i stop in at this point without getting him upset or looking like im afraid because im not. iv had sex with 2 guys before. i dont like him enough to have sex with him but i enjoy making out with him. Please help because i dont want to look like im scared n i wanna stay friends with him. i am 17 by the way n he is 18. (link)
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explain to him that u like him a lot but dont want to get into a relationship or have sex with him and put ur friendship first. Im sure ur gd friends and this his his chance to show how much he vows ur friendship by understanding and not forching u into anything. Dont do anything u dont want to have fun and take care
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ok, lots of guys like me and think i'm hot. i think i'm pretty, but not REALLY pretty. but anyways, all the guys at my school grab my butt and all they want to do is have sex. i'm afraid that if i do go out with someone, that all they'll want to do is have sex, and i'm SOOOOOOOOO not ready or even into having sex yet( i'm in 7th grade). What should i do??
Pleaz help asap!! (link)
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u r far to yound for anything sexual. You need to tell a teacher guys are touching ur bottom and tell them to stop. I am sure u r pretty but beuity is with in and u need to be a kid have fun. U dont not need bfs but u can have boys as mates as long as its only mates dont do anything u dont want to. It is very serious u will suffer in the long run and if they do touce or force sex which i hope there dont there are old either to be charched and but in a child camp which is very serious if u need or anything happens advice nators r here 4 u
be a kid and have fun
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What should I do? There's this girl who I used to go to school with and now I talk to her over the internet sometimes. I'm really confused, though, becasue every time she speaks to me via AOL she always comes out with stories about having epilepsy fits and stuff, not "Hi, how are you?", but "I had a fit in english yesterday... don't tell anyone." I'm really confused because I don't know if she's being honest about it or if she's just fishing for attention. Help! (link)
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i can c how u r confused she may be doing it 4 attendsion has she done this b4 when u was at school? talk to her and ask her y she is telling u. U need to b strong and form tell her ur feelings and how u feel noing that. Ask her to stop if u dont feel confable talking about it and get her to see a doctor or skeek advice from a nurse take care
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Me and my boyfriend are 17 and when we go to have sex his penis went soft a couple of times he got
embaressed about it next time i gave him a hand job and he got hard but he lost his erection after
a couple of minutes does this happen to guys often? im not sure what to do about it he really insecure. (link)
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ur bf must have been nervous guys sometimes fancy a girl so much that its the pressure to get everything right start slow kissing and be their for each other gd luck and take care
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what would u do if your son was at home. Crying all alone on the bedroom floor because he's hungry and the only way to feed is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money. (link)
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isnt that a snog???? but seriously this is 4 ppl with really problems
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