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Dont wanna hurt her!
Well me and my girlfriend have been together a pretty long time now and we both care for each other more than anything. Well we are BOTH virgins but we are sexualy active with one another like not oral but with hands and stuff lol. Well the only thing we are worried about is when we do actually "do it" that i will hurt her and i want to know how i may NOT hurt her or just ease the pain of hurting her. Please help me. Thanx
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maybe you should go slower than usaul and you just suck each other.in that way nobody is gonna hurt.email me for more at bekoe1994@yahoo.com
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Dear u,
If you do doit. Its going to hurt her a little. there's really nothing you can do. Its so awsome you care for her in that way.
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P.S: your so nice
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It's probably going to hurt her a little, there's nothing you can do about that. To try to ease the pain, use a lubricant. It'll be smoother with less friction, but it'll help keep her comfortable.
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You can't make her be relaxed, as the person below me stated. Any girl that's having sex for the first time is going to be nervous and tense up. There is no way of getting around it.
Some find the first time painful, others think it's just uncomfortable, and then some may think it actually feels good. This usually depends on the girl's size. Petite girls usually find sex more painful, while bigger girls may not think it hurts at all.
If you want your girlfriend's first time to hurt less, there are a few things you can do.
- Wear an extra lubricated condom.
- Use a lot of KY Jelly.
- Finger her before trying to penetrate.
You can do all or some of the above tips. Try each one by itself and if you are still having a hard time, stop. Ask her to masturbate when you aren't around to loosen herself up a bit. Everytime you see her, finger her. Eventually try sticking two fingers in her. If you can do that and it doesn't hurt her, try penetrating again. Eventually it will go in. It's frustrating, but it will get easier.
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Wow id love to have a guy like you ^^
Your clearly very caring and there is unfortuneatly noway too stop the pain but you can ease it a little.
Make sure you use protection! - The lube on the ouside of the condom will help make it easier.
'Finger her' - Loosen up her muscles
Make sure shes ready - If she isnt then shes going to be tense and the pain will seem somewhat more painful.
Other lube - buy some lube ..the slippier the easier.
Hope I Helped <3 LittleMooCow ^^
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