Q: 13/f

My best friend *lets call her Megan* just recently told me that she got raped by her brother and cousin. Her brother was removed from the family but she didn't tell the police. I'm very worried for her. I wanna tell an adult but she said she'll kill herself, so i didn't. I guess what I'm asking for is whether I should consult someone. Please help.

Thanks in advance

Q: What does it mean if you give someone your heart? Like, I got a question from my bf; it said 'if I gave you my heart would you love it or let it go'.

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Q: I'm 14 years old and a female.
I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for 4 months now and at first he was so sweet and really nice to me. Over time he started getting mad at the littlest things,, like how I dressed or did my make-up. He would call me a whore or a slut and other things, and about a month after that he bcame abusive. He would always loose his temper and hit me. Never in front of anyone though, and he just got worse and worse but I never told anyone. So after school yesterday I tried to break up with him, he got so mad and punched me. He said if I ever tried to break up with him again I would regret it. After he left I was just sitting in the hallway crying when this guy I really liked(I didn't know him that well but I like him even before I had a boyfriend)came p to me and knelt beside me and asked me if I was okay. I tried lieing to him, telling him I tripped and fell but he wouldn't by it.(I'm guessing my black eye gave him a hint) He asked me if my boyfriend did this to me and I said yes. He lives close to the school so he asked me if I wanted to go to his house to get cleaned up and I said yes. When we got there he helped me wash the cut and everything and we started talking. He asked me if it was the first time my boyfriend did this to me and I told him no, then I told him everything. For some weird reason I trusted him. He walked me home and when we got their he hugged me and then he kissed me. He said he would take care of my boyfiend. I ddn't really know what he meant but I let it go. I was to happy he kissed me. I was late to school the next day, but when I got their I was just in time to see the fight between my boyfriend and the other guy (Lets call him Matt). They were broken up by the police officer. They were both pretty beat up.Both of them got sent to the principals office. Matt got suspended for a week, and my boyfriend 3 weeks. (He has previos fighting records)I caught Matt as he was leavigng and asked him why he would get in a fight over me. All he said was "I love you and I couldn't stand to see you hurt like that" and he walked away. What should I do I really need help.

Q: Okay my exboyfriend from like a year ago likes me again, I was the one who broke up with him in the first place. Well now that he likes me again or has finally admitted it, I realize i still like him too and that i never felt the same with any other guy i went out with. I went out with him for a year and a half or so and i broke up with him because of what my friends said he did. Then he went out with this girl that i hated and then he started to never talk to me because of this girl. Well they broke up a long time ago and now he says he wants me back, but i was reading a myspace comment or something from him to her and he was still saying that he loved her while he was saying that he "really loved me and he wanted me back so bad" well i thought he was telling the truth at first.. but i know that she is trying to make it so that we dont get out because she was the first one to get mad at him when he said he liked me, but she is trying to make me think bad things about him and i can tell by the way she talks... So what should i do? i WANT to go back out with him but then i dont want to! i have like no clue what is going on! all i know is that i like him again and someone is trying to make us not like each other! well i think thats all, sorry its long but thanks! ♥♥

Q: Ok, i really like this guy at school, but my close friends really hate him (he rejected them), and so i went to my other friends, and they were shocked, and not in a good way. I like the guy alot, and he flirts with me. I havent told my close friends, and i really want to, bacuse i always tell them. What should i do? I really need advice!

Q: So, my best guy friend, told me that like all the guys like me, & i kinda figured it, because they act like they do. & i'm 14, so yano how guys are kinda at that stage, where basically all of them like sluts? well, how do i make some of these guys like me.. because i really like them.

help?

Q: 18/F

Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. I really want to lose my virginity to him. He is not a virgin but obviously I am.

I've talked to him about it and he says its my decision and he will stand behind which ever I make. (Wait or Not Wait)

Half of me wants to do something, then the other half is just like worried. I know I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with this man.

What do you guys thimk I should do?

Also, I heard you bleed a lot when you lose it. He has a rather large penis. So will I bleed heavy like on my period? Or just a little? And if I put my pants on afterwards, will I bleed threw my pants?

Thanks.

Q: Okay.

So, I've realized I have a fishy smell "down there"

What caused it?
How can I get rid of it?

Um...like you can get rid of it right? Its not gonna smell like this forever??

PLEASE HELP! I'm worried.

Q: I met these two guys (who happen to be roommates) in one of my classes back in October and the three of us have become really good friends. But I've started to develop a little crush on one of them, and we flirt constantly. People have made remarks about how we act like we're already together (due to the constant bickering and teasing that occurs) but I also realize that people are just people, and they don't really know the situation. People tend to be wrong about those things anyway.

