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My best friend
I am a 14 year old girl. I am moving... not very far... only about 30 minuetes away. well my parents say that i can got to the high school i was supposed to go to, with all my friends... my parents say that they will take me to the school for the first year and then i have to find my own ride or go to the other high school. well my friend think that i'm gonna meet new people and get into drugs... i keep promising her that i won't but her last friend did and that's what she thinks is gonna happen to me! My parents really don't care about what i think. and they don't care if i loose my best friend. What should i do?
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well maybe you should find a way to hang out with your friend an get a ride with her to school and you could keep each other posted over the telephone.
Shane Yoho out!
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ur best friend is affair of losing u . She lost a friend who moved and got intoo drugs that must of hurt he and been very worried for her. Talk to ur friend and explain u express ur views on drugs and reasure her of ur friendship. She is being protective of u and its hard for her if u move. Go out and have fun and cheer her up.
i hope my advice helps a little
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Your friend is upset with you for leaving her. She is giving herself reasons not to be your friend. Just remind her you are not moving that far away, and you will still be going to the same school, so there is really nothing to worry about. Why would she think you would leave her for friends that do drugs? She is your best friend and knows you better than to do that.
And I am sure your parents do care and want you to be happy. Thats why they are willing to drive you to the school you want to go to. Don't worry about how you will get there next year, that's a long time away. You'll find a solution.
Good luck, and stop being so bummed!
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Well, you should tell your friend that you are not this other person that she keeps comparing you to. You are a totally different person. Have fun for the year that your parents are allowing you to stay in your normal school and say all your good-byes. You are going to have to go to a new school because driving a half hour away for school puts alot on your parents. They most likely feel that is better for you to take the school bus to your new school (after the year in your normal school) and meet new people. You are young still and you will meet many people along the way. No matter how far you move your best friend should understand that she is always going to be your best friend no matter how far apart you 2 are. If you have not gone into the drug scene then you most likely won't, just because you move does not mean the school or the new people you meet are all going to be bad. You just need to suck it up and take on these new experiences head on. You will feel weird at first in the new school but you will get use to it and you will make new friends but insure your best friend that you 2 will always be best friends no matter what!
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