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My friends have left me
I used to have really good friends, they were the best friends you could ever have! But one day at the beach there was this person we met, and she was really nice to us so we got to know her really well and became good friends with her. Suddenly I find that my so called good friends have replaced me with this girl now, I can't even squeeze between them to say something. They totally ignore me completely and won't even pay attention to me anymore. I decided that I didn't need them anymore and I should go make new friends, but that doesn't seem to work either. For some reason almost everyone I meet can't accept me for who I am, and I don't want to change for them. Any advice? Thank you!
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get at least one of ur friends and tell them how you feel.then get them to say to the group that just because you meet a new friend dosen't mean you could just leave me out and forget about me ,,,,,,because i really want to be a part of this group and i wan to hve my friends back and hopefully they will make you a part of that group and you will have your friends back
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People change and just become different with time. It is really difficult to keep good friends forever. Your friends may want to hang out with you again, but you will probably never have the same kind of relationship again.
Just be patient. Eventually you will find other friends that accept you. Keep doing things that you enjoy, and you will meet like minded people.
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u much b finding it real hard. Im sorry ur friend did this to u i think mosty of us experance this! have u tryed meetin friends at a club , health club, or doing on of ur hobies dont try to hard say hello to ppl and if u see a nice group of girls go up to them and ask to join in. U dont need to be accepted or approved u need to b a gd person and most importantly b urself
i hope u make new friends soon
gd luck
by friend2all
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Good. Never, ever change to gain anyone's approval. Someone once said "If you go out trying to find a friend, you may find that you fail. But, if you go out trying to BE a friend, you'll have a lot less trouble." Or something along those lines. You will find people who appreciate you for who you really are. I notice you didn't say "everyone" - you said "almost" everyone. That means there are people out there who do care! You don't have to have thousands of friends...just a few who really care. =) Good luck with all this!
-Siren
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