The three of us work at the same place, go to school together and hang out pretty much every day, outside of the previous two. But Lee, the one that I'm starting to fall for, and I have hung out a few times alone, and we have the best time. We always end up resting out heads on each other's shoulders when we watch tv/movies, and recently he's taken to tickling me as his new method of winning our arguments.

At the same time, he has a girlfriend back home (we both moved away from our respective homes for college) that he's been with for 5 years, and so I'm really not sure what to make of any of this. My head tells me that I'm just setting myself up for a big fall, but there's something about the way we are when we're together that just makes me feel like it's right. he's the most genuinely nice guy I've ever met (let me tell you, I've met some real keepers...) and the fact that he can always make me laugh (and vice versa) is a plus as well. I guess I just don't know if I should trust myself when I think that this feels right.

Any advice? Anything at all? I've gotten myself into another mess here, haven't I?

Q: there was this guy that is a little scary that goes to my school. i found out that he liked me from a guy at school and that he was going to ask me out soon. during a volleyball practice he was waiting for me after i changed and i avoided him. for the next two days i avoided him. he ended up asking me out at lunch and i freaked and turned him down really harsh. it was awkward for about a month, but now he'S talking to me and i feel really bad about what i did. what should i say to him???

Q: Ok...so im not a virgin but everytime ive had sex i told the guy to keep my bra on. My reasoning for that is my boobs look bigger in my bra and i dont want it to be a disappointment when it comes off. I really hate it because my boobs look like they are like an A when my bras off. What should i do about that? And my other problem is you know how people have hair on there stomach? Well since im full italian mine is like dark so it kind of grosses me out what can i do about that cuz that also bothers me?

Q: 16/f. my religion tells us not to have sex until we are married, and i plan on sticking to that. im possibly going to a get a boyfriend soon though, and i dont know how to tell him that im waiting. what are some excuses of why i cant have sex with him besides my religion and i dont want to?

Q: well im almost 14 and i just started masterbating a little. it feels good but i feel like i shouldn't be doing it.

i was with my friends and they were talking about it and saying how gross it was. i was just like playing along and agreeing even though i do it.

am i too young?.. is there anyone my age that does it too?

thanks in advanced

Q: Well me and my girlfriend have been together a pretty long time now and we both care for each other more than anything. Well we are BOTH virgins but we are sexualy active with one another like not oral but with hands and stuff lol. Well the only thing we are worried about is when we do actually "do it" that i will hurt her and i want to know how i may NOT hurt her or just ease the pain of hurting her. Please help me. Thanx

Q: okay so my boyfriend wants to finger me and so far hes felt me through like sweatpants.. but next time we hang out.. he wants to go in my pants and i dont mind.. except.. what does he expect to find as far as pubic hair goes? we never talked about it because i dont want to bring it up.. should i shave it or trim or what???

16/f. thanks

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Well I met this guy at the dog park. He's incredible, and we totally hit it off. Then, this afternoon, we made plans to meet again, and we did, and though we didn't talk as much (there were other people there we were talking to) I had an incredible time. He's one of my myspace friends, should I message him and tell him I had fun, or would that be wierd? Should I wait a while? How long should I wait to see if he wants to hang out again?

Also I'm 18 and he's 24, do you think he'll think I'm too young? Ah this is so crazy I'm so infatuated with him.

Q: Im really falling for this guy right now his name is dez. He really listens to me and doesn't ignore me like all the other guys i dated. The only problem is he libes in georgia and i live in washington dc. Im really falling in love with him. What should I do you guys.

Q: okay, so i'm one of those girls that has a lot of guy friends. Well, one of my guy friends likes me, but i don't like him. i've told him that, but he constantly hugs me, puts his arm around me, etc. i try to be nice and just shrug it off, but it keeps happening. And it'd just be awkward if i said something about it. What on earth do i do?

also, i went to a party that he and his friend went to, and his friend is one of my really good friends, and he and i hung out a lot, and the guy who likes me got a little ticked.

i really really just want him to not like me. it's too difficult! Any suggestions as to what i should do?

Q: I hate my friends, i have a little group of friends and ther names are kiera,karrie,chloe and danielle. Danielle was moved into our class because we have moved up to high school and she wasn't put with anyone she liked, anyway Danielle is taking kiera away from me now because when we have to work in pairs chloe goes with carrie and keira goes with danielle so i am left out, i have to go and work with the least popular person in the school.
I am not popular at all and i am not a total reject but my question is how can i get keira to be my friend again and be best friends with me? should i even bother?

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