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Question Posted Sunday November 19 2006, 1:54 am

okay, so i'm one of those girls that has a lot of guy friends. Well, one of my guy friends likes me, but i don't like him. i've told him that, but he constantly hugs me, puts his arm around me, etc. i try to be nice and just shrug it off, but it keeps happening. And it'd just be awkward if i said something about it. What on earth do i do?

also, i went to a party that he and his friend went to, and his friend is one of my really good friends, and he and i hung out a lot, and the guy who likes me got a little ticked.

i really really just want him to not like me. it's too difficult! Any suggestions as to what i should do?

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Raeden answered Sunday November 19 2006, 12:55 pm:
Talk to him again, one on one, in person. Tell him that you're really not into him that way and just see him as a friend, and that him hugging you and putting an arm around you and stuff like that makes you feel a bit uncomfortable and ask him to stop doing that. Try to tell it in a nice way, but be clear about it.
If that doesn't work, just tell him to stop doing that when it happens. It might be awkward, but mostly awkward for him, and it is his own fault if he keeps doing it.
You can't unfortunately, make him not like you, but you can try to get him to not act on it.

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god-smusgrove answered Sunday November 19 2006, 5:55 am:
start goin out with his best friend.

just kidding!!

any way talk to him face to face

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stephanerd answered Sunday November 19 2006, 3:18 am:
You can try punching him in the face :)

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thefish answered Sunday November 19 2006, 3:17 am:
You say if you speak up it will be awkward, but isn't it awkward already? The only way to stop this is to tell him. You have to set boundaries. You don't like him touching you in that way, and you need to make sure he knows that. If you continue to be nice about it, he's only going to think that you want him to do it. Telling him flat out is the only way to get it through his head.


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PointlessPenguin answered Sunday November 19 2006, 2:30 am:
You could get somebody who knows both you and the guy that likes you to tell him that he's wasting his time hitting on you. In a nice way, without him knowing you send that person to say it.

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duckieh20lol answered Sunday November 19 2006, 2:06 am:
Dear u,

I think u should give the guy a chance if it does not work out stay friends and tell u dont like that he puts his arm around u

P.S:If that does not work write me back!

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