Question Posted Saturday November 18 2006, 11:20 pm
Well I met this guy at the dog park. He's incredible, and we totally hit it off. Then, this afternoon, we made plans to meet again, and we did, and though we didn't talk as much (there were other people there we were talking to) I had an incredible time. He's one of my myspace friends, should I message him and tell him I had fun, or would that be wierd? Should I wait a while? How long should I wait to see if he wants to hang out again?
Also I'm 18 and he's 24, do you think he'll think I'm too young? Ah this is so crazy I'm so infatuated with him. <3
No, I don't think that'd be weird at all to message him now. He might even find it flattering that right after hanging out with him, that you had so much fun and that he's still on your mind and everything.
I would just message him and be like,"Hey, I had a grea time tonight. We really need to do this again. :)" And then just wait for a response from him. And don't think he hates you or anything if he doesn't respond for awhile. Guys aren't so quick to respond to these things and unless they're like, a myspace whore ( which you don't want him to be ), he might not go on that much.
He also might be impressed with you making the first moves - the first messaging, the incinuating of the hanging out and everything. Sometimes guys like it when a girl takes charge instead of them always having to do it all the time - shows confidence. If you do decide to do that, just make sure you're not like confidence overload and then you start to be viewed as full of yourself & controling.
And just flirting and keep hanging out with him, and see where it goes. :)
DepthofHeart answered Sunday November 19 2006, 10:00 pm: First off I don't think your to young, it's legal isn't it? My friend is 15 and shes hoing out with a guy who's 25. Also you should message him, and see when he wants to hang out again. I you wait to long he might get the wrong idea and think you don't like him. [ DepthofHeart's advice column | Ask DepthofHeart A Question ]
XkittyOkatX answered Sunday November 19 2006, 12:15 pm: I'd go and tell him, don't worry if he thinks something about it. Just write that you had a good time, and then mention something you did, make a joke about it.
Raeden answered Sunday November 19 2006, 7:51 am: You should have messaged him already ;)
And you shouldn't wait too long, the longer you wait the higher the chance he thinks you're not interested in him. Don't be too eager though. After you do something fun you can say something like "we should do this again sometime", and then see if he comes up with something, and if not you can ask him to hang out or whatever you want to do a day or two later. [ Raeden's advice column | Ask Raeden A Question ]
Bayani answered Sunday November 19 2006, 1:10 am: I think if you really like him then you should send the message and ask to hang out again. If you dont want him to know you like him say it so it dosent sound like you like him. Hope this helps [ Bayani's advice column | Ask Bayani A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Sunday November 19 2006, 1:08 am: Deffinitly message him. Just say The other day was great, hope we can hang out again! Just something sweet and simple. Dont worry, if he likes you a lot he wont worry about your age. If it takes a while for him to ask you out, then you could always ask him out, its really brave and guys like it. Hope i Helped! Good luck!
